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Every woman is eager to talk about a sincere love, whether it is vigorous, or a long stream, as long as it is mutual affection, it is a destiny. However, it is not so easy to meet true love, many people rack their brains, but only get a moment of romance, after a long time, still need to face alone.
In real life, women who have been single for a long time are often something different.
If it is a single person who actively chooses, then this person is mostly an independent woman in the new era with a lot of ideas, and if it is forced to choose to be single, then it must be a coincidence, or all aspects of themselves are not perfect enough, so they have never met the chosen person.
In fact, as long as you look closely, it is not difficult to find that women who have been single for a long time often have three characteristics, which are very different from others.
One: Unrealistic fantasies about love
Women who do not fall in love for a long time are often said to have "too high vision", regardless of whether these four words are objective and true, but from a certain angle, it shows that they have illusions about love, perhaps this fantasy is ethereal and unrealistic, and it is difficult for ordinary people to achieve, so they choose to prefer to be lacking.
In the TV series "Heart Residence", Gu Qingyu is difficult to forget Shi Yuan when he was a child, so he would rather not marry and not marry, just to wait for him to return, a full twenty years.
Even if you are in love, you will always ask your other half to wear a white shirt, because in memory, a beautiful boy should wear a white shirt, just like Shi Yuan when he was a teenager.
With the most primitive expectations for love, and the deep love for the first love can not be put down, Gu Qingyu waited for twenty years.
Although she waited in the end, everything was already human, because of practical reasons, Shi Yuan was no longer the white-clad teenager he was. So the two only fell in love briefly, and finally ended in divorce.
Two: financial independence and a good sense of self
It is undeniable that the reason why some women will go into love is because they want two people to face the twists and turns and tribulations of life together.
Just like Feng Xiaoqin in "Heart Residence", choosing to marry a shanghai local lang is nothing more than trying to gain a firm foothold. However, women who have been single for a long time are not the same, they are often financially independent and do not need the help of others.
Just like Gu Qingyu, she is excellent in all aspects, sitting on the throne of foreign executives at a young age, with tens of millions of cases in her hands, she has always been economically independent.
Therefore, although such a person is always chased by thousands of people, she still will not accept the overtures of others because of a momentary touch.
When a woman can afford to raise herself, or even raise herself well, her sense of self-identification is very strong, and after this experience of feeling good about herself, then she will look at everyone with a kind of indifference and indifference, although polite, but there is always a distance.
Three: Introverted personality, looking at problems is too realistic
A long-term single woman, there is no companion around, some are just confidants two or three, or the company of family, when the lack of communication, the personality will inevitably be more isolated and introverted, a long time used to fighting alone, it will not be so easy to believe others, in order to protect themselves, see the problem is also to the point.
In "Heart Residence", Gu Qingyu's image is comparable to that of a think tank and military master in the family, whether it is a problem with her brother or a difficulty with her father, she will put forward her own ideas at the first time.
Sometimes, although cold and ruthless, she can always tell the essence of the problem in words, and the problem is always very realistic.
Although Gu Dad sometimes does not like this of his daughter, he feels impersonal.
However, the long-term singleness has made her not understand how to be a soft person, in the face of problems, she can only solve it quickly so as not to be more hurt, this personality is forced by life, but it is not her intention.
Forced to be single, life is always hard, whether it is the gossip of others, or the various hardships given by life, will dampen her expectations. Not falling in love is not her choice, but in the accumulation of struggle, she has already developed a set of her own logic.
Therefore, when interacting with this kind of woman, please be patient, give her time to slowly appreciate your good, let her try to slowly unload her defenses, don't worry, true love takes time.
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