Wilde famously said:
"When I was young, I thought money was the most important thing in the world, but now that I'm older, I know it's true."
Heartfelt but realistic.
Living in modern society is actually living in "consumption", and all the beauty in the world, tracing back to the source, is more or less related to money.
Money is inseparable from food, clothing, shelter, and affection; family, friendship, and love cannot get rid of the blessing of money.
It is no exaggeration to say that money not only supports people's material life, but also enriches people's spiritual world.
There is a saying:
"Life may not really be about making money, but making money is really about living better."
When we look at women who can live a comfortable and bright life, most of them actually have one characteristic, that is, they will make money.
Will make money and be valued in the family
The writer Ai Xiaoyang said:
"Love is a kind of self-achievement ability, the sense of accomplishment found from others is ultimately unreliable, and all the love that loses itself will become a disguised claim." 」
Worldly feelings will inevitably have a realistic side, you think that there is no need to talk about money in love, you are a family, he will love you unconditionally.
But in fact, any relationship, when you are someone else's attachment, then often naturally inferior.
In the TV series "Our Marriage", why is the marriage of Shen Yanxing and Jiang Jing so big? Shen Yanxing can have a position in the family, while Jiang Jing is humble enough to "take her husband as the boss".
Is it because Jiang Jing is not beautiful enough? Or is it because Jiang Jing is not virtuous enough?
Neither!
It is only because Jiang Jing has lost the ability to make money, she can only regard her husband as a sky above her head, and naturally she will not be valued.
And Shen Yanxing has always been on his own, even in those years as a full-time wife, he was also making money by selling funds.
Because of the equal strength, it is possible not to be weak in feelings and to demand fairness.
Freelance writer Shizumizu said:
"Life is your own, and only by not attaching yourself to others can you truly live beautifully."
Marriage is not poverty alleviation, not one person paying one person to enjoy its success.
When you always treat the other party as a cash machine, as a guarantee of happiness, then all your chips are in the hands of others, and others naturally dare not cherish you unscrupulously.
The world is like this, you have to be loved first, before you have the opportunity to be cherished, if you first willing to fall, do not know how to make progress, self-abandonment, it will inevitably be thrown down.
Will make money, there is confidence in society
Sister Xiao once said:
"Money is the applause of the real world, who makes you unhappy you can plug in the wings of money and fly away, you can not do what you don't want to do, don't see people you don't want to see." 」
Although money is not omnipotent, it is the basis of everyone's social foundation and a fig leaf for adults to maintain dignity.
If you don't have enough ability to make money, then in society you can only promise, even if you are wronged, you can only swallow in the stomach.
Because you dare not resign, you are afraid that you will not even find such a job after resigning.
But when you will make money, then you have the right to "say no" at any time, after all, there is no grandfather left here.
Some time ago, my friend Xiaoyu left his job, and when I heard the news, I was worried that Xiaoyu would be sad, after all, Xiaoyu's company was very good in terms of benefits and treatment.
But when I met her later and I asked her why she left, she said:
"I didn't want to stay in that broken company for a long time, so I fired the boss in one breath, and now I work in this company."
When I'm done, I'll put a better company business card in my hand.
Domineering, right? And what is this domineering undertone? It is not a gamble, nor is it strong, but the strength that has been the first performance in the three years since she joined the company.
Maugham says:
"Of course, what people seek is not wealth, but they must have a life that is sufficient to maintain dignity."
A woman, only if she can make money, can she firmly grasp the initiative in her own hands, without looking at the faces of others or wronging herself.
Will make money and take risks in life
In this materialistic world, there are really too many unknowns in life.
A sudden rain in life always catches you off guard;
There is always someone in life who will make you scratch your body;
All kinds of suffering suddenly began before the rehearsal...
With so many tribulations and risks, how can we better get through it? That is to use money to build a thick armor for yourself.
When you will make money and there is no shortage of money in your hands, you will be able to calmly, steadily and freely face any test questions given by life, fearless, free from anxiety.
I once watched an interview like this:
The host asked a girl:
"What do you think is the greatest significance of a woman's effort to make money?"
Girl Answer:
"Hard work to make money, not because of love of money, but this life, do not want to be low because of money and who is low, nor do I want to be embarrassed because of money, I only hope that when my parents are old, I can have the ability to share, and when the children need it, I will not be shy." 」
I believe this is the intrinsic motivation of too many people to try to make money.
We try to make money, never because we are willing to suffer too much.
But we know that if we don't suffer now and don't get tired, then in the future, when we need money urgently, we may leave a lifetime of regrets.
In this life, the unprovoked risks and potential costs are too difficult to bear.
Only by making money in a down-to-earth manner can we have the greatest peace of mind.
Zhang Ailing said:
"I like money because I haven't suffered from money, I don't know the disadvantages of money, I only know the benefits of money."
As a woman, don't always think about relying on others to get happiness, after all, no one in the world will be your eternal patron.
The only one who can really be relied on is always yourself
So, in the days to come, make good money.
When you continue to increase your own value and make yourself more money, then you who are free of wealth are destined to meet a better future.
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Author: Away from the rain slightly cool, a rational, emotional, like to use words to express personal views, bring you spiritual healing, emotional solution, life perception of the post-90s writer.