A woman's smartest way to live: saving money and self-discipline

What is the best way for a woman to live?

Some women will reply to this question: "It's about marrying a good man and having a good enough life." As they said this, they slowly put their minds on their feelings, placed them in the family, and finally became a woman who lived on others.

Just like Jiang Jing in the TV series "Our Marriage", she became a full-time wife, treating her husband and godson as her career and her husband as a boss. However, in her husband's view, she is a woman who lives on him, completely without her own independent ideas and no plans for the future.

It is precisely because of this that in this marriage, Jiang Jing gave her all, while her husband has been calculating her, from the beginning of the marriage, she is planning how to protect her interests and prepare for divorce.

I have to admit that in this marriage, Jiang Jing gave her all, but this does not guarantee that she will be able to get a happy married life. The most crucial point of the failure of marriage is that she does not know how to live for herself.

A woman, no matter what age she is, wants to live a relaxed and happy life, the most important point is to know how to live for herself, to learn to think for herself. If you are like Jiang Jing, who only thinks about the family, or even lowers his posture, regards her husband as her boss, and finally loses her marriage sooner or later.

Ostrovsky said, "Man, the most precious thing is life." Life belongs to man only once. ”

If a woman wants to live beautifully, she will definitely understand this truth. Smart women must have their own ideas and have their own way of life. For them, the best way to live must be to know how to "save money" and "self-discipline".

Women who can afford to raise themselves will have more confidence.

Remember that in "Our Marriage", Jiang Jing deliberately injured her parents in order to allow her parents to travel, and finally asked her husband to arrange for her parents to travel. In the eyes of others, this matter is very simple, after all, the conditions of their home are very good, and they want their parents to travel directly to their husbands.

But in this family, Jiang Jing did not have the courage to do so, she felt that if she chose this way, it would definitely add more trouble, but it was better to choose to pretend to be injured and let everything happen naturally.

A woman also needs to pretend to be injured in such a matter, to put it bluntly, because she has not earned money, so she also seems very bottomless in marriage, and everything must obey her husband's arrangement and see her husband's face. Just imagine, if Jiang Jing had her own career and sufficient economic ability, would she still need to go around such a circle when she encountered such a thing? Nature is not needed.

When women have financial ability, they naturally have confidence. Therefore, no matter when, women must know how to save their own confidence, in short, to know how to save money.

Women who are not married must know how to save money and have the ability to support themselves. Only in this way will you not always focus on relying on other people's things, but can better manage your own life and plan your future better.

Married women must know how to save money and learn to plan for themselves. In this way, when husband and wife get along, women will have the confidence to better manage their marriages, rather than blindly pandering to others.

Women who know self-discipline are more likely to get the life they want.

How a woman wants to live is based on her own initiative, rather than blindly relying on others, or even betting her future entirely on another person.

Everyone actually has a kind of inertia, and the more loose people in life, the easier it is to strengthen this inertia. On the contrary, if a person can control his life and take the initiative to fight for the things and life he wants, this inertia will slowly weaken. And the final result is based on a person's habits.

In life, we will envy the kind of women who are very disciplined, always feel that their lives are very full, and they can arrange their lives every day. Just envy to envy, such self-discipline is not something that every woman can do, which is why some women can enjoy the life they like, while some women can only envy others.

Plato said, "Self-control is an order, a control of pleasures and desires." ”

A woman can control her own life, can have such self-control, naturally can arrange her own life, and finally have a life she likes.

Smart women must be able to control their mouths, control their behavior habits, and do less complaining and more self-discipline. This kind of living method is also the best way for a woman to live. In fact, we don't have to envy others, when you see the bright side of others, you are most likely to ignore the efforts of others behind them.

A good life is not only to live in the present, but also to know how to plan ahead and plan for your future. Only by adjusting your current state can you ensure that the future will not be too bad.

Zhang Ailing also said: "There is always time and opportunity to do things; there are always excuses for things not to do." ”

If you want to have a better way of living, you can't just think about it and be unwilling to take practical actions. So, stop making excuses for your inertia, only when you overcome it, you can see a better self and have a better life.

Learn to save money and self-discipline in order to ensure a state of your life and live your ideal life.