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The beginning of love must be based on love, the moment the two sides meet, there is a crackling flame between each other, the heart is beating, see his glance, you know that you admit it.
Everyone regards love as very important, and has always adhered to the most precious love in their hearts, some people would rather remain single, even if urged by the people around them, rather than let go of their insistence on love.
The word love is very sacred, if you don't meet someone who makes your heart move, you'd rather be alone, a person's life is boring, but with someone you don't love, that kind of life is simply torture.
Love is very important, two people together lack love as the keynote, but a mirage, sooner or later will collapse.
However, if you want to go on for a long time, then love alone is not enough. Love is originally a very illusory feeling, and after a long time, no matter how strong the feeling of affection and honey was at the beginning, it will eventually disappear.
When we were first together, looking at each other's eyes with stars, slowly the beautiful filter was worn away, replaced by disgust and pickiness.
The feelings of love for you and me at the beginning will all disappear in the end, but some feelings will eventually be completely divided, and some people can still hold hands for the rest of their lives, often depending on these elements, they are more important than love.
Understanding each other is the key to maintaining love
Liao Yimei said: It is not uncommon for people to encounter love and sex in this life, but it is rare to encounter understanding.
It is really too easy to like a person, because a moment of worship, because the other party's appearance is on its own aesthetic point, you can open a love. However, if a relationship wants to go on for a long time, understanding each other is the key.
Understanding is the derivative of love, because love will understand. After falling in love with a person, we can't help but want to get close to each other, want to enter each other's psychology, in fact, understand is not a difficult thing to ascend to the sky, as long as you have the heart to do it naturally, unfortunately, some people just take it for granted to love according to their own understanding, and are not willing to consider it from the other party's point of view.
Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng in "The World of Man" are two very self-reliant people, stubbornly insisting on their own opinions, and are unwilling to stand in each other's perspective and make changes for each other. At the beginning, Zhou Rong desperately went for love, and the two of them spent difficult years together in the mountains, and at that moment the two sides must have been very in love with each other.
But it is a pity that they do not understand between them that love based on worship will eventually dissipate once worship disappears.
Cai Xiaoguang is the one who knows Zhou Rong the best, he knows Zhou Rong's thoughts every moment, he can see Zhou Rong's purity and the innocence in her heart, and is willing to use practical actions to maintain her understanding of the world. He understood her, both in the past and in the future, so that the two talents could go on sweetly.
In love, it is very important to understand, each other knows each other's unspoken meaning, and understands his desire to stop talking. This affection is enough to support the two people to go on.
Mutual tolerance and understanding, no matter how much friction occurs, can be resolved
Two people together, no matter how good the love, there will be friction and contradiction, without exception.
Even those loves that seem quite sweet to outsiders will have secret rivalries and quarrels behind their backs. It's just that because both parties cherish this relationship, they pity each other very much, they are willing to put each other in the most precious position in their hearts, and they want to go on with him for a long time, then they will naturally be willing to take a step back and give each other enough tolerance and understanding.
Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan in "The World" are the happiest couple in this drama, many people envy Zheng Juan, meet Zhou Bingkun, willing to hurt her, love her, spoil her, and some people envy Zhou Bingkun for meeting such a gentle and virtuous person as Zheng Juan.
Other couples, some quarrelsome and some scolding, some divorced, only the two of them are as sweet and loving as ever, not because there has been no contradiction between them, but because both parties can tolerate and understand each other to the greatest extent.
Zhou Bingkun is distressed by Zheng Juan's efforts for this family, Zheng Juan understands his difficulties, two people encounter problems, they will first consider from each other's point of view, afraid that the other party will be wronged, it is based on these, the love of two people can be as sweet as ever.
There are things to say directly, some things not to say, to say selectively
Speaking is an art, and we should always keep in mind the importance of words when dealing with people, especially when dealing with people close to us.
We often give good tempers to outsiders, the worst tempers to people close to us, always look empathetic when facing outsiders, and we will be cautious when speaking, for fear of accidentally saying something that hurts others.
But in the face of the lover, because of the lack of that scruple, so many words are just directly spoken by the brain. Especially after the temper came up, he said anything that was ugly, said how to hurt people, and only cared about his own momentary pain, but he stuck the needle to the other party, and the wound was all over the body.
Get along with your lover, pay extra attention when talking, don't make some twists and turns when some words should be said directly, don't hide it, and don't let the other party guess, no one can really guess your mind. Reduce some unnecessary suspicion to be able to get along with each other smoothly.
Some words should be hidden, some hurtful words should not be spoken at will, even if they are true, but those who hurt people must be swallowed, some words should be said selectively, good words should be said more, and bad words should not be said. Say more praise, less hurtful words, sometimes than say, know how to swallow is the wise, more conducive to two people to continue to communicate.
Two people together, love is the foundation, no love can not talk about love.
Don't enter into a love at will because you are in a hurry, or be lonely for a while, it will be more painful than being single.
But if two people want to go on for a long time, then love alone is not enough. Understanding each other, understanding and tolerance of both sides, and being measured when speaking are all things to pay attention to in the process of communication.
Love each other, and do the above three points, love can last.