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The greatest pain in the world is that the white-haired person sends the black-haired person and loses his child, and surely many parents want to follow their children.
But life still has to go on, so you have to cheer up!
The eldest brother said that the day his son's ashes were scattered like the Songhua River, he sat by the river, did not think about anything, and wanted to follow his son and went there, plunging headlong into the Songhua River.
His uncle and brother kept dragging him and not letting go, afraid that if they really wanted to, they would find a short sight.
In the process of blind date, the big brother who once choked up tears was the 49-year-old brother Wang, the male guest of this blind date.
Brother Wang is divorced, and the housing situation is 45 square meters.
Brother Wang's life can be said to be ups and downs, when he was young, he relied on upside-down saplings, lived in buildings, and also ran to a well-off.
Brother Wang said that now he can't imagine how hard it was at that time, how he survived, every day he got up early and climbed in the middle of the night, went to the dish at ten o'clock, went to the fruit at more than 1 o'clock, and went home to pick the dish.
Relying on the hard-working spirit of Brother Wang, the family's life is also flourishing.
However, he did not expect that 4 years ago, his 21-year-old son suddenly fell seriously ill.
My son was a junior in the city at the time, and he would have graduated from college in a year.
However, the son called Brother Wang one day and said that he was unwell and might be sick.
So Brother Wang rushed over and found that his son's face and feet were all swollen, and he was sent to the hospital for examination with high urine protein and low blood protein, and the result was a sudden pulmonary embolism of nephrotic syndrome, which was basically an incurable disease.
But he and his ex-wife did not give up, as long as they could let their son live one more day, they all went around seeking medical treatment.
Brother Wang said that at that time, his son needed more than 10,000 yuan a month just to take medicine, plus normal hospitalization and treatment.
In order to make up money, the couple worked separately, and Brother Wang went to the railway station as a stevedore, and then went down the well to earn thousands of yuan a month.
Brother Wang went down the well during the day and unloaded the car at night, just to earn money for his son to treat his illness, but unfortunately, Brother Wang could not see the last side of his son.
After 1 year of treatment, the son left them forever, and by the time Brother Wang arrived at the hospital, the son had been breathing for an hour.
Brother Wang said that his son's later stage was: pain, and he could not say anything.
According to his son's last wishes, Brother Wang scattered his son's ashes on the Songhua River to let his son be free.
Elder Brother Wang said: If he could exchange his own life for his son's life, he would not hesitate, but there was no if.
Brother Wang has been suppressing his tears in front of the camera, but the more he endures, the more he feels sad.
The red lady saw the big brother in tears, and could not help but shed sad tears, but also regretted a weak and young life, but also resonated with the father's feelings for his son.
However, what hit The Elder Brother Wang even more was that on the third day of his son's death, his ex-wife filed for divorce.
In the past three years, Brother Wang has been living on his own, immersed in the grief of losing his son and family, and cannot be relieved.
It was only recently that Brother Wang saw this blind date show that he rekindled the hope of life.
Brother Wang has no requirements for the blind date, that is, he hopes that the woman can bring a child, because he really likes children.
So the red lady found the 39-year-old sister Yu, unmarried, with a housing area of 100 square meters.
Yu Dajie is also a woman with a tragic experience, she is alone with her 3-year-old daughter to work hard.
Yu Dajie's life credo is "to suffer losses is to be blessed", she feels that to buy things, it is normal to be taken advantage of by others.
Red Niang asked Yu Dajie, if you do business by yourself and others take advantage of it, will you still let him take advantage?
Elder Sister Yu said that she must let others take advantage of it, so that she will often take care of the business.
However, The good virtue of Yu Eldest Sister's loss was a blessing, and it did not bring her emotional good luck.
The first relationship was five years together, the man was particularly macho, and she put up with all kinds of temper tantrums to the eldest sister, but the man had to make progress.
He even asked the eldest sister to earn money to support him, and also threatened to let the eldest sister's family pay for a house.
Finally, with the encouragement and persuasion of her family, Yu Dajie chose to break up.
The second relationship is that when the eldest sister was 35 years old, she met a poor man with three nothings, and The elder sister Yu suddenly became sympathetic, so the two became boyfriend and girlfriend.
The relationship between the two is still relatively good, to the point of talking about marriage.
Suddenly one day, Yu Dajie found that this boyfriend had been in a relationship with other women on the Internet, and often made appointments to meet.
This made Yu Dajie, who was already three months pregnant, unable to accept it and chose to separate.
When the two broke up, Yu Dajie's family advised her to beat up the child and not let an older woman still have a baby, and no man would dare to marry her in the future.
Elder Sister Yu thought about it again and again, and during that time she was also in tears every day, muddy, but she dreamed that there was a child calling her mother, but she couldn't see the other party's appearance clearly.
After Yu Woke up, she immediately made a decision, that is, to give birth to a child, to be a single mother, because she had lost confidence in her feelings, and she felt that this child was the most beautiful gift from God to her.
Although relatives and friends are strongly opposed, Yu Dajie is particularly insistent until the baby is born.
Now that the baby is 3 years old, the biological father has never been present since the birth of the child.
The lack of paternal love of the child makes the eldest sister very remorseful, do not give birth to a child, she is a small life, born, and can not give a healthy family.
Elder Sister Yu cried as she spoke, as a mother she felt that she had done a good job, but she could not give that fatherly love.
Sister Yu said that every time her daughter watched the cartoon in which the children had parents and mothers, the daughter shouted at the window: Daddy.
