The circle of friends sent by the mother-in-law in the middle of the night made the daughter-in-law "landless", and the son was forced to divorce after 7 days

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Some people say: In marriage, as long as the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, marriage can be happy, otherwise, it will be very sad.

Indeed, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has plagued many women since ancient times, especially for modern people, seeing the image of many evil mothers-in-law in TV dramas, making mother-in-law a nightmare for women in marriage.

Of course, there are also many mothers-in-law who work hard for their sons and daughters-in-law, not only do housework, take children, but now also take money to subsidize the family, but in the end they cannot be appreciated by their daughters-in-law.

Therefore, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law wants to be harmonious, which is a thing that cannot be sought.

There are emotional masters who say:

The mother-in-law relationship is actually a man being competed by two women, and it is also a competition for the status of the family.

I heard an answer from a scholar on the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in one audio, which went like this:

If there is a problem with the wife and the mother, then as a husband, you must be on the side of the wife. If you try to reconcile in a neutral position, you will only make the relationship more and more chaotic, and eventually forced to divorce.

There is also a solution:

A successful man is not how good he is on the outside, but at home he can let his wife and mother have scruples or love, so that no matter how big the war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is, he will take into account the feelings of men and digest contradictions.

Therefore, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, and the man seems to be caught in the middle, but to put it bluntly, this man is a soft egg, a failed man, and it is because of weakness and concession that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be complicated.

The following story is about the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law:

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Saying that Zhang Bing is a soft egg man is not wrong at all, don't look at his tall and handsome, or a high-talented student of a key university, but he has no opinion, and his wife and mother have a conflict just looking at him and saying nothing.

Zhang Bing was admitted to the civil service after graduating from university, and many people began to help him introduce the object, after all, the civil servant is still quite popular in the small county.

Although Zhang Bing's family conditions are average, there are still many only children who like him, and some want to recruit him as a door-to-door son-in-law, but he refuses.

Zhang Bing is also famous for picking doors, during college, in addition to the necessities of life, he is not willing to spend more money, even if his roommate invites him to dinner, he does not go, just because he is afraid of inviting his roommate to eat later.

Because of this, he has never been in a relationship and has not planned to spend money on women, and at the same time does not spend women's money because he thinks that every family is not easy.

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After graduating from college, many people introduced him to blind dates, but without exception, every blind date ended in failure.

Later, at a junior high school reunion, Zhang Bing saw his junior high school classmate Xiaolan, who was recognized as the class flower in the class and the goddess in the hearts of many male students, including Zhang Bing.

It's just that Zhang Bing was busy studying at the time and didn't want to waste time in love, so he didn't have much communication with Xiaolan.

Zhang Bing originally thought that this class reunion would not have much communication with XiaoLan, but to Zhang Bing's surprise, Xiaolan actually took the initiative to talk to him and called him Xiao name.

Later, Zhang Bing knew that Xiaolan was a teacher in the fifth middle school of the county town, and he was still single, so after the classmates gathered, Zhang Bing launched a fierce pursuit of Xiaolan.

Because Zhang Bing was a civil servant, Xiao Lan also felt that the conditions for recruiting Zhang Bing were not bad, so it didn't take long for the two to come together.

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After more than three years of marriage, they have not had children, because Xiaolan said that she would not have children before the age of 30, and Zhang Bing did not force Xiaolan.

But the mother-in-law could not sit still, one night, most of the night, Xiaolan was not asleep, thirsty up to drink water, by the way picked up Zhang Bing's mobile phone to look at it

When opening the circle of friends, Xiaolan was stunned, because she saw her mother-in-law send a dynamic: some women like to toss their husbands, but they are a hen that does not lay eggs, and if she has such a wife, it is better to divorce her.

Xiaolan felt "landless and self-conscious" after seeing this circle of friends, because what her mother-in-law said was obviously her, and her mother-in-law urged her to have a child before, but she did not want to have children, and threatened Zhang Bing with divorce.

Although Xiaolan felt "landless", she was also very angry and went to find her girlfriend early the next morning.

Zhang Bing got up and found that Xiaolan was not there, and he was about to make a call with his mobile phone but saw the content on the screen, which startled him.

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Not long after coming over, Zhang Bing received Xiaolan's message: "Give you a week to get rid of your mother's circle of friends, otherwise I won't go back." ”

Zhang Bing thought that Xiao Lan was just having a temper tantrum, and in a few days it would be fine, and this matter let it pass naturally.

Just because Zhang Bing did not reconcile the relationship between his wife and his mother, after a week had passed, Xiao Lan was completely disappointed, and Xiao Lan's girlfriend said to her:

"If you don't want to live only for men, if you don't want to lose your freedom and future, then get divorced, and women are not tools for men to pass on." 」

After listening to her girlfriend's words, Xiaolan decided to divorce Zhang Bing because she did not feel safe in Zhang Bing. The man whose wife has been bullied and who can't bear to swallow his voice is not worth paying.

Straight men believe that marriage is a shackle that locks a woman's dreams.

What's wrong with women not wanting to have children? Men should not lock women up, they should give women support and understanding.

Women should divorce and divorce, don't abandon their dreams in order to give birth to men, they must fight with their mother-in-law to the end, so that they can have a happy marriage, you say right?

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