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In fact, every adult has a child in his heart, but under the erosion of the pressure of life, it is gradually hidden. Life is constantly pushing us forward, everyone is forcing us to grow up, and gradually, we are getting farther and farther away from the children in our hearts.
Everyone is wearing a mask to make a living, and has always played a mature and powerful appearance outside, even if there is a grievance, it will be swallowed silently, and no matter how big the difficulties are, they can only carry it hard, and we have no qualifications for wayward nonsense.
Because we all know that even crying will not solve any problem, your weakness will only make others see jokes, and no one will really hurt you. Weakness is the most useless thing, and we can only force ourselves to keep moving forward and become stronger.
Especially for men, the pressure and burden they carry will be greater, life will make them hide their naivety, hide the child in their hearts, everyone is relying on them, forcing them to take responsibility, and the naivety and childishness in their hearts are gradually hidden.
Only when you meet the woman you love very much can you finally take off your mask and show your childish side. Only when they meet the woman who really loves themselves will they be willing to accept their childishness and return themselves to children.
Some people hate their childishness, feel that they are immature, and force them to become stronger, and some people will pity them even more because they see the childish side of men.
Women should understand that men exposing their "childish" side in front of you shows that they really love you.
Will do some childish behavior
Men in front of the people they like, like a childish child, will stimulate the childish side of their hearts, even if they are a very serious person in ordinary days, they will have childish performances in front of their lovers.
Usually wrapped in a thick mask, has always been pretending to be strong, surrounded by the pressure of life, it is difficult to completely relax, work, family, mortgage, all kinds of pressure are pressed on their shoulders, dare not have the slightest slack.
And when they are completely in love with a person, they dare to relax in front of her, do not have to think about those tedious things, do not have to be tense at all times, can not consider the pressure of those lives, just enjoy the sweetness of love.
Good love, should let people relax, now we talk about love, the most important thing is whether it is comfortable, you can show your truest side in front of each other, only in this way, it shows that they love the right person.
There is a very sweet scene in "Female Psychologist", after Qian Kaiyi sends Horton home, he calls her name again and again, and Horton asks him, "What's wrong with you?" Qian Kaiyi said, "It's okay, I just want to call you." "In love, every time you call your name, you are actually saying that I like you." At that moment, although his behavior was very childish, the atmosphere between the two people was very sweet.
Childishness is the exclusive symbol of love, two people in love together, will always stimulate the childish side, in front of each other is completely a child.
In "Semi-Acquainted Lovers", Tang Yixin Zhang Ruoyun often walks up to her and lets her touch his head and scratch his chin, just like a child, the love between the two of them has always been very sweet, but also because they can expose their truest appearance in front of each other.
Show a playful, clingy side
Not only do women have a spoiled and clingy side, but men too. Don't look at men who always look very strong, as if they are completely out of bounds with them, but in fact, it is only because they have not met the girl they really like.
When he is completely in love, he will involuntarily show a playful side in front of the other party, and all kinds of tricks can be mastered by himself.
A friend of the opposite sex around him, in front of some people who are not familiar with each other, is always a taciturn look, and the people around him will automatically classify him as within the range of high cold. When I saw the way he and his girlfriend got along, I couldn't help but get a new understanding of him.
He will be spoiled by his girlfriend, will ask her for kisses and hugs, and after two people quarrel, he will take the initiative to coax each other in front of each other and use a childish tone to coax each other. In the state of the two of them, the man is the more clingy side. Since the two of them were together, he had often been absent from our parties on the grounds that he was with his girlfriend.
If I hadn't seen it with my own eyes, I think no one would have associated him with the word "spoiled.") When we see this side of him, we don't even feel violated, which is probably the unique charm of love.
Love can change a person. It will make the original taciturn people become lively, and it will make the original unsmiling people show a childish side. It will inspire some abnormal behavior in us. This abnormality is a manifestation of deep love.
When a man shows a side in front of you that outsiders have never seen before, it shows that he really loves you.
After a fight, you will find yourself under the steps, or you will break the work with a little coaxing
A netizen told the scene of her and her boyfriend arguing, once two people quarreled after the man slammed the door out, and after a while he came back, saying "It's raining a lot outside, can't go out." "But in fact, the sky was clear outside that day. She knew that this was a man deliberately looking for a step down, and although he was very angry at the time, he broke the work for a second.
They all say that they want to know if a man really loves you, just look at his attitude after the fight. People who don't love you, after a quarrel, will never take the initiative to bow their heads with you, always have a hard fight with you, are not willing to give you steps, even if you take the initiative to give him steps, they will not necessarily go down, and they have to argue with you about winning or losing before they are willing to give up.
People who love you will definitely take the initiative to nod their heads after arguing, and will find themselves under the steps, although some steps are too funny to find, people can't help but be funny, but behind it is a deep love.
After watching a video, after the girl provoked the boy to be angry, the boy deliberately pretended to be angry, ignored her, the girl said many times I was wrong and did not react, and then she just made a grimace at him, he immediately broke the work, could not help but laugh.
Some people quarrel, no matter how humble you are, you are not moved, you have to give you a lesson, no matter how angry the person who really loves you is, as long as you coax it will immediately ease up. Because he knows that right or wrong doesn't matter, it doesn't matter if you win or lose, what matters is that two people are together.
Only when a man loves a person deeply will he have childish performance.
Maturity and stability are reserved for outsiders, and childishness is reserved for those closest to them.
If a man is no different from an outsider in front of you, and always looks very rigid in his opinion, then it is obvious that he is not serious about you.
When a man exposes his childish side in front of you, there is no need to doubt that he really likes you. Don't abandon his naivety, but cherish it and cherish it.