Every time the daughter called Daddy, Yu Dama was particularly sad and could only secretly wipe away tears.
For the sake of the child, Sister Yu wants to find an honest and honest person who can be nice to her daughter and give the child a complete family.
After saying that, the Red Lady took Elder Sister Yu downstairs to pick up Brother Wang, and it turned out that Elder Brother Wang had been waiting downstairs for an hour.
Two bitter people, do not know whether it is the sunshine in each other's lives?
As soon as the two met, Sister Yu was very sorry to say that She had let Brother Wang wait for a long time.
Brother Wang said that it was okay, by the way, he went to the nearby supermarket to buy some fruit, bought a little princess doll that the little girl liked, but he didn't know if the baby would like it.
Elder Sister Yu saw it and said that the eldest brother was too outward-looking, but she was still touched by the fact that the eldest brother carefully prepared a small gift for her daughter.
Sister Yu said that what she was most afraid of was indebtedness to human feelings.
Because the blind date was already noon, Yu Eldest Sister proposed to go to the restaurant to eat and chat, and did not expect that the two of them would actually be leveraged because of who paid the bill.
As soon as the two sat down at the table, Elder Sister Yu asked Brother Wang to order food, and she could order whatever she liked, after all, in her own territory, she had to arrange.
However, Brother Wang said that where there is a first meeting, let the woman pay for the matter, he must buy.
The two men argued endlessly, so the Red Lady proposed to simply rock scissors cloth, and whoever won was paying the bill.
This is the most open time since writing about blind dates, two people are rushing to pay, it is this behavior that makes them feel good about each other.
Brother Wang said: From the order, we can see that the eldest sister is a particularly easy person to get along with, especially straight, not calculating, and particularly polite to people.
Elder Sister Yu also felt that Brother Wang was particularly generous, buying such heavy fruits, preparing toys for her daughter, and honestly waiting for an hour below.
So the two sat down and had a good talk.
Sister Yu said: Her daughter is just three years old, so there is no way at present, only to be able to take children at home.
But what she didn't know was that Brother Wang's son had died 3 years ago.
Brother Wang said his child had died.
Elder Sister Yu was shocked, and then asked the eldest brother: Is it a boy or a girl, why is it gone?
Elder Brother Wang informed him of his son's death.
After learning that the eldest brother sent the white-haired person to the black-haired person, Yu Eldest Sister could not imagine it and directly shed sad tears.
From this pity, Elder Sister Yu is a person with a kind heart and a compassionate heart.
Sister Yu also said: It is her mistake, she should not mention this topic, pulled up the big brother's sad matter, said not to mention this matter, and ate happily.
Brother Wang's encounter made Sister Yu very distressed, and Sister Yu said: If it was changed to herself, it would have collapsed a long time ago, and the elder brother looked very strong, but his heart must be particularly painful.
Fortunately, When Brother Wang heard that Yu Dajie's child was only 3 years old, he felt particularly happy, because the child is an angel, a pistachio in the family, a little contact, after all, the child is still young and can cultivate deep feelings.
Brother Wang said: The older children have their own ideas, they are separated, so the baby is only 3 years old, it is particularly good, and he is a little bit older, just like his own child.
Brother Wang said that there is a point, that is, Yu Dajie can not have any contact with her ex-boyfriend, to which Yu Dajie said: You can be completely assured, the children are 3 years old, and the ex-husband has never seen it, and even does not want to admit that it is his child.
Brother Wang listened to express special satisfaction, he saw the photo of the little daughter of the big mother, the face was filled with a long-lost smile of the loving father, the big brother this smile waited for a full 3 years, it is estimated that the son who died, also hope that his father is well, but also very happy to have a sister.
Elder Sister Yu and Elder Brother Wang were almost finished eating a meal, and they did not mention the house and money, all around the children.
The two people ordered a table full of dishes, and they could also see that each other was open, so the two people decided to try to communicate.
After eating, Sister Yu decided to take Brother Wang home to see the children, and along the way, Brother Wang was still particularly nervous, with joy and unspeakable feelings.
When he got home, the little baby threw himself directly into his mother's arms and looked at this strange uncle, his little eyes blinking.
Just on the TV played "Peppa Pig", the little baby learned to call "Daddy, Daddy" on TV.
Although this father is not necessarily called Brother Wang, but Brother Wang heard this long-lost "Father", tears instantly burst out of his eyes.
After a while, the little baby fell asleep, and Brother Wang sat quietly on the edge of the bed looking at the sleeping baby, gently touching the baby's hand with his hand, and his eyes were full of love.
Brother Wang also said: We must treat this girl as a pro-girl, and in the future, just like her own birth, there is a child in the family, every day no matter how tired she is, she will have a head when she returns home, no matter who it is, there is a family and a job, and there is no child.
In the evening, when the child woke up, he gave Brother Wang a video call, and a "daddy" was called, which made Brother Wang's heart call.
The two wounded people have found each other and become each other's salvation, hoping that this time they will meet, it is God's best arrangement for them.
Big Brother Wang is a good person, and Elder Sister Yu is also a good woman, and I sincerely wish them happiness together.
This pair of blind dates is the most touching, but also the most sincere, this little baby also has a blessing, met such a good father, from now on, the little baby also has a complete family.
Some people say that Brother Wang's child died 3 years ago, and now Brother Wang meets his daughter who is also 3 years old, which may be the fate of the dark.
It turns out that God will also take care of those who are poor and hopeful, so he has a good heart and believes that the future will be better.
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