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When the daughter-in-law learned that her mother-in-law was pregnant, she insisted that she beat her up: I don't need you to help me have a "second child"

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Every family needs a sober-minded elder to lead the way.

Often a chicken feather family, there is a confused old man.

The heroine in the next case met a ridiculous mother-in-law, and finally had to divorce and protect herself.

Wang Yan had recently encountered a lot of trouble, and she did not expect that her mother-in-law, who was nearly fifty years old, was pregnant again.

She had just come home from work that day, and her husband, who was black-faced on the couch, told her about it.

The little two couldn't eat anything that night, so they sat on the couch and got out of their minds.

After a while, Wang Yan said excitedly: "Is your mother crazy, how old are your grandchildren, and what a hilarity she is carrying with her child." ”

The husband was also slightly irritable, and kept his head down and was silent.

In the end, Wang Yan expressed her attitude and must persuade her mother-in-law to beat up the child, otherwise they would definitely not have a good life in the future.

So that weekend that week, she bought a lot of delicious food to see her mother-in-law.

By giving her mother-in-law a chance to cook, she knocked on the side to let her mother-in-law beat off the child.

The main reason is that the risk of giving birth at an older age is extremely high, and adults and children who are slightly inattentive will be at risk.

But the mother-in-law listened to the smile in her eyes and did not speak, and Wang Xia could only secretly shut up and think of a way.

She took advantage of her mother-in-law's cooking to find her father-in-law, and said with some embarrassment: "Dad, you see that I am more than thirty years old with Jianzhong, and I have also added a grandson to you. ”

The old man said that it was not good to have a child, and said that the future family property would certainly not be eccentric.

Wang Yan looked at her in-laws and felt a fire in her heart, and when she returned home, she quarreled with her husband.

Not only did he complain about the grievances he had suffered in his family for so many years, but he also said that he and his son had a hard life and shared such an in-laws' family.

Husband Sun Jianzhong saw his wife messing with him like this, and his temper also surged up. Not only smashed a vase, but also went to the hotel to sleep that night.

Soon two days passed, and Sun Jianzhong never returned home. Wang Yan couldn't bear it and let his son call her husband back.

After returning home, the two people paused the quarrel, and the bad thing about the mother-in-law's pregnancy of the child was no longer mentioned.

But Na Cheng thought that the mother-in-law took the initiative to call, it turned out that the mother-in-law wanted to go to the hospital for obstetric examination, and let Sun Jianzhong drive her.

Wang Yan didn't mention that it was okay, and when he heard it, he wanted to get angry and curse people. Faced with the absurd problem of her mother-in-law's obstetric examination, she quarreled with her husband again in front of the child.

Sun Jianzhong was also annoyed that his wife was messing with him every day, but he couldn't stop his mother's problem of having children.

So he took this opportunity to show off with his mother and said, "Mom, do you have to give birth to this child, Swallow argues with me at home every day, I can't live this day." ”

The old lady was not very happy after listening to it, and said, "I know she doesn't want this child, but this is my business, it's our family's business, the next time you argue with you, you can call me." ”

Sun Jian was speechless in his heart, so he didn't say a word, sent his mother to the hospital and left.

After two days of calm, Wang Yan got into trouble with her husband again. He also said that if his mother didn't beat up the child, she would divorce the child with her.

Sun Jianzhong is now bothered by the family's affairs is a first two big, really do not care about three seven twenty-one, called to find his mother.

After Wang Yan saw her mother-in-law coming, she still did not speak with a black face, waiting for her mother-in-law to express her position.

But I didn't expect my mother-in-law to say: "Swallow, who do you quarrel with every day to see, do you have to look at your face when I have a child myself?" Besides, before you gave birth to a second child, you didn't do it. Don't you give birth or don't let others give birth?"

This remark was full of gunpowder, and even Sun Jianzhong regretted calling out to his mother.

Wang Yan is not a good bully, and when she heard her mother-in-law say this, she replied loudly: "Mom! Look what you said. I don't need you to help me have a "second child", you yourself are not afraid of losing people, I am afraid of being gossiped about. ”

The mother-in-law listened to her daughter-in-law bumping into her like this, and her eyes were dizzy with anger, and she almost didn't stop.

