Daughter-in-law please sister-in-law, mother-in-law frequently looking for stubble: when I gave birth to a child, I was a bed, why did she enjoy such a blessing

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The turning point in the relationship between many mothers-in-law and daughter-in-law began with the "yuezi vendetta".

At the beginning of the marriage, both parties were still holding and wanted to show their good side. After a long time and a long time together, the mentality of indifference is exposed.

Especially when someone wants to gain the upper hand, the contradiction will be highlighted. There are two kinds of mother-in-law, and it is easy to contradict the daughter-in-law during the month:

One is the kind of person who is more selfish, who ignores and ignores it; the other is the kind of person who is more extreme, who feels that he is a person who has come over to take care of everything and has to intervene.

When Zhao Linlin first stepped into her in-laws' house, she felt that her mother-in-law was enthusiastic and a person who could get along well. Later, I found that many times do not trust your eyes and ears too much, but more carefully.

Zhao Linlin is married to a twin family, and her husband is the younger son of the family. At first, Zhao Linlin was not worried about the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but the relationship between her and her concubine.

Fortunately, Zhao Linlin's concubines are kind and kind, and people are real, plus there are not many contacts, and they are also foreign surnames, but they communicate more calmly.

Unfortunately, Zhao Linlin met a mother-in-law who will never forget. When she was not married to her husband, when her mother-in-law made fish for Zhao Linlin, she said that she was good at making fish, and the eldest daughter-in-law especially loved to eat fish.

After marriage, there are always fish on the in-laws' dinner table. The mother-in-law said that it was made for the two daughters-in-law, but Zhao Linlin inadvertently learned that the sister-in-law did not like to eat fish at all. Zhao Linlin herself is also general about fish, but her mother-in-law herself loves to eat fish.

The mother-in-law's mouth is not right, in Zhao Linlin's view, it is just a small fight, she has fun on her own, the problem is that the mother-in-law put her hand into her own month.

The mother-in-law prefers sons to daughters, and Zhao Linlin's sister-in-law is a daughter, and the mother-in-law puts the expectation of succession on Zhao Linlin.

After Zhao Linlin became pregnant, her mother-in-law did not know what to determine as a girl, and she did not take care of Zhao Linlin during the entire pregnancy. When I was more than two months pregnant, I went to my mother-in-law's house for a meal, and my mother-in-law made fish and crabs, which are all my mother-in-law's own favorite foods.

Zhao Linlin was also instructed to eat more, and Zhao Linlin looked at this large pot of crabs, and then used discomfort as an excuse to not go to her in-laws' house to eat.

When Zhao Linlin gave birth, she entered the delivery room at twelve o'clock, and her mother-in-law complained outside the delivery room that it affected her daily fixed lunch break, and her hair was dizzy.

At five o'clock in the afternoon, the child was born, and it was indeed a girl. After Zhao Linlin was pushed back to the hospital bed at the end of the observation period, her mother-in-law stayed for less than ten minutes and zhang Luo wanted to go home.

The first thing the mother-in-law did when she arrived home was to call Zhao Linlin's husband and ask if her mother had gone to bed.

Zhao Linlin initially thought that she was worried about herself, and then she heard the voice coming from her husband's answering phone handset to know that she was afraid that Zhao Linlin's mother was not in the hospital and her son would be affected.

Out of the hospital, Zhao Linlin was very glad that she had invited her sister-in-law in advance. Originally, Zhao Linlin still thought that if her mother-in-law was willing to serve her own confinement, it would be a bit of a waste to invite her sister-in-law, but now she felt that her decision was very wise.

What surprised Zhao Linlin was that on the day of discharge, her mother-in-law did not come, and she returned home accompanied by her husband and sister-in-law. But unexpectedly, when the mother-in-law knew that she had invited her sister-in-law, she moved to Zhao Linlin's small home in a big bag.

What I said after coming here was: If others know that they are not serving their daughter-in-law, their faces will not hang. Later, he rounded up again, saying that he was also worried about his little granddaughter and worried that his daughter-in-law would not be able to do a good job.

However, what Zhao Linlin's mother-in-law did and said were obviously two different things. He almost didn't do any work, and he still stared at his sister-in-law to pick faults. Treat the sister-in-law as a maid, stay there and do nothing, let the family pour water for a while, and let the family serve food for a while.

Seeing that the sister-in-law wrapped the child's small bag, she did not use the one she bought, so she had to change the child's bag and use what she bought. Zhao Linlin thought in her heart, fortunately, her mother-in-law bought this bed and quilt, otherwise this change would not be over.

