Between 2018 and 2020, the proportion of three children was 9.5%, 11.0% and 12.4%, respectively.
When Sugar Mom chatted with her girlfriend some time ago, she mentioned a high school classmate who heard that she had given birth to three children.
She spelled three children, in fact, we are not too surprised. After all, her own family conditions are very good, after graduation, she also marries a rich man, and she can afford to have 3 children.
However, there are still many people in life who fight for three children, so that parents are worried about it, and even outsiders are not very optimistic.
After 95, Bao Mom already has two sons, and now she is pregnant with "three children"
Nowadays, after 95 and 00 are already the age of being a mother and a father, they are also just in time for the opening of the second and third children, and it is indeed very common for families to fight for three children.
The girl born in 1999 also joined the team of 3-child mothers. After 95, she has already given birth to 2 sons, and many people of her age, some girls are still in school.
The third child is not yet known to be a boy and girl, but many people see her pregnant belly and feel that her future life will be very stressful. Some people even said that she was too tired to regret it.
The girl seems to know her situation, and after she was pregnant with her third child, she did not dare to tell her family at the first time. It wasn't until it was almost time to tell my mother the truth.
As a result, her mother was furious when she found out and scolded her bitterly. On the surface, the mother is a bit fussy, but understanding the actual situation of this three-child mother will understand the mood of the mother's mother.
Bao's mother was pregnant with "three children" and still had to do farm work, and her mother was angry and distressed
From the daily life photographed by this mother, it can be seen that the furnishings in the home are very simple, and the walls in the house seem to be somewhat worn.
Even if you hold your stomach, you still have to sow seeds and do farm work, and your living conditions are still somewhat poor. Her mother-in-law felt particularly angry precisely because she understood the actual situation.
Originally, there was already a lot of pressure to raise two boys, and the third child, whether it was a boy or a girl, was an added burden.
Although the mother scolded her angrily, she was also very upset with her daughter. First, during pregnancy, she still had to drag her heavy body to do farm work, worried that her body could not stand it.
In addition, taking into account the burden of life, raising 3 children is not only very tiring for adults, but children may not enjoy particularly good living conditions.
Helplessly, the third child is close to the due date, saying anything can not change the facts, and the mother of the three children insists on giving birth to this child, and the family cannot manage too much.
What kind of life will be experienced after becoming pregnant with the third child is still unknown
Perhaps in the eyes of outsiders, this mother has no need to give birth to three children, but it can be seen that she herself is still looking forward to it and is very happy.
Standing up pregnant and braving the sun to loosen the soil in the field, she may be tired, but there is a head in her heart.
Outsiders think that he already has two sons, and the pressure to raise a baby must be very great. But in life, the two little boys will take the initiative to do housework and are their mother's powerful little assistants, which must be one of the reasons why she has the courage to have three children.
What would be really angry between a biological mother and daughter? It's just that the mother cares too much about her daughter, and when she is angry, the way of expression is a little inappropriate.
The daughter has been hiding from her mother, and she is not cutting first and playing later, mainly because she is afraid that her mother will worry about herself. After all, the matter of having children has the right to decide.
Some families have a child and live an easy and happy life. But it cannot be denied that families with three children can also live well, and how to do it in the future is still unknown, not necessarily very bad.
In general, it is more difficult to raise three children, as long as you do the following things in life, there is nothing wrong with a three-child family.
"Pregnant with three children" can also be very happy, these factors can not be less
Today's children can be regarded as "four-legged gold devouring beasts", and the economic strength is no accident, which will become one of the conditions for everyone to consider having three children. But if you want to raise three children, in addition to financial strength, there are the following necessary factors.
Dual support from the mother-in-law and in-laws
Although giving birth to three children is a matter between the two children, it is also necessary to make the parents of both sides psychologically prepared, so that everyone will not leave contradictions and hidden dangers when they get along in the future.
Even if both parents can't do it, having financial support, being able to recognize the choice of the couple, or being able to take a hand and a baby in future life are the confidence to have three children.
Don't dwell on your child's gender
If you simply want to fight a boy or pursue a child, then do not easily have three children. Carrying boys and girls is not artificially decided, and the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment.
Many families around Sugar Mother, running to give birth to boys to fight for the second child, the third child, the result of the mother after giving birth to a girl, by the in-laws of all kinds of look down. The child is not brought, which also affects the feelings of the husband and wife, and it is better not to have children at the beginning.
Finally, we must pay attention to the issue of children's education
With three children at home, it's even harder to be fair. In addition to the care of daily life, it is also necessary to try to make children receive a quality family education and adequate school education.
Candy Mother's Heart:
Having children is not the more the better, and raising children should also pursue quality. Ensuring the above factors only makes it easier and more efficient for couples to raise children, and is also responsible for children.
【Today's topic】How do you see the choice of this post-95 mother to fight for three children?