Studies have found that hugging relieves the baby's pain and soothes emotions.
"This little ancestor is too abrasive"! Sugar Mom has a colleague, who was recently upgraded to Bao Dad, and within a week of taking the baby, she was tortured to death.
Because his wife was still confinement, the task of holding and coaxing the baby usually fell on him. The little guy is cute, but in the words of a colleague, the kid is a bit of a "daddy".
Babies like to be "hugged and walked" by adults, and Bao Dad is overwhelmed
A few days after the baby is born, colleagues find that the little one has a special preference, that is, he likes to be held in the arms of an adult.
It is not enough to hold it in your arms, as long as the adult changes from a standing state to a sitting position, the baby can detect it with his eyes closed.
There is also a little colleague who can't figure it out, and when he holds him, he has to walk around, and the baby feels satisfied. Just stop or sit down and you'll hum and even cry.
Holding like this during the day, adults can barely accept it. But sometimes in the middle of the night, the baby also likes to be held while walking, and tosses several times throughout the night, and the colleague's novice father is physically and mentally tired.
He sometimes complains to everyone, he does not understand that he and his wife are more docile personalities, why would they give birth to such a grinding child? This is the complaint of the circle of friends.
After Sugar Mom saw it, she first thought he was a very responsible father. Because some mothers also have to coax their children in the month after giving birth to a baby.
The same problem, the couple no matter who encounters it is very distressed. In fact, it may not be the baby grinding, the little candy will also have this kind of requirement when he is a child, and the baby is bitter in his heart.
Babies who like to be held and walked may have these grievances
Small babies are naturally dependent on their parents, and seeking their parents' arms is their survival instinct. For the additional requirement of hugging and walking, new parents should find out the baby's pain as soon as possible while they are distressed.
1) Experience the sensation in your mother's belly
When the fetus is in the mother's belly, it often feels shaking. As long as the mother-to-be has a little movement, it can be captured by the fetus.
But after birth, when the baby does not move much, it is said that time is lying on the bed. When held in the arms of a family member, it is rare to experience this kind of shaking.
Another time he was carried by his parents and walked along, regaining the familiar feeling in his mother's belly. You will fall in love with your parents holding like this. He is not the pain of grinding people's babies, but he wants to feel safe.
2) Babies who like to walk while hugging are natural
Many parents do not know that the baby's small preference has been cultivated in the mother's belly.
The study found that when the expectant mother is standing and sitting, the fetal heartbeat frequency and fetal movement frequency are different. This is because walking while hugging stimulates your baby's abdominal sympathetic nerves.
Many babies are born with the habit of being in the stomach of pregnancy, and it is normal to still like to walk while holding and walking after birth.
3) Babies like different scenery
When a baby is born, even if it has poor eyesight, it does not like to stare at the monotonous ceiling all the time. So when parents carry them around, babies can see different colors and objects.
Some babies also show that they like to be held upright, because they can't see the scenery of different places on their own. Parents should be clear about this pain.
Will walking while hugging spoil your baby? Different situations
In recent years, the hug immunization method has been very popular, and the freshman year is when the baby needs to hug, deliberately not holding him. It is wrong to avoid him from developing bad habits of relying on adults.
Properly holding the baby will not only not spoil him, but also help to establish a sense of attachment and security.
This mode of hugging and walking is probably gradually changed when the baby can climb and walk, and the long should seize the opportunity and slowly get rid of it.
If you don't want your baby to develop this bad habit, it's not about refusing to hug, it's about timing and rhythm.
The baby in the confinement needs a sense of security, but this sense of security can also be wrapped up and gently shaken to make the baby feel "moving".
Don't pick up your baby directly every time he cries, many times parents just need to get close to him and pat him gently. Let him hear the voice of the adult, and he can soothe the emotions.
Worried about spoiling the baby while holding it, parents do this
If the baby has developed this habit, parents should not be anxious. He has not had this need for a long time, and if he does the following points, he can free his hands to a certain extent.
Slow adjustment: Parents can first slow down the speed of walking, let the baby slowly adapt to a more stable sleeping environment, and then switch from walking to standing and gently shaking.
Next, you can try to shake the baby gently from the standing position, while slowly sitting on the edge of the bed, shaking during the period do not stop. After allowing the baby to adapt step by step, it is easy to accept being "sitting and holding".
Adults adjust their attitude: Many parents are worried about disturbing the baby's sleep and dare not make a sound when holding him, in fact, it is easier for the baby to propose additional conditions.
The baby's sense of security is to always perceive that someone is around him, and parents can gently hum songs or talk to the baby when holding the baby, whether it is playing or sleeping.
Babies like to be held while walking, which is also an interaction with parents. Then when parents interact with their babies in another way, babies who don't walk around will also feel happy.
Proper use of "baby swaddling": This situation is best addressed during the baby's 3 months. For babies under 3 months of age, new dads can choose to wrap their babies in swaddling.
Not only can alleviate the baby's jumping reflex, but also to a certain extent, reduce the baby's feeling of flatulence, when the baby feels comfortable, naturally will not cry because of leaving the embrace.
Candy Mother's Heart:
It is the nature of the baby to need to be embraced, and the passage is very good, the baby is ten months in the mother's belly, two or three years in the arms of the parents, but in the eyes of the parents for a lifetime.
Don't skimp on our hugs when your baby needs them. A person is a little tired, so they take turns and cherish the time with the baby.
【Today's topic】Your baby, when he was a child, liked to be held and walked.