I believe that many mothers have a deep understanding that after giving birth to a child, they seem to be "old" faster, not only in a different shape, but even their appearance is more old, and their bodies are not as good as before.
However, as people's living conditions improve, many mothers also pay more attention to the maintenance of the body and the care of appearance, so we can often see some very young parents with children in life.
There will even be some situations that look like mother and child but are actually "elders", and in the near future, there are many elders who have aroused the envy of many parents on the Internet because of their young appearance.
The most beautiful "frozen age" grandmother became popular, holding her grandson like a mother and son
Some time ago, a photo of a netizen called "super young grandmother" quickly became popular on the Internet. This super young grandmother carried her grandson out of the mall and looked like a mother and son.
This young grandmother was dressed fashionably, and her appearance was completely invisible to the age of "being a grandmother". Watching her hold her grandson in her hand, people who don't understand the situation will really think that this is the "mother" of the child, not the "grandmother".
This has also caused many netizens to suspect, "Is she really the child's grandmother, not the mother?" And it is understood that this young woman is indeed the grandmother of the little baby. This makes many netizens express envy, and even many netizens joke: Grandpa is really happy.
And I believe that this little friend must have a lot of question marks in his heart: "Isn't your grandmother like this?" We can only answer in our hearts that "this is not the case", and our impression of grandma is "gentle and kind, amiable", not "mother, grandma is stupid and unclear".
So, what is it like to have a "frozen elder"?
"Frozen Dad" is often mistaken for a couple
Judging from the photos, it is completely unthinkable that this handsome man is actually her father, and there is still a difference of more than 25 years, and it is no wonder that some people think that they are a couple. And when you go out, your daughter often has to "solve" for others: this is really not my boyfriend, it is my father.
"Frozen age grandfather" and son like brothers, how to distinguish the grandson?
This frozen age grandfather not only looks young, but also the appearance of the father and the grandfather want to be close, the two people are very handsome, which makes many netizens express concern: "How can the grandson distinguish who is the father and who is the grandfather?" "。
The son of the "frozen age mother" said: He did not want to go out with his mother, afraid that he would not find a girlfriend
I believe that if they don't say it, no one really thinks they are mother and son, because this mother looks so young. It is reported that this mother is a fitness expert, has been more than fifty years old "advanced age", can not imagine?
His son said that because of his mother's young appearance, he generally did not go out with his mother because he was afraid that others would think it was his girlfriend.
The "frozen elder" wins face but embarrassed the child
It is undeniable that the youth of the elders is of certain benefit to the care of children, but because of the "youth" of the elders, it will also bring embarrassment to the children.
Children have no concept of age
"Seeing the young called uncle and aunt, the older called grandparents", I believe that many parents have used this sentence to have children, but if the elderly in the family look young, this will confuse the child's cognition, "Isn't the older one called grandparents?" Why is Grandpa so young that he can't be called Uncle? "
Kids will be embarrassed
Frozen elders can attract the attention of others, but for children, too much attention is not necessarily good, and the elders do not have the appearance of elders, children will be in an awkward situation.
Children will pursue "youth" too much
Due to the influence of the elders, children will also excessively pursue the appearance of youth, too heavy attention to appearance, such as starting to wear makeup when young, etc., which not only affects the child's learning, but also affects the child's normal growth, and can be concurrent with some problems such as "early love, plastic surgery" and so on.
epilogue
Although the "frozen age" elders have some negative effects on children, the advantages are still obvious, such as good health, more energy, and better communication with children. There are two sides to everything about children, and the most important thing is to see if parents can take advantage of them and avoid their disadvantages.
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