No matter when, women must remember to enrich themselves and make good money.
Money, sometimes it's a nasty thing, some people call it the "source of all evil," but we can't do without it.
It's like magic that can make a person change completely.
Shakespeare also said:
"Money is a great magic wand that can change a person's appearance at will."
Therefore, the difference between women who earn money and women who have no money is really big, especially after marriage, which is both realistic and cruel.
01 Women who earn money have a sense of security, and women without money have feelings of anxiety
Just like the full-time mother Shen Yanxing in the TV series "Our Marriage", although she is at home with children, she has never confined herself to the family.
Instead, while taking the children, while doing what she likes, she formed a rock band, she also knows how to invest financially, and all the renovation costs after moving into the new home are all with the money she earns in financial management.
It can be said that
A woman like her is very secure, and when she argues with her husband, she is also full of confidence.
But in contrast, Jiang Jing in the play, she is also a full-time mother, because she has no money, she is subject to her husband everywhere, her husband not only installed surveillance at home, but also cheated, and the concept of "taking her husband as the boss" that she believed in before can no longer help her.
In marriage, Shen Yanxing is secure, while Jiang Jing, like an abandoned child, lives full of anxiety and helplessness.
But
Marriage is such a reality, the days before marriage, after experiencing the mixture of chai rice oil and salt after marriage, will inevitably expose their original appearance.
As Han Han once said: "We have reason to believe that love based on love is short-lived, because love itself is short-lived; and love based on money is eternal, because money is eternal." ”
Therefore, women who earn money have a sense of security and can do everything they want, while women without money are just full of anxiety and insecurity, complaining about the unfairness of marriage.
02 Women who earn money have confidence, and women without money have resentment
After marriage, most women need to face this dilemma: the mother-in-law relationship.
Because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good or bad, to a large extent, it will determine the status of women in the in-laws' family, whether they are favored or bullied.
Especially when just after passing through the door, most of the mother-in-law likes to make rules, and even tripping in the open and in the dark.
Colleague Li Yu met this, her mother-in-law is always fine to find things, on the weekend in the kitchen jingling, weekdays are not let her do this, or do that, feel like they are going to be squeezed dry.
Finally, one day it broke out, and the mother-in-law said:
"Your salary is not as much as my son's, how can you not be diligent at home, all day a delicious and lazy look, you are going to wash the dishes in the kitchen!" 」
She listened and said angrily, "Do you really think that my salary is not as high as your son's?" Moreover, in terms of salary, the least one is not me. ”
Immediately, she took the bank collection information to her mother-in-law, if only the salary at work, he is less than her husband, but coupled with her usual financial management, part-time work, and finally calculated, the salary is much more than her husband.
At this time, the mother-in-law had nothing to say, and in the days to come, she was also very comfortable.
Deeply,
Women who earn money are often very confident, especially in the face of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, they can not humble and make a counterattack; but if a woman without money is said by her mother-in-law, she can only swallow her anger and swallow, and dare not have half a point of resistance.
Therefore, after marriage, a woman can earn money, which is the biggest life preserver, so that even if you give money to your parents, the in-laws will only praise you for filial piety, and will not complain about your indiscriminate spending.
03 The stage for women who earn money is very large, and the only women who have no money are the kitchen
Maugham said in The Shackles of Human Nature:
"Of course, what man pursues is not wealth, but he must have a life sufficient to maintain his majesty, so that he can work unhindered, can be generous, can be cheerful, can be independent." 」
If you want to live a dignified life, you will inevitably need money as a material basis, after all, most of the activities of women without money will only be the kitchen.
Just like Wu Min in the TV series "Perfect Partner".
As a housewife, picking up and dropping off her children to and from school every day, washing and cooking has become her compulsory course, and if she encounters a child who is sick, she can only take care of her alone in the hospital, because her husband is too busy at work.
But later, because of family conflicts, she almost collapsed, and finally she chose to divorce her husband and take her children out to start a business.
She opened a cake shop and a nursery, and the whole person's temperament was completely different, she became more confident, she no longer needed the protection of others, and she became an "umbrella" that could bring help to others.
She is really beautiful and very likeable.
truly
Women who earn money, the stage is very large, life is also very exciting, such a woman, can experience different lives, feel different ways of life.
But women without money, buy vegetables and cook need to save money, let alone buy new clothes for themselves, a year rare, and the daily activity area, can only be the kitchen, can not see the larger world, there is no opportunity to see.
Write to the end
In marriage, the difference between a woman who earns money and a woman who doesn't have money is really big.
Women who earn money have a big stage, a sense of security, and a confidence in doing things, while women without money are imprisoned in a small kitchen, and their lives are full of anxiety and resentment that cannot be solved.
Therefore, no matter when, women must be able to earn money, and do not give up their ability to make money because of the other party's good.
At last
May every woman have light in her eyes, have money in her pocket, and still feel that it is worth paying everything after going through the mountains and rivers.
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