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I like the little poem written by Mu Xin: The old days have become slow, cars, horses, and mail are slow, and there is only enough to love one person in a lifetime.
The previous lock is also beautiful, the key is exquisite, you lock, people will understand.
At that time, love was very simple and timeless, there was no suspicion between each other, it was easy to determine a person's feelings for you, and two people would not be easily dispersed. There is no superfluous ambiguity between each other's feelings, and there is not much temptation. After the mind is determined, it is a lifetime.
And now love seems to have been filled with too many temptations, and the true heart is more and more entertained, the true heart is rare, and the routine is more and more filled with feelings.
Some people just use the routine to love someone, do not move their hearts at all, may be a random pluck, once they get the hand, they will never invest in you again.
There are many people who are well versed in the routine of feelings, know what the girl really wants in her heart, and will disguise a look of affection, and when you are completely immersed in it, he is already premeditated to leave.
Girls always long for romance, I hope that their other half can master a lot of love skills, know how to create surprises for life, can give girls full of touch, but in fact, the more such a romantic desire for love, it is easy to fall into some people's routines.
Of course, he can prepare you gifts that girls like, and he can prepare some romantic surprises for you, but these are far from representing the emotions themselves. He may have said the same love words to many people, the same gifts to many people, and it didn't mean anything at all.
In fact, a man may behave very easily in the face of a light and fluttering like, and the more he faces the person he loves deeply, he will act very stupid, because he always wants to give you the best, but the more he will be overwhelmed.
There are no sweet words, only actions
Girls always like to listen to some heart-wrenching love words, no matter what age, it is difficult to be completely immune to love words.
They say that they don't like sweet words, but in fact, they just don't like the kind of people who just talk and don't do it, and they will ask the boys from time to time in love, do you love me or not, how long will you love me? Such a problem.
Although they no longer blush and beat like when they were young, they will actually be happy to hear it, and the corners of their mouths can't help but rise when they hear a sweet word.
Women can't refuse the attraction of love words, but they can also distinguish who is sincere to themselves and who is false, and will no longer be confused by some rhetoric.
The boys I met when I was young were the kind of people who were very good at flirting. As soon as a few sweet words are spoken, the girl's heart flutters and she can't help but fall into the flames of love, but just by virtue of a few bad street love words, there is no way to represent a person's true intentions for you.
On the contrary, there are some people who never speak sweet words, do not have a smooth tongue, but will use actions to express their love for you. Some people say nice things, but people who really love you, they tend to do well, rather than just say no.
Men often have a very stupid mouth in the face of the people they love deeply, because they are reluctant to use the "mouth" to perfunctory you, but will use down-to-earth actions to spoil you.
Won't prepare you for romantic surprises, becoming more and more pragmatic
A few days ago, I saw the scene of public confession in a social software, typed a romantic love story on a big screen, flowers and candles, and enjoyed the blessings of a group of friends, that scene was really romantic.
But I'm not envious, because I know that everyone's love is different, and you just need to find the love that suits you and get along at a rhythm that is comfortable with each other.
Honestly, I used to enjoy this kind of romance, but the people who gave me romance are long gone. They said they loved me and said they would always be with me, but after the passage of time, it was just a nothingness.
In fact, as long as you use a little romance is not difficult to learn, but romance is not life itself, and then the love of the sky will return to chai rice oil and salt in the end, what we pursue is not those superficial romance, but to be able to enter marriage with the beloved, and hold hands through life steadily.
Once a man meets someone he loves deeply, he will have the idea of marrying her. He will unconsciously discard those unrealistic romances, become more and more pragmatic, he is more willing to cook you a meal than to send you a bouquet of flowers, rather than prepare some expensive surprises for you, he is more willing to share a little more for you in life.
Although he is not romantic, he really hurts you and supports this family with his actions.
You don't know how to coax you when you're sad, and you're overwhelmed
To see whether a person is sincere to you, not to see how he laughs with you when you are happy, but to see how he reacts when you are sad.
In fact, what girls desire is not how he can coax people, how ridiculous jokes will tell to make themselves laugh, what they care about is actually a boy's attitude, care about himself, rather than a completely indifferent look.
My girlfriend told me about such a thing, it was such an inconspicuous little thing that made her sure that the man in front of her was the person she wanted to spend her life with.
Once the girlfriend was in a bad mood because of work reasons, and she was chatting with the boy. Tears can't help but roll down, the boy just began to listen to her very patiently, as soon as he saw her crying, a look of confusion, just kept stroking her back, repeating "it will be fine" over and over again, but the pain in his eyes could not be hidden.
There are some people who are very good at coaxing girls, will say a lot of nice things to make women break into laughter, some people will show a very disgusted look in the face of girls' sadness, slamming the door, and some people they don't know how to coax you, will be a little confused, but will always be with you, with the greatest strength to comfort you.
Men face a woman's sadness, not necessarily how smooth it is, as long as you show care and heartache for her, women will be very happy.
In fact, no matter what kind of personality boys, in the face of their beloved women, they will show a clumsy side.
Even the most extroverted and rhetorical men will hide their "improper" side in front of the people they love deeply, a little clumsy, a little overwhelmed.
The appearance of "Hanging Er Lang Dang" is left to outsiders, the more deeply loved, the more reluctant to use the routine, will only use full of affection to express care.
We want to give you the best, but we don't know how to be the best. The more comfortable you are, the more difficult it is to see the thickness of friendship, and the more deeply you love, the more you will behave very "stupid".