Dad took the initiative to coax the baby to sleep, and after more than ten seconds, he fell asleep first, snoring like thunder to make the baby speechless

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For the matter of coaxing the baby to sleep, I believe that many mothers will not be very relieved to hand over this task to the hands of the father. First, the fathers are physically strong, and it is easy to accidentally press the baby after falling asleep; in addition, when the baby is sleeping, he always coaxes himself to sleep first, and also makes a thunderous snoring sound, leaving the baby alone in the wind messy...

Dad coaxed the baby to sleep himself but fell asleep first, such as thunder snoring to make the baby collapse

Tuanzi's mother saw a video with such content when she brushed her mobile phone, and I think many mothers are deeply touched by such a situation:

On this day, Bao Dad offered to help coax the baby to sleep, and Bao Mom readily agreed, after all, she usually coaxed the baby to sleep, so she let the baby carry the child into the bedroom.

After only ten seconds, the mother heard in the living room that the baby in the bedroom did not cry or make trouble, and felt that Bao Dad was coaxing the baby to sleep. Unexpectedly, when I pushed the door and looked at it, I found that Bao Dad was snoring like thunder and was asleep, while the baby next to him was staring at two eyes with a big and loveless expression.

Looking at the baby who slept very soundly, and then looking at the baby who could not sleep because of the noise, the baby mother estimated that she was angry and helpless at that time.

Looking at the baby who slept very soundly, and then looking at the baby who could not sleep because of the noise, the baby mother estimated that she was angry and helpless at that time.

Why do many fathers always tend to put themselves to sleep when they coax their babies to sleep?

For such a situation, many mothers have a deep understanding, and almost every family has an unreliable "father". So why does the father always fall asleep on his own when he coaxes the child to sleep?

It is said that "Daddy takes the baby, just live". When fathers take their children, they are far less cautious and careful than mothers when they bring their babies, and they are more accustomed to "free range". Especially when you are sleeping, lying in bed together, as long as you don't cry or make trouble, it can be regarded as a sleep.

In addition, Dad's heart is relatively large, so it is easy to lie in bed together, and the speed of falling asleep is much faster than that of the baby.

At the same time, when coaxing the baby to sleep, adults will generally read some sleeping nursery rhymes or reading materials such as the Three Character Sutra, such reading materials are very boring in the eyes of adults, and reading and reading will make them sleepy.

Not only the father, the mother will also be sleepy, but the mother will worry about the child and always remind herself that she cannot sleep, and the father will choose to sleep directly.

Some fathers not only coax themselves to sleep when coaxing the baby to sleep, but even coax the baby, the more spirit the baby, such a way of coaxing sleep, really makes the mother feel very headache.

In Tuanzi's mother's house, I never had the luxury of expecting my father to put the baby to sleep, and at most I could take care of it. Because when the father is coaxing the baby, he is either accompanying the child to fight, or watching cartoons with the baby, and it is not strange to be mental

Dad coaxed the baby to sleep, and the more he coaxed, the more energetic, the reason is nothing more than the following two points

Dad is more likely to be too emotional

For the way of sleeping, storytelling is more common. Compared with the whispered voice of the mother telling the baby a story, the father prefers to be emotional and depressed when telling the child a story, as if he has entered the role of the story.

And the baby is also rendered by the father, and gradually begins to cheer and dance, plus the father always likes to show, likes to see the child admire his own look, so he tells the child more hard.

The final result is that the more the child listens, the more excited he is, and naturally there is no way to sleep quietly. It is because Dad first "went too deep into the drama" and was too emotional.

Dad was a kid who never grew up

Like "naughty" and "mischievous" seem to be only possessed by children's bodies, because they are relatively young and do not have much cognitive ability.

However, unlike moms, many dads are also children who have not yet grown up. They like to take advantage of the time before going to bed, play with their children, and coax their children to sleep is directly forgotten.

Compared to mom's sanity, dad is more like a child who never grows up.

Although dad is unreliable in sleeping, he still has to participate in childcare work

The child's small sleep time is short, if the father is more involved in the matter of coaxing, the mother can have more time to rest, better restore the discomfort caused by the postpartum, and the natural mood will be better.

In the process of coaxing, the father will also experience the hardship of taking the child, which will invisibly increase the feelings of the husband and wife, so that in the future child education process, the father will also take the initiative to assume more educational responsibilities.

In addition, in the matter of sleep, it seems that men sleep more "deeply" than women, children appear some slight movements, it is not easy to wake up, and many mothers sleep lightly, the baby wakes up when they move, it is difficult to rest well.

Tuanzi Mama wants to say:

In general, although it is sometimes very unreliable for fathers to take a baby, it is still recommended that fathers can participate more in the work of parenting, so that mothers can be adjusted, and can also give the family a long-term harmony and better educational atmosphere.