In the end, Sun Jianzhong quickly sent his mother back, and before leaving, his mother-in-law also said that she was born with this child.

After making such a fuss, Wang Yan took a taxi back to her mother's house and cried with her mother.

The mother's family also does not understand what kind of children are born at an age, is this not troublemaking.

After Wang Yan finished crying, she said that since her mother-in-law wanted to have a child, she could only take the child and divorce.

After the husband knew that Wang Yan was going to divorce, he naturally disagreed. In order to save the marriage and family, he decided to go to his mother again for consultation.

But when the mother-in-law heard that Wang Yan wanted a divorce, she immediately said with relief: "It's good to leave!" Are you afraid that you won't find a wife when you're gone? Such a fierce woman, it is good to go. ”

Wang Jianzhong did not expect his mother to say this, and could only leave with full of irritability.

When he returned home, he asked his wife why she had to get into a divorce, and Wang Yan said that her mother-in-law had a child at an old age, which not only harmed them, but also affected her son's future.

She couldn't help but think about her son, and couldn't tolerate that little drag bottle being born.

After the in-laws are old, the future of the child is the responsibility of their family of three.

So a month later, Wang Yan and her husband still completed the divorce procedures, and the children and most of the property belonged to Wang Yan.

After the divorce, Wang Jianzhong's mother was very angry, mainly due to the problem of property distribution.

The old lady did not expect that the daughter-in-law was really divorced, and she took the money and the house.

Unwillingly, she said to Sun Jianzhong again: "Son, this property distribution is not reasonable, you have to make trouble." After your brother was born, the pressure on our family was great again, and you couldn't leave anything behind. ”

Sun Jianzhong, who listened to this, was cold behind his back, and his wife was really not wrong, and his mother really expected him to raise this little brother.

This gave his already bitter heart a little lightening, as if divorce was a good thing, at least he had some property in his own son's name.

So he deliberately teased his mother: "Mom, my future brother is about to be born, you still have to think about how to make more money, I have nothing now." ”

In fact, he still had 200,000 yuan in savings, and Wang Yan had told him not to disclose the amount of this money to his in-laws before his divorce.

Although Sun Jianzhong was divorced this time, he couldn't help but feel a little happy when he looked at his mother's sad face...

The heroine in the case encountered the absurdity of her mother-in-law's pregnancy and chose to divorce decisively.

This not only tells us that women should make a decision when things happen, but also gives us the following two revelations.

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One: What kind of things to do at what age.

Some people are born unwilling to accept defeat in their bones, and even want to liberate all kinds of shackles and control their own destiny.

In fact, love to try, there is no lack of good habits.

But also pay attention to proportions, do not be self-defeating, and do things that make people laugh and be generous.

The mother-in-law in this case is typically overconfident, and this conceit makes her feel that there is no problem even in the wrong decision.

Trying to have a baby at the age of fifty is undoubtedly an extremely dangerous decision.

Not only is there a greater risk to the body, but it is also not at all responsible for the unborn child.

This absurd idea, in the end, under her stubborn insistence, let the son's marriage break up.

To know what age to do, don't disobey the old, and don't have some whimsical ideas.

In fact, living your own life and being conscientious to the people around you is the best result.

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Two: Women, in the face of great right and wrong, must remain sober.

When women encounter difficulties in family life, they must not mess with themselves.

The first is to keep the mind calm and analyze the core of the problem in the shortest possible time.

The daughter-in-law in the case expressed firm thoughts about her mother-in-law's pregnancy from beginning to end.

That is, resolutely can not be born, if it can not be prevented, then decisive divorce.

In the end, she did win a certain amount of property for herself and her children. Otherwise, passively waiting for the mother-in-law to give birth to a child, then everything is difficult to say.

Therefore, women must remain sober on the issue of right and wrong, and then make a quick decision.

Protect your own interests and the future of your children, and know that your mother-in-law is not a mother, and whoever has it is not as good as her own.

When the wind and waves invade your life, put away the weakness and fear, and let the brave and intelligent help you get through it smoothly.

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Everyone's life has its own ideas, and there will be a variety of problems.

Just try to make what you do, within a reasonable controllable range.

Don't act arbitrarily, and finally make a joke and suffer a loss.

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