Fatherly self-discipline! Bao Dad quit internet addiction and became a "muscle man" to set an example for his son

The Biological Significance of Fathers tracks the growth of 11,000 babies over a period of 50 years and concludes that the role of father has a profound impact at different stages of a child's life.

During the period of working from home, stay-at-home weight loss and fitness were extremely popular. There are many parents in the sugar mother's circle of friends, taking their children to dance the "Compendium of Materia Medica" together.

At first, everyone was very active, but few people persevered, and finally returned to the state of huddled on the couch watching TV and playing games.

Playing games is both easy and fun compared to fitness. Not only will children be addicted to it, but many parents will not be able to resist the temptation of games. However, there is such a dad who is determined to make a change and is very successful.

Bao Dad successfully quit Internet addiction and became a "fitness expert"

Mr. Zhong of Zhejiang is a chef and a heavy fan of games. Even with a baby, he will often play games until one or two o'clock in the evening, which shows that the Internet addiction is very large.

Maybe at first he found pleasure in some and relieved himself of the pressure, but gradually he felt that his body was about to be destroyed, and it was time to make a change.

It happened that at that stage, Mr. Zhong's son was about to enter elementary school. Considering that it could not affect the child, Mr. Zhong decided to put down his mobile phone and start working out.

At home, in the community, on the side of the road, Mr. Zhong kept exercising, and slowly, from a senior game enthusiast, he became a "muscle man" in everyone's eyes, and was properly a fitness expert.

From the fitness picture he shared, it can be seen that the fitness effect is still very good. His son has a "Popeye" dad and will be safe.

After Sharing the reasons and experiences of fitness, Mr. Zhong received unanimous praise. I didn't expect what seemed like ordinary fitness to be so popular.

Turning my son into a fitness guru is the coolest reason I've ever seen

There can be many reasons to work out, in order to get in shape, for health and strength, etc. But the reason for "going to the gym for my son" is the power of father's love, which is really cool.

Some people said bluntly: "This father can deal with it, he will really set an example for his children", which shows how much everyone recognizes his behavior.

Although this father is improving himself, his influence on his children has been unanimously praised. Many people have shared their experiences, and it turns out that everyone has the same excellent father.

One of the most common experiences is that the father quit smoking habits for many years in order to save money and make the child grow up healthier.

There are also some fathers who are determined to quit drinking after the birth of their children, just to make themselves more sober to protect and take care of their children.

Nowadays, there are more and more young parents, and their habits and preferences are different from those of the past. This dad quit games, just like his parents in the past quit smoking, drinking and playing mahjong, which looks funny, but in fact, it is very serious.

However, there are still many parents who are not aware of their own influence on their children, because it is enough to escape or stay away, but in fact, it is only to get a temporary ease.

"Fatherly self-discipline" is the best example for children

Seeing that the baby is willing to make changes for the child, Sugar Mom can't help but think of the father who lived on the balcony some time ago.

The same habit of playing games and smoking, he did not correct it, but chose to live separately from his wife and children. I'd rather be nestled in a small balcony and have free time to play games.

The balcony and the room are separated by a glass door, and the wife and children can see the father every day, but it is difficult to eat and sleep together.

This kind of behavior is not to say that people are married, and even people who have not yet fallen in love cannot look at it. Spitting on him is not only an unqualified father, nor is he a qualified husband.

The things that take care of and discipline children in life always seem to be that mothers do more. Many men may not have time to do it, or they may not know how to do it.

In the child's heart, Dad is a superhuman being. Especially when the child is relatively young, regardless of the quality of the father, the child will automatically treat him as a role model.

Therefore, allowing yourself to become self-disciplined will unconsciously affect the child, and on the road of parenting, the "self-discipline of fatherly love" is equivalent to the child's meaningful and most influential example.

Dad quits internet addiction and becomes a "muscle man", and the child will change accordingly

When the dad who loves to play games starts to work out and successfully transforms into a muscle man, the children in the family will also change.

Now Mr. Zhong looks very strong, and many people joke that when the child sees his father's muscles, he does not dare to have a rebellious period, otherwise it is very painful to be beaten.

Sugar Mom would like to say that after Dad becomes a fitness expert, the child may indeed become obedient and not addicted to games at home, but not succumb to the strength of Dad's muscles.

Mr. Zhong said at the beginning that the purpose of his fitness is not to let his children be affected by games, but also to set an example for children, which is worth learning from parents.

Imagine if Mr. Zhong often played games in front of the children, but did not let the children touch the games, this disciplinary sentence would have no power.

Setting an example for children is more effective than preaching and scolding

What parents can do represents the right direction in their children's hearts. If parents hold hands to play games, but let the children go to school, the child will most likely question in his heart, why can you play I can't play.

Many times, children are not easy to manage not because the children are stubborn, but because there is no good example around. Parents are full of bad habits, have no majesty to talk about in front of their children, and even be disliked and criticized by their children.

Instead of spending time and effort to keep teaching children and educating children in a scolding way, it is better to let yourself make changes first.

Whether it is a father or a mother, if you want your child to become a kind of person, parents themselves must first become what kind of person, and the effect of educating children will be much better.

Candy Mother's Heart:

Dad is a first-time dad, give them a chance, they are willing to correct their own deficiencies. Maybe he didn't have the motivation before, but after having children, he is willing to make changes and is a good father.

【Today's topic】Do you have a father around you who is a good example for your children?