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As Zhang Ailing wrote, in the world of feelings, we all know that men will have a red rose and a white rose, and whether the flower next to him is a cinnabar mole or a white moonlight depends on who the man chose to be next to.
However, not only men, but also women will have a former white teenager in their hearts, and there will also be a period of inability to put down, and reluctance.
Eason Chan once sang in a song:
"Who do you care about most when you close your eyes, who is around you when your eyes are open?"
Although it seems harsh, it also breaks the mood and situation of many people. Everyone has such a person who can't be put down, and for a woman, this person may not be the first love, nor the richest one, but the person who is willing to "do this" for her.
One: Men who are willing to pay for her
In a woman's mind, there is nothing more worth remembering than this man who always puts himself in his heart and is willing to pay for himself. Whether it's money, patience or something else. A man who is always paying for himself will always make her unable to put it down.
In the TV series "The World of Man", when she was young, Bingkun gave up a better marriage possibility for Zheng Juan, married her, helped her keep secrets, and helped her raise children. In middle age, Bingkun fought with Luo Shibin for her, and finally went to prison for 9 years, and returned to the world.
In Zheng Juan's mind, Bingkun is her world, whether young or old, Bingkun has been paying for her and protecting her for a lifetime. Therefore, even if he is imprisoned, Zheng Juan still can't let go of him, living in the most broken house, guarding him home.
Two: Men who are willing to listen to her heart
People are together, in the final analysis, for happiness, to talk about loneliness. For a woman, if a man can hear his own voice and care about his own heart, then this person is more than just a lover for her.
In the "Biography of Zhen Huan", the years when Zhen Huan and the King of Guojun stayed at the Ganlu Temple were the happiest times for her.
The two talked together from poetry and songs to philosophy of life, they were each other's lovers, but also confidants and partners, and although Zhen Huan returned to the palace again, in her heart, King Guojun never left.
For a woman, the person who has really walked into her heart must be someone who has listened to her own heart and let herself off guard. In the years to come, no matter where this person is, she can still see it, and in her heart, she will always leave a position that belongs to this person.
Three: Men who are willing to give her a home
In the world of feelings, nothing is more worth looking forward to than the future, and nothing is more moving than the word "home". When a man is willing to give a home to the woman he loves, it is the most beautiful love word for a woman, and it is also the most touching commitment.
In the TV series "Heart Residence", Shi Yuan promised Gu Qingyu that he would give her a home near the old house. Later, Shi Yuan was ridiculed by fate, and it was even difficult to live after several tosses, but Gu Qingyu kept that promise and waited for twenty years.
For twenty years, she had rejected all the vague concerns, rejected the possibility of developing a new relationship, and waited alone for that promise about the future.
For Gu Qingyu, the boy who is willing to give her a home is her youth, but also her thoughts, her reluctance, and her inability to let go.
Later, although the two experienced a clutch, Gu Qingyu also embarked on a plane to a foreign country, but in her mind, Shi Yuan was always the boy in the white shirt who had been.
The man who can reassure a woman is not necessarily a rich man, nor is he necessarily a handsome and handsome man. Perhaps in the eyes of others, he is very ordinary, very ordinary.
But for that woman, it was this man who had quietly plucked her heartstrings in the years when there was no more trouble.
Time has passed, and they may have a new life for each other, but as Li Shangyin wrote in "Jinse":
"This can be a memory, but it was already confused at the time."
Although the old love has passed away, the beauty, youth and innocence of the past will still be hidden in the depths of a woman's heart and will be difficult to forget.
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