After reading this paragraph, Yi Xuejun was horrified that the screenwriter could not be a relative of my family, otherwise how could I get the same script as the heroine?
Laughing, although the situation is similar, not every woman has such sharp teeth as Shen Huixing, and has the ability to intimidate her husband to give herself a blow.
In "Our Marriage", Shen Huixing and Sheng Jiangchuan are high-achieving students who graduated from the same university. After having children, Shen Huixing, who had already received an offer from a large company, took the initiative to give up her job opportunity and became a full-time mother at home for six years. In the past six years, Sheng Jiangchuan has become a rising star in the financial circle, and the whole family has moved into the high-end community backed by the CBD and sitting on the financial street, and the mentality is a bit drifting.
On the day of the move, Sheng Jiangchuan socialized at the liquor bureau, and at night he was drunk and went home and couldn't find the door, and he also vomited the truth after drinking and said this bold remark.
Seeing this, it is the women who want to give him a kick and let him be sober and sober.
The heroine Shen Huixing did not have to move her feet, stirred up her husband, so that all women wanted to borrow their mouths from her, "From looking at the house to buying a house, from decoration to moving, what have you done?" On your own, you can't even find the door, you don't even know where the bathroom is, and you have to sleep on your vomit tonight. ”
Light will scare people is not a skill, as a full-time mother, Shen Huixing's three views are very positive.
The next day, after her husband woke up drunk, he put a top hat on her, saying that the family's credit and hard work were all for his wife, but she was not affected. Shen Huixing's original words were: "This marriage is voluntary, the child is born voluntarily, and the decision to choose to take the child at home is also my own." ”
There should be applause here!
In the general view, although everyone understands that stay-at-home mothers are doing a hard job without pay, it seems that only professional women are qualified to be called "independent women".
Shen Huixing's words mean that the current lifestyle is my personal choice, and I am an independent woman who has the ability to make choices for herself.
Bai Baihe, who has not acted in a TV series for five years, seems to have returned to the palace of the Niu Hulu clan and played a stable aura. "Our Marriage" was broadcast as soon as it was broadcast, and on the first day of the line, six episodes were launched, and the heroine Shen Huixing's person was properly erected.
Some netizens summarized the domestic marriage drama routine: full-time mothers were cheated on, career women were denigrated, first love and then divorce, to the end of the full remarriage.
This "Our Marriage" is a bit out of the pattern, Bai Baihe played by the full-time mother Shen Huixing has returned to the workplace to the third episode, as she said, full-time mother is only a stage of life, the child is brought up, women still have to achieve personal value.
In order to return to the workplace, she is willing to start as an intern with a diploma from a top university, but even so, the workplace is not friendly to stay-at-home mothers. Almost all of her HR interviews asked a question: Woman, how do you balance work and family?
"If it's a father, do you have to answer this question too?"
Shen Huixing has no intention of intimidating the interviewer, she asked this rhetorical question, asking the theme of the play: in modern society, men and women have different divisions of labor, but they all need to realize their self-worth. How to achieve self-worth should respect personal choices, rather than following social inertia.
It is men who are willing to adhere to this inertia, and the more successful men are in their careers, the more they are willing to regard women as their vassals, and even their attitude towards women is also with a strong sense of gender superiority.
In the play, the love between Sheng Jiangchuan and Shen Huixing begins in a campus debate competition, and he is impressed by the student's rapid adaptability and strong self-confidence. Six years of married life also tested how strong Shen Huixing's ability to handle family affairs was, but even so, Sheng Jiangchuan was still reluctant to let his wife return to the workplace.
Regarding Shen Huixing's return to the workplace, the couple had a fierce quarrel. Sheng Jiangchuan believes that Shen Huixing can go to work, but the premise is to find a leisure job and put the family first.
Shen Huixing retorted to the point, "In your heart of Sheng Jiangchuan, if one of the two of us has to pay more for the family, then this person must be me; if there is only one chance of success between the two of us, then this opportunity must be yours!" ”
When watching this scene, the screen full of bullets is full of human awakening. There is no choice in this world that can balance career and family, not women can't do it, and men don't play. Sadly, in reality most men would ask women to sacrifice instead of fighting side by side.
The first six episodes of "Our Marriage" depict the dilemma of stay-at-home mothers returning to the workplace in great detail, and also present different women's different attitudes to this matter.
Shen Huixing's college classmate, a workplace worker who once did not perform well in school, can no longer hide her sense of superiority in front of her. She analyzed the rules of the workplace for Shen Huixing, "Your six years of full-time life in the workplace is equivalent to having chosen the life of a husband and a godson, and they will tacitly accept that you have been eliminated." ”
Persuade Shen Huixing to settle for an existing stable life.
Another person who persuaded Shen Huixing to give up was Jiang Jing, played by Cao Xiwen. Jiang Jing was also a working woman, 8 months pregnant and still insisted on working, but she found that although she did not ask for any special treatment and maintained the same working ability, the workplace had given her up.
In the end, she chose to be a full-time housewife who tried to cater to her husband, begged for a living under her husband, did not have her own name in life, and was only called "xx mother". In order to allow her parents to travel abroad, she sprained her foot and asked the doctor to put a plaster cast on her thigh. The reason for this is simply to free up a place with their children and to give a parent the opportunity to travel abroad.
Shen Huixing felt that Jiang Jing and her husband were too tired to be careful. Jiang Jing said her feelings: "Full-time mothers can spend money on their children, and when they spend it on themselves, they must be careful, and spending it on their mother's family is a big taboo." ”
Instead, Jiang Jing advised Shen Huixing, "Make your husband the boss, so that you can make it much easier." You can tolerate a lot of your husband's shortcomings. In her opinion, "Family and career, women can only choose one or the other." ”
In the play, there is also Dong Sijia, a strong woman in the workplace played by Jiang Xin, who forms a family model within the female protagonist and the male protagonist. She is determined to stand out among a group of men and work harder than others, but she is still extremely insecure inside.
Jiang Xin has a line, others are full-time mothers, I am a full-time mother, never because of the family in the work of the leave. Even so, the male colleagues who competed with her always intentionally or unintentionally poked her pain points, asking her if she did not accompany her children on weekends and whether it was good to always work overtime. Jiang Xin vividly expresses the pressure and anxiety endured by strong women in the workplace through subtle expressions and actions, and at the same time gives the characters more complex aspects. In the end, it was also out of compassion that she gave Shen Huixing the ticket to return to the workplace.
From the perspective of the actor configuration of "Our Marriage", Bai Baihe, Tong Dawei, Jiang Xin, Wu Junmei, Zhang Chenguang, Wang Xiao, Tan Kai and other powerful actors share the stage, and the overall performance is very smooth and silky, and it will not let people play. The screenwriter has a life, the lines are quite emotional, whether it is for men or women, they have captured the essence and pain points. Although the topic of discussing the identity of the two sexes is more acute, the slightly disgusted attitude between Bai Baihe and Tong Dawei and Tong Dawei has a sense of humor, and the quarrel does not lose the taste of life. Shen Huixing seven points of reasoning and three points of sentimentality, Sheng Jiangchuan is not blindly running a train with a mouth, this role is a spokesman for social reality, and there are many golden sentences in the lines.
Just to Shen Huixing's sentence: "Settle down at home or return to the workplace, every choice is full of brilliance", Yi Xuanjun felt that this drama could be traced. I hope that when the finale comes, we can see that men and women are not enemies, and that the ideal of human unity such as "we want to fight side by side" will eventually be realized.
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Reporter and Editor of this issue: Jin Liwei
Producer: Jia Wei