about
now
Parents, how to raise children has become
Top priority.
In the guarantee
Clothing
Cost at the same time, but also from time to time
Monitor your child's words and actions
And try to put the child
Raise children with high emotional intelligence and courtesy
。
so
Children
The performance is reflected in
Where?
This can be done from the kids
Public places
various tables
appear
as seen in. Also, on this occasion
It reflects not only the children, but also the quality of the parents.
One
The son was thirsty and drank water in the supermarket first and was asked to compensate 10 times, and Bao Dad's words showed high emotional intelligence!
After having a baby, the child begins
Decided to stay home
。 When she was at home, she
Full-time
With kids. Once,
Two couples with children
Son went to the supermarket to buy something
, a piece happened
Very unpleasant
thing.
usually
husband and wife
Take the kids to the supermarket and put it
child
Put in
Cart
In front of the basket
lest
child
Running around
，
Not found
target
This is the case.
This time
The child said that she did not want to sit in the basket
。
To complete the purchase and go home as soon as possible,
Husband and wife
Only promises to children
Get down
but
Can't leave
Mom and Dad
Sight
。 At first, kids
promise
Very good, but
Forget as you go
finish
Mom and Dad
Words. see
Colorful toys
and
delicious
food
, the child suddenly
Noisy
，
Speak yourself
thirst
。
Don't take Dad
Only one bottle can be brought for your child
Favorite
drinks.
After drinking, kids
calm
Down. And then
Father
only
Shop with confidence
Finish. while
Father
When they went to pay with their children, several staff members suddenly stood up
toward
husband and wife
Claim compensation.
Husband and wife are blindfolded,
Don't know what's going on
，
Why compensation?
Later, the staff explained,
They see the child drinking a drink without payment in surveillance and they will do as requested
Ask
Ten times the compensation
。 Listened to the staff,
Husband and wife
I didn't quite understand, so I followed
staff member
Went to the office.
Face the supermarket ten times the compensation
，
Father
Explained calmly
The child drinks water because he is thirsty,
she
Guys
also
No evasion
It's just that
Kids first
Drank water
, and then pay. It's like going
restaurant
Same with eating.
I don't know if I've had enough of the amount of food,
They all eat first and then pay later
。 furthermore
If you really pay ten times
money
，
Are you sure you dare to collect this money?
？
confront
Father
target
oppugn
staff member
hesitate
For a moment. Later, the supermarket manager came
Resolve conflicts
, and said employees do it because of them
afraid
They
run
single
。 In fact, if the children are thirsty, they can drink water first. As long as parents remember to pay and tell their children it is
Understandable
of, but they
No
Take this understanding as a
capital
，
at
No rush
When the time should be
Follow the rules.
Two
How parents should guide their children in public
though
Husband and wife
There is nothing wrong with this, but it is not very appropriate
。
First of all
Serving drinks to children violates supermarket rules
。 In addition, in with people
Deal
In the process, do not consider the child's emotions to come
frighten
Kids are wrong. so
How should parents guide their children to avoid such incidents in public?
1.
Teach your child not to open the merchant's items before making a payment
As parents, they should be for children
Set a good example
。 In any case, the principle cannot be changed. without the consent of others or the payment of bills,
It is unreasonable to open the food packaging of the enterprise without authorization
, which will also make the kids
Adversely affected
。
2.
Take the initiative to admit mistakes and reasonably safeguard your rights
If the child makes a mistake in public, the parent should take the initiative to admit it to the child
Apologize.
But if the other person makes it
unreasonable compensation,
Parents should too
Protect your rights reasonably
。 However, in this process, we should too
concern
Kids'
Sentiment.
Don't just vent to yourself,
So as not to cause psychological shadows to the child.
3.
Let the kids follow the rules
Whether in the supermarket or other occasions, everyone
Rules must be followed.
Children, in particular, are naturally lively and unrestrained and easy to make
naughty
behavior. As parents, they deserve to be
steer
Obey the rules in public,
avoid
Cause trouble for others.
Educate children and
Not easy
。 Parents need it
Set an example and strengthen guidance.
Although we can't
Requirements are down to everything
But we should at least try our best to get the kids to have
The right three views
。
4.
Good mood management
Now in public places, we often see children in public places
Cry out loud
, and parents can't coax them
，
This is also one
impolite
behavior
，
Parents should teach their children when they are young
How to manage emotions
。 Children may be dissatisfied with their parents' behavior, but they are
Can't lose your temper in public
，
We can go home together
Fix anything bad
。
Conclusion:
But
Since supermarkets have such regulations, should they post the relevant regulations in a more conspicuous place?
, remind parents, let parents see
notify
When you can take a look at your own child, this can also be greatly reduced
"Drink Now, Pay Later"
occurrence of . Supermarkets are also available
More user-friendly
, for customers to provide some
Free direct drinking water
。 After all, sometimes there are a lot of people, and it takes half a day to queue up for checkout. If they
Really thirsty
，
This is for adults
test
, not to mention to children.