Elderly women in the mainland account for about 13.4% of the total number of pregnant women.
Women need companionship and protection the most when they face childbirth, but in reality, many women have experienced going to the hospital to wait for delivery and have children. Even the day after giving birth to the baby, you have to prepare to continue working to earn money.
This is not the dog blood plot that only exists in film and television dramas, but the sugar mother saw a real example during this time.
The elderly pregnant woman gave birth alone, but after the birth of the child, she found an excuse to leave
Ms. Shen, a 42-year-old pregnant woman in Hangzhou, took a taxi alone to the hospital to give birth. When I arrived at the hospital, I was already in a state of labor, and I gave birth to a male treasure in about half an hour.
The mother and child were safe, and the whole process was smooth, but the medical staff found that Ms. Shen's
There was no one around to accompany me.
However, in hospitals, this situation is very common, and doctors and nurses do not ask much. It wasn't until the day after Ms. Shen gave birth that everyone became nervous.
Ms. Shen told the nurse that she was in a hurry when she rushed to the hospital, and many things were not brought. I wanted to go home to get some spare items and return to the hospital, but the medical staff waited for a long time without seeing her return.
Everyone recalled that Ms. Shen's expression was a little confused, and she was very worried about his personal safety, so she called the police for help.
When ms. Shen was found, the police were shocked by the scene in front of them, but fortunately, Ms. Shen was safe, and the police were relieved.
Leaving the baby in the hospital is not abandonment, and elderly mothers have a lot of helplessness
When Sugar Mom saw that the woman had not returned after leaving, her heart was like everyone else, and a thought flashed by. Will she have abandoned her baby in the hospital? Later I felt that she was not such a mother.
It was late at night when Ms. Shen was found, lying alone in bed, her physical and mental condition not looking particularly good.
When she returned to the police station, she was taken care of by the police and ate hot noodles, and the silent Ms. Shen confided in everyone.
It turned out that this was already her third child, and she still had a pair of children and a sick husband in her hometown. So he also had to work outside the home when he was pregnant, and he was still doing odd jobs until the day before giving birth.
After she paid the hospital fee that day, only 200 yuan were left. So I was in a hurry, and I wanted to make money immediately after giving birth.
"What woman would like to be so open-minded"? Sugar Mom heard these words and really felt very sad. Yes, if it is not forced by life, how can you go to the hospital alone to give birth when there is no one to accompany you and no money on you?
Thinking of her various experiences in the hospital, Ms. Shen had an emotional breakdown and called herself really too difficult.
Through Ms. Shen's explanation, netizens understood that she had many difficulties. But I don't understand why I have to have a third child under such a difficult situation.
42 years old gave birth to the third child, some people understand some people complain
Also as a bao mom, Sugar Mom understands Ms. Shen's anxious mood to make money. But I also saw that many people complained that since the conditions were not good, they should not be pregnant with the 3rd baby.
What's more, when the postpartum period is weak, leaving the hospital alone the next day is a very dangerous behavior. This is also irresponsible for one's own body.
In fact, Ms. Shen is aware of her situation, she said that she is willing to continue to work hard for the sake of her family and children, and asks for donations from everyone, but hopes to get a stable job.
From this, it can be seen that she is not a confused woman. In fact, every family situation is different, and she has tried her best to achieve this level.
There was no need to condemn her choice, maybe she just wanted to slow down and then continue on the road of working to earn money.
I hope that the pregnant mother who gives birth alone can get more warmth
When Sugar Mom gave birth, she also saw women in the hospital who went alone to give birth. The mother-in-law's family was far away and could not come in time. The husband can't get out of his work and can't accompany him.
At this time, other pregnant mothers or women who have given birth here will lend a helping hand.
For example, help her run errands to buy some supplies, and take her own diapers or milk powder to the baby. These warmths will make the pregnant mother who gives birth to a baby alone no longer be so sad.
Ms. Shen repeatedly mentioned that doctors and nurses would help her when she was in the hospital. She couldn't eat herself, the nurse gave her bread to eat, and even the diaper was bought with the help of the big sister next door.
Now she has received initial help and is living with her children at home. The state of the previous emotional breakdown was much better, and a rare smile appeared on his face.
It is not easy for a woman to wander outside, pregnant to earn money for the family's children and husband, she is under great pressure physically and mentally.
I hope that Ms. Shen can safely "confinement", the postpartum recovery of elderly women is very difficult, and it is very difficult to raise their bodies well to think about making money, otherwise they will be exhausted.
Candy Mother's Heart:
All in all, hopefully her and the children's lives will get better and better. If possible, return to the child early and not wander outside like this.
【Today's topic】Are there people around you who are similar to Ms. Shen?