Defang said:
"When women arm themselves with weakness, they are the strongest."
A woman, facing all the unusual difficulties, facing exclusion, denigration, deception, calculation and oppression, only brave and strong can save herself.
Only by relying on yourself can you live beautifully.
In fact, the really strong performance of a woman's heart is that things come, they can hold on, and after things are over, they turn the page freely.
1: Can bear it in case of trouble
Zheng Juan, the hostess of the TV series "The World of Man", has had continuous difficulties in her life, but she has been able to carry things all her life.
During pregnancy, the family was surrounded by disciples, the mother was old and difficult to support herself, and the younger brother was blind and difficult to take care of himself.
She also suffered many doubts, but Zheng Juan finally carried everything alone.
Later, she married into the Zhou Bingkun family, and also suffered a lot of unfair treatment, and the neighbors liked to exclude her, but she still chose to be generous, loyal and kind to her family.
Later, the eldest son lost his life in the United States due to an accident, and his husband Zhou Bingkun was killed by manslaughter and spent thirteen years in prison.
These sudden changes, these sudden blows, are too big for Zheng Juan as a woman.
In these long ten years, Zheng Juan has never changed her mind, nor has she ever done even one thing disloyal to Zhou Bingkun.
On the contrary, when encountering difficulties, we grit our teeth and pass the pass.
A woman, still taking care of everything in the family, also with her own diligent hands, saved a deposit for the Zhou family.
In the end, the two families depended on each other for their lives and lived a seemingly ordinary and plain life, but it made people feel extremely warm and happy.
Throughout Zheng Juan's life, it seems to make people feel extremely sad, and even in the whole process, people often feel broken.
But at the same time, the strength, endurance, willpower, loyalty, kindness and tolerance that she showed from her made us incredibly moved.
Mr. Yang Dai said: There is no one in this world who does not have injuries.
In fact, Zheng Juan's life seems ordinary and plain, seemingly simple and single, but when you taste it carefully, it has a unique charm.
In this life, even if a woman does not rely on men, she can live her own wonderful life, and she can also show her charm and value.
Balzac said this:
"Love can't resist tedious chores, and at least one of the parties must be extremely strong."
A strong woman can carry things, and she can also deal with tedious housework and major events in life changes.
Encounter difficulties, do not sink, encounter problems, do not shrink back, women, demeanor still exists.
In fact, a woman's strength can be stronger than anyone imagines.
2: After the fact can be put down
The greatest charm of a mature woman is that she can afford to take it and put it down.
The Island Bookstore contains the following passage:
"In everyone's life, there are the most painful years, which make life beautiful and vast."
All the good and bad in life, fortunate and unfortunate, are actually casting your extraordinary.
And a mature woman, in the face of the magnificent picture of life, they always dare to see death as a homecoming.
Success or failure, no complaints, no regrets.
Many times, delicate thoughts and keen insight make it easy for a woman to bear more things in real life.
Some of this kind of suffering is grievance, some is pain, some is unspeakable, some is unavoidable pain, and some are even more difficult to say.
But a mature woman, a strong woman, in the face of these things, can not only face them strongly, but also generously let go.
They know very well in their hearts that if they are constantly tearing, swinging, or entangled in the face of old accounts, endlessly.
Then, what you lose is not only your own youth, but also your own happiness and expectations.
Therefore, a woman with mature charm, a woman with an open heart, can also leave the past grievances and grievances between talking and laughing, without leaving a drop, swallowing them all, and never looking back.
Shakespeare said that once the flame in the blood burns, the strongest oath is equal to the straw.
Burn your passion and years for the pursuit of your life, rather than missing out on the good for the so-called delusions and obsessions.
For a strong woman, to go forward for the things that are worthwhile, to fight bravely for the wishes in her heart, so as not to waste the love and thoughts of her life.
A woman who is truly strong in her heart will certainly continue to create her own pattern, taking suffering as a gift of life and scars as a badge in life.
With a resolute look, strong willpower, and a free temperament, on the way forward, he shows his own free and calm shadow.
3: No regrets for a lifetime
If there are no regrets in life, isn't it very boring?
Therefore, a person's life cannot be without complaint or regret from beginning to end, nor can it be smooth sailing.
But because of this, a woman needs to constantly polish herself in order to live a regret-free life, and constantly move towards the goal.
Then, be a strong, upright, brave, benevolent, fraternal person.
Dostoevsky said:
"The most important thing is that we should be kind first, honest second, and then never forget each other in the future."
Future events are unpredictable, so when you encounter problems, you don't have to worry too much, you can afford it, you can put it down, and you have no regrets.
In this way, a woman can retain her good nature, uphold an honest attitude, and then bravely survive the ups and downs of fate with worthy people.
Next, walk to the splendid place of life, rejoice in your heart, be comfortable, and live your own beautiful life happily.
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