Zhao Linlin and Yue Sister-in-law got along very well, but Yue Linlin gently said to Zhao Linlin that she could not let her mother-in-law pay attention. First of all, she is professional, some of those old knowledge is not applicable now, she often comes to direct herself, do not do what she says and do not forgive;

Besides, can you ask your mother-in-law not to support herself in doing this and that. The original contract was signed, and he only cared for pregnant women and children, and did not include housework and care for the elderly.

When Zhao Linlin relayed her sister-in-law's thoughts to her husband at night, her husband said that her mother-in-law had already sued him first. Zhao Linlin said that she hated the bag she bought and was not willing to give it to her children.

Zhao Linlin just wanted to explain, and her husband smiled and said that his own mother knew it herself. Let Zhao Linlin not go to her heart, but don't stand up to her.

Zhao Linlin took an opportunity and told her mother-in-law about the main responsibilities of the sister-in-law. I didn't expect my mother-in-law to say that she spent so much money to invite my sister-in-law, and this month, it was not good to use the loss to die.

He also told Zhao Linlin that this month don't do anything, wait for the sister-in-law to do it, we spent money, which made Zhao Linlin cry and laugh.

Zhao Linlin is still in accordance with the previous way, she can do what she can do, the sister-in-law of the month also arranged for her to do, the sister-in-law is too busy, she will also help. As a result, the mother-in-law did not fight when she saw the anger, and when she saw that she could not stop it, she complained to her son again.

This pile of piles came down one after another, making Zhao Linlin physically and mentally exhausted, and she began to think of persuading her mother-in-law to go home. But Zhao Linlin knew that she couldn't say this, and she had to let her husband say it.

Zhao Linlin, who said what her husband said at night, was not clear, but she clearly heard her mother-in-law's voice crying in the room:

"When I gave birth to a child, I was in a bed, why would she be so blessed?" Spend so much money to invite sister-in-law, I came to enjoy the blessings and let me go..."

In the end, the mother-in-law insisted on not leaving.

Zhao Linlin's parents came to see Zhao Linlin and her granddaughter, the mother-in-law played the same as the upper body, saw Linlin's shoelaces open, she actually squatted down to tie her shoelaces, and also asked Han to ask for warmth, and cut apples for Zhao Linlin. It made Zhao Linlin cry and laugh.

In the following days, Zhao Linlin and her mother-in-law quarreled over whether to use diapers or diapers. Regarding the sister-in-law, Zhao Linlin booked 35 days, but the sister-in-law could not stay in more than 20 days.

The reason, of course, is Zhao Linlin's mother-in-law. Zhao Linlin could only pacify and add money, so that the sister-in-law completed the 35 days agreed between the two. Zhao Linlin was not easy to say anything, after all, Sister-in-law Yue did do some extra work.

Sister-in-law Yue left, and Zhao Linlin's mother-in-law also found a reason to move away within two days.

Although the two people did not tear their faces during the month, Zhao Linlin made up her mind that she must stay away from this mother-in-law. Of course, the filial piety that should be fulfilled will not fall on its own, but this is only reasonable, not from the heart.

After all, after sitting down for a month, Zhao Linlin was physically and mentally exhausted, which was all due to her mother-in-law, so she also had no good feelings for her.

Zhao Linlin did not think about it, when Yue Sister-in-law said that she wanted to leave in advance, she also thought that if Yue Sister-in-law left, would her mother-in-law be able to move away? But as a new mother, her heart is still panicked, and she feels that she still has a sister-in-law around to be more practical.

Speaking of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, this is a difficult problem since ancient times. From their own standpoints, they all feel that they have a reason, while it is difficult for the qing officials to judge the family affairs, and many times the more complicated they are.

But most people constantly smooth out their edges and corners for the sake of family harmony and reach superficial agreements.

In life, many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law do not get along well, because they have lost their sense of proportion. Everyone has their own way of life, they all have their own way of life, and it can even be said that everyone has their own creation.

The old and new eras are not the same, and there is no comparison between the present of the daughter-in-law and the past of one's own.

A good mother-in-law-daughter relationship, both sides know how to make concessions, the mother-in-law knows how to let go and withdraw from the son's life with dignity, and the daughter-in-law also knows filial piety to fill the gap in the mother-in-law's psychology.

If everyone can know where they stand and keep a bowl of soup at a distance, whoever has a better life, why not enjoy it?

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