Some people say that the most comfortable person in "The World" is Hao Dongmei, who is born in a high-cadre family, has a worry-free life, and her husband is also the mayor.
Although her parents had been persecuted, she swallowed the hardships of life alone, but then it was all better.
Compared with the storms of life that Zheng Juan experienced, her little hardship is really nothing.
When Zhou Rong, a university professor, was worried about housing, she lived with her parents in a small Western-style building in the compound of the provincial party committee, and her food, drink, and housing were all high-grade.
But this woman who is extremely envied by others, I think she is the most sympathetic woman in the play!
01
From ancient times to the present, we all pay attention to marriage to be the right door. And Hao Dongmei and Zhou Bingyi's marriage is not right.
Hao Dongmei's parents are high-ranking cadres in the provincial party committee, Zhou Bingyi's father is an ordinary worker, who has to run away in order to live, and his mother is just a housewife.
Hao Dongmei's parents were worried that the poor relatives of Zhou Bingyi's family would find them to pull a relationship and ask for things, so they dragged the two relatives' families and never met.
The simplicity and kindness of the Zhou family made Hao Dongmei feel that her parents were not close to people, and she hoped that her parents could meet with her in-laws and get closer.
It was not easy for her father to take time to prepare to visit the Zhou family, but when he arrived, he suddenly fell ill.
In order to welcome the arrival of the relatives, the Zhou family originally planned to take care of the family portrait, but they did not go, and Zhou's father directed the whole family to carry out a cleaning.
Even the toilet was not spared, and it was carefully cleaned.
This shows the importance that the Zhou family attaches to Hao Dongmei's parents.
Everyone was busy for most of the day, but Hao Dongmei's parents could not come, and the gifts sent by the secretary actually included the tea leaves given to them by Zhou Father!
This is obviously not taking the gifts sent by the Zhou family seriously, saying that Zhou Father did not feel that he was absolutely self-deceived.
Even Hao Dongmei herself felt embarrassed to face the Zhou family, and she wanted to explain everything to Zhou's father, but Zhou Bingyi stopped her.
As Zhou Bingyi said, they are not wrong, so there is no need to explain.
Yes, the gap between the two families is too big, not a circle of people, do not understand each other, they have too much gap, there is no topic to talk about, meeting is purely a form.
How much Hao Dongmei hoped that her parents could have more contact with the Zhou family, and how much she hoped that she could get the praise of Zhou's father like Zheng Juan!
She was a filial daughter-in-law, she wanted to be an empathetic daughter-in-law, she tried her best to bring her parents and her in-laws closer, but in the end she failed.
She was caught in the middle.
Because she loves Zhou Bingyi, she also feels that the Zhou family is the kindest person.
But her ideals failed to reality!
02
Hao Dongmei and Zhou Bingyi are green plum bamboo horses, and their feelings are very good.
Zhou Bingyi is a promising young man with ideals and pursuits, he works hard under the guidance of his mother-in-law, strives to work hard, and always wants to do something.
After Hao Dongmei and Zhou Bingyi got married, they gathered less and left more, and often carried everything about the family alone.
Others look glamorous, but in fact, the hardships of life are silently endured by one person.
Especially later, Zhou Bingyi was not in good health, and Hao Dongmei silently left the obstetrics and gynecology department she loved most in order to support him and take care of him.
How much courage does it take for someone who loves their job to make this decision.
Others sound like she is the mayor's wife, but how many people can understand her efforts behind it?
Behind every successful man is an amazing woman. Hao Dongmei is the amazing woman behind Zhou Bingyi.
Although Zheng Juan's life was bitter, she was guarded by Zhou Bingkun; although Zhou Rong was betrayed by her husband and divorced, Cai Xiaoguang never abandoned and accompanied her.
Only Hao Dongmei, governor Qianjin, the mayor's wife, how many days and nights, swallowing loneliness and loneliness alone.
For the sake of Zhou Bingyi, she sacrificed her own way of life.
For the sake of the people she loves, she is willing to sacrifice the cause she loves!
Once she was also a woman with ideals and pursuits!
03
Some say that a woman is not a complete woman without having children.
No matter how respectable Hao Dongmei's work is, she comes from a high-ranking family, and her husband is very powerful, she cannot have children.
Families without children are incomplete!
She dreams of having a child of her own!
Zheng Juan has Zhou Nan and Zhou Cong, and Zhou Rong has Feng Yue, but Hao Dongmei, such a kind and beautiful woman, lost her fertility due to an accident.
Fortunately, Zhou Bingkun truly loved her, and even if she could not have children, she spent her life with her without complaint or regret.
But inside her was guilty, it was regret.
How much she wanted to have the right to motherhood like any other woman!
But even this very ordinary wish had become a luxury for her!
Later, she invited Feng Yue to live in her house, and her concern and love for Feng Yue came from the heart, how she wished she had such a child.
Feng Yue's arrival made the family suddenly angry!
Zhou Bingyi also had the idea of inheriting Zhou Bingkun's children, and Hao Dongmei loved Zhou Bingyi so much, she could not be unaware of Zhou Bingyi's desire for children.
However, heaven still failed to fulfill this wish of hers after all, and she was childless all her life, which made people feel pity!
04
Zhou Bingyi, who was tired for work, was getting worse and worse, and it was difficult to transfer to the city where Hao Dongmei was located, but his health was not good.
Hao Dongmei finally looked forward to reuniting with her husband, but her husband was tormented by illness and left the world after a few years of reunion.
How lonely a woman will be for the rest of her life without children and without her husband!
Life is short for decades, may each of us be able to live happily and happily!
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