Regarding the matter of letting dad take the baby, many people feel unreliable when they hear it.
Is it really that bad for dad to take a baby?
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Dad immersed himself in taking the baby for a day
You will understand your mother's heartache
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Turning over the video, it is a baby father who records the whole process of taking the baby when his wife is sick.
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Get up at 8:35 a.m., take the noisy "wrong seed" (the father's nickname for his son) away, and let the sick wife continue to rest. When brushing his teeth, he cried and cried, and used small cards to distract his son with small cards after threatening uselessness with his feet.
At 8:50, he fed water to the "wronged seed", and the "wronged seed" drank a few sips of water to continue to cry, immediately looked threatening, but still chose to hug his son shallowly, and changed his clothes after 5 minutes and prepared to go out.
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At 9:10, push the stroller to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, buy a breakfast on the side of the road at 9:25, buy some fruit by the way, and then push the "unjust seed" back home, cry on the road "wronged seed", and hurry up the pace to go home.
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After arriving at the elevator, I had a palpitation in my heart, and I was also happy for my wit (speeding up the pace to the elevator, my son did not cry, and he did not have to hold the baby by himself).
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When I got home, I put down all kinds of things and had breakfast with the "wronged seeds" at 9:55. If the "unjust seed" does not eat it, he will say: If you do not eat it myself, the whole "unjust seed" will be confused.
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After eating, I hugged the baby in one hand and cleaned up my things with the other, and I couldn't love it.
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10:15 Hugging and coaxing the "wrong seed", falling asleep after 10 minutes, putting the "wrong seed" next to the wife who is still sleeping, feeling that he has finally been liberated, happy to the point that his facial features fly.
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At 11 o'clock, the wife and son were still asleep, and it was time to make lunch.
At 12:00, make lunch and eat with your wife and children. During the period, the "unjust seed" did not cooperate with the meal, saying that you would not eat my own food, and at 12:20, he continued to feed the "wrong seed" to eat, and after eating the meal, he felt that the "wrong seed" was dirty and gave him a bath, and then cleaned the battlefield (washing dishes, washing bibs, mopping the floor).
12:45 After doing housework, get a short free time and be happy enough to fly.
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13:35 "Wronged Seed" is full of energy, and Dad is tired. The wife was uncomfortable and continued to rest, and the father took out the universal small card to raise the child, taught twice, and let the "wrong seed" learn by himself.
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13:50 In the case of "wronged seeds" is still entertaining himself, Dad seized the opportunity to work on the computer.
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14:05 Holding the baby to work, the "wronged seed" keeps making trouble. Worried about the wife's body to check the wife's situation, the son's chickens and dogs jumped and cried and made trouble, and continued to coax the baby while working.
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15:22 Nucleic acid test back "wronged seed" finally fell asleep, Dad online crashed!
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The short video of less than 6 minutes condenses the various mental fatigues of dad's day with the baby (oh no, it is not yet a day, and taking the baby at night is also quite a test of willpower).
But this is every day after day with the baby, every day is repeating the tiredness, repeating the mentality collapse and rebuilding.
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Understand the husband who works hard for his wife
Families can be happier
After getting married and having children, many women will have an epiphany of regret. Obviously, before marriage, the two people were sweet and loving, but after marriage, they gradually became a couple of resentments.
They all say that marriage is the graveyard of love, but I think that children are the "culprits" who beat the mandarin ducks.
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When a child arrives suddenly, even parents who are ready for a new life will still be in a hurry, and they will always encounter more problems than they do in advance.
At this time, if the husband and wife do not handle each other's relationship well and adjust their mentality, it is difficult for the newly formed small family to have happiness at all.
Just like in the hit drama "Our Marriage" some time ago, Shen Huixing and Sheng Jiangchuan are like this.
After giving birth, Shen Yanxing decided to be a full-time wife in order to better raise and take care of her daughter, and fully supported her husband's career, so that he had no worries.
(Image source: TV series "Our Marriage")
However, after 6 years with the baby, just when Shen Huixing sent her daughter to primary school and felt that she could return to the workplace to work hard, her husband Sheng Jiangchuan was strongly opposed.
(Image source: TV series "Our Marriage")
He also said with great shame: with his own strength, he has realized the consumption upgrade of the whole family and led the whole family across a class. There is no mention of Shen's hard work and effort.
Their backlog of contradictions exploded in an instant, and the marriage almost ended.
(Image source: TV series "Our Marriage")
It can be seen that the mother has been wronged in the family, and these backlogged grievances have not been understood by the husband, and over time it will be transformed into complaints and dissatisfaction with the husband, and the husband is still unaware.
This will not only affect the relationship between husband and wife, but also make the whole family atmosphere worse and worse.
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On the contrary, if the husband can understand the hardships of the wife, psychologically identify with the wife, and think that the wife's contribution to the family is indelible.
In this way, the wife will not suffer from gains and losses, no sense of security and self-worth, and will in turn be more considerate of the husband and support the husband's career, so that the marriage can be happy.
Just like later, Sheng Jiang Chuan suddenly woke up, and their marriage could continue to operate and give each other happiness.
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Dad has many benefits with a baby
Mom is happy, the whole family is happy
Dad with the baby may really have a lot of deficiencies, but fortunately, there are thick and thin, and the key moment will not drop the chain.
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Although it seems careless to take the baby, it can stand up for the first time when the child encounters danger.
On the surface, he said that he was disgusted, but he would still hug and comfort the child when he was crying.
Although pit babies are a good hand, children may enjoy it.
And experts also say that there are many benefits for fathers to bring babies, and children can not only better liberate their nature (all say that men have a child living in their hearts), but also learn dad's thinking mode, dad's bravery, responsibility, and broad.
Therefore, for their own happiness, mothers should also give their fathers a little more trust, take advantage of the epidemic to isolate at home, and quickly cultivate their fathers' ability to bring their babies.
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Not only can bao dad experience the hardships of bringing a baby, enhance the feelings of husband and wife, but also be able to relax himself, but also let the child gain a lot. Count in one fell swoop, why not enjoy it~
Of course, if Bao Dad can take the initiative to take on some things such as taking care of the baby and doing housework, the effect will be better! With this kind of ideological awareness, there is still a reason for the family to be unhappy
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What do you think about Daddy with Baby? How to make dads willing to take more babies, and what experience you mothers have can also share.
A good marriage needs to be managed together, and if you want to have a long-term marriage and happiness, start with your father with more children
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