A survey of the living conditions of single mothers has found that about 80% of single mothers cannot get living expenses from their ex-husbands.
Divorce seems to be nothing new these days, and many women have the courage to live alone with their babies. They are not afraid of how tired it is to take care of their children, and what they are most afraid of is that they will not be able to give their children a good life.
However, it is difficult for single mothers to make money, and those who become elite single mothers are only a minority. Many single mothers around Sugar Mother live a helpless and sad life.
After the 80s, single mothers take their 2-year-old sons to set up stalls, and children are often "tethered"
People with children should know that it is very difficult to do other things when taking a baby, and it may not be easy to eat at home sometimes. But this post-80s single mother, Ms. Du, wants to take her 2-year-old son alone and go out to set up a stall to make money.
Some time ago, a single parent in Henan became popular, and at first everyone saw that the desserts she made were very appetizing, praising her skill, and business acumen.
However, when everyone saw the child lying under the cart, complex emotions such as heartache and anger surged into their hearts, and while saying words of comfort and encouragement, they accused the child's father of being irresponsible.
From the picture, you can see that the child is sitting obediently under the car. Sometimes snacking, sometimes sleeping, when the business is busy, Ms. Du will use a safety rope to tie the child.
This scene is too painful for everyone to watch, but the child does not seem to feel hard, and shows an innocent smile in front of the camera. It can be seen that when he is around his mother, he is always happy.
While praising Ms. Du for being able to fight, people also angrily asked where the child had gone? If he had given enough living expenses, the mother and son would not have to suffer in this way.
Single mother with baby stall, where did the child's father go?
Regarding the details of the child's father, Ms. Du did not tell too much. But she responded that she was alone when she was pregnant, and she started setting up a stall 5 months after giving birth to the baby, until now.
As a mother, she is very distressed that her children are running with her. But in order to make money to raise a baby in order to live, I have no choice but to do this. Over time, children are used to such days.
Sugar Mom saw that many strangers, including some women who were also single mothers, were giving her encouragement.
"I am in a similar situation with you, the father is irresponsible, but the child is innocent, no matter how difficult it is, I will bring the child up alone." 」
Although the father is not around, I hope that the child can remember the mother's strength and dedication, and the mother has tried her best to give her the best life."
Maybe the child's father was unexpectedly absent, or maybe because of some things, Ms. Du and the person did not go to the end and chose to keep the child.
But no matter what, since I have taken my baby with me, I still hope that she can live a better life.
Single mothers with babies to set up stalls is not speculation, but forced by life
Nowadays, the network is developed, when single mothers take their children to set up stalls and become popular, sugar mothers see some doubts and think that they are hyping, in fact, in life, such single mothers are big.
When Sugar Mom was in college, she met a single mother with a baby stall. She used the carrier to carry the 1-year-old baby behind her back, skillfully making us egg cakes, and the cute baby attracted many students.
At that time, I was just a student, and my attention was only on the baby, and I thought this mother was very powerful. But when I became a mother myself, I felt very sad when I thought back on that picture.
People say that couples divorce after. One person with children and another person to give living expenses, the days will not be difficult. But the truth is that, as the data mentioned at the beginning of the article shows, 80% of single mothers need to earn their own living expenses.
There are also some single mothers who want to make money through themselves and give their children a better life. Let the child feel that the life of a single-parent family can also be full of hope.
Why are many people reluctant to give their children living expenses after divorce?
There was once a street interview with a man, if the custody of the children after the divorce went to the woman, would you give them a lot of living expenses?
Some people said that their children should always be responsible for him, and they should give their children living expenses, otherwise their conscience will not pass.
But there are also men who confide in their hearts, they feel that the child is not by their side, give him more money, and may not be rewarded when he is old, or they should consider it carefully.
The sugar mother has also seen a more real situation, which is that some men divorce and then remarry. They want to give living expenses, but because they have two families to support and their remarried wives are reluctant to do so, it becomes very difficult to provide living expenses.
Sugar Mom wants to say that no matter what reason the husband and wife can't get together in the end, the child is the most innocent one. If the living expenses are not given much, or not given at all, the child will also suffer.
At the end of the day, paying living expenses in a timely manner after a divorce is not only helping single mothers, but also allowing children to live a better life.
Candy Mother's Heart:
If you have a choice, everyone wants to give their children a complete home. I hope that single mothers can not only get the help of their ex, but also feel more warmth and convenience in society.
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