In "Our Marriage", it may be for comparison, so, also as an investor, Dong Sijie, played by Jiang Xin, has always been a desperate third wife in the play.
Never taken a vacation, never taken a vacation. Even if he is sick, he still insists on commuting.
In this way, she sacrificed her family time and missed her son's growth time. Until the relationship with her husband went wrong and filed for divorce from her. It started to panic, and her drunkenness was discovered by Shen Yanxing, who replaced the wine in her cupboard with sparkling water. He also deliberately arranged three in a room when he was traveling, and got up early to pull her for a run.
Single-mindedly wanting her to admit that she has an alcohol dependence, I hope she quits sooner.
When I saw this, I felt that Shen Yanxing was quite "virgin", and her own family affairs were not solved well, so she wanted to help others.
But think about it instead, everyone can only cross others, but they can't cross themselves. After all, bystanders are clear, and the authorities are confused.
But Shen Comet's heroine aura is too strong, others are not optimistic about the three old lady projects, she managed to do 100,000 fans, pulled to 2 million investment. After that, these three old ladies became assists, making Dong Sijie realize the importance of family.
Of course, Dong Sijie's transformation is more abrupt, why do you say so?
Marriage is contradictory, this is a very normal thing, no one said there is no problem at all. It mainly depends on the way the two choose, whether it is to escape or face.
For Dong Sijie, because of the problem of asking for a nanny, Li Yudong had to resign to take the baby at home. At the same time, she is deeply in love with Li Yudong, and Li Yuli understands her very well.
In the words of netizen comments, these people in this drama are lacking a nanny. Otherwise, the child can be taken care of, Li Yudong can also work normally, more money is not a problem, the focus is that he can do what he likes to do.
Moreover, even if you don't do the work of the publishing house, be a non-editor, and study the subject, it will not affect Li Yudong's care for the children.
Naturally, there will be a situation such as the research process in the middle, there will be a business trip or a busy situation where you can't take care of your children at home, but in fact, no matter how busy, you can still take some time to come out, or choose other ways to adjust.
In this way, there is no need to draw a person out with the child, you know, during the child's school period, this time for adults is a free allocation of time.
Of course, Dong Sijie, as a full-time strong woman, is indeed too hard to fight. The focus is on her work, but given her profession, it's understandable.
But all the time is spent on work, and this is really something to adjust. After all, for children, to miss growth is to miss.
While juggling work, it is best to give more thought to the child. However, Dong Sijie's awakening was based on her denial of Li Yudong's work and forcibly introduced him to what she thought was a very decent and high-paying job.
It was also this time that Made Li Yudong completely angry, and also yelled at her that he really thought in his heart and proposed a divorce.
Dong Sijie really loves Li Yudong, but it is only the work of an investor, which makes her more accustomed to thinking about problems from her point of view. And Li Yudong's shout should have been shouted out earlier.
But in the plot, as a strong woman, Dong Sijie said to the leader when she knew that her family was more important than work and wanted more energy to accompany her family, which was quite surprising.
Looking at it in this way, you will feel that the acting is too pretentious, which is not in line with Dong Sijie's style all along.
Let's talk about Sheng Jiangchuan, his initial impression is very annoying, he doesn't understand Shen Huixing, and he wants her to take the baby at home. After the two had a conflict, he also slowly understood Shen Huixing's difficulty and the difficulty of taking the baby while going to work. Thus realizing his mistakes, he sincerely changed himself.
But Dong Sijie didn't, she was just like I said before, this change is too fast. Let's not say whether they have understood Li Yudong, let's say that the two have not talked in depth, directly in the last episode, the conference talked about Li Yudong's merits.
Seriously, if it is real, I don't know what will happen to the people who hear it on the spot, but I can't help but tremble in front of the screen.
Can there be a process?
Putting aside Dong Sijie's inner activities, their marriage is really enviable.
The reason is that Li Yudong pays a lot for the family, just like Qi Wei and her husband. The difference is that Qi Wei is willing to let her husband work, and she also recognizes his dedication to the family and support for himself.
In addition to hoping that Li Yudong will find a well-paid job, dong Sijie is not wrong. At first, I was reluctant to find a babysitter because I was afraid that the same situation would happen again. Later, Li Yudong wanted to work, and she thought of either finding a high-paying job or taking the baby at home.
Personally, I think there is nothing wrong with this idea, just look at the building where they live, if they buy a house in full, this money is also earned by Dong Sijie. If it is installments, the money to repay the loan every month, the money for life, and the money for the child to learn the piano is a large expenditure.
Li Yudong can accuse Dong Sijie of missing her son's piano performance because she is busy with work, or she can accuse Dong Sijie of not accompanying her children. He even accused Dong Sijie of dying for face and thinking only of himself.
But from another point of view, if Dong Sijie is doing service industry or special industry, he must go to work on holidays and commute every day. The salary is not high, and two people must pay double wages to maintain their lives. Can Li Yudong still say that as long as he likes a job, it doesn't matter how much it is paid?
Presumably, it can't, so for this, it is benevolent.
After watching "Our Marriage", whether it is an investor who makes a lot of money, or like She Tiantian, the house he lives in is not something that ordinary people can rent.
If you are staying in an apartment with a bag, the monthly rent is not cheap. Putting aside the high-income people, those who have average incomes and are overwhelmed by mortgages and car loans say that I am afraid that the idea will be like Dong Sijie.
But as far as the situation of the people I came over, if it is really because of work reasons, it is impossible to adjust (such as the service industry, holidays are the busiest), and the child explains, the child can also understand.
In their free time, spend more time with their children, and children will not say that they lack love without the company of their parents.
Dong Sijie is no longer a strong woman who works all year round, and after busy with work, she puts her energy on the family and more companionship, which is not a big problem.
As for whether Dong Sijie was because of the problem of face, she did not want Li Yudong not to go out to work. I can't see this from the play, if it is a matter of face, this is also affected by the ideas of Dong Sijie's parents. But this pair of parents is not the best, Dong Sijie is also an adult, and should have her own opinion.
And in the finale, she found her own problem.
Based on the above, what we have learned from it is that no matter who is outside the Lord, the one who has given a lot to the family must affirm their efforts and affirm their value.
Similarly, if the other party can't be like Li Yudong to do with the baby can not forget their own learning, self-value-added precipitation, but also often remind, or accompany ta to progress together.
No one will always stay where they are, and if you can, please grow together. We also communicate more spiritually and spiritually to keep each other's thoughts in sync.
What do you think?