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In the world of feelings, optimism and pessimism are often just a thought.
Just like when the person next to you really feels that he loves you very much, you will no longer want to remind him: I am so good to you, you have to love me well!
And he will not be suspicious of him at any time and anywhere: "Does he love me or not"?
Instead, you'll let out a happy sigh: It's nice to have him there!
So, true love, is that there is a person, his life, always have your participation, his fate is connected to you, his everything is bound to you.
People live a lifetime, can be with the people they love, everything will become interesting, even if life is difficult and difficult, but it is full of a sense of coexistence that bears the wind and rain together.
Even if you simply hold hands every day, go to the market to buy vegetables, walk along the lake together, take a walk in the sunset, hide in the sofa together, and chase a soap opera, it is a joy and happiness.
Just because ordinary love is to truly finish the life together, it is these four words: not to leave and not to give up.
-02-
Men's love, in fact, is so.
Ordinary, plain, ordinary, but it is full of his heart.
Those vigorous confessions, maybe he has also done it, but later found out that the two are happy, is to be able to live a good life, just like picking up the mobile phone, casually sending a message, can get your reply, this feeling, let him feel extremely at ease.
Therefore, love has never been a wind and snow moon, but only a long stream.
A man loves someone, that is, he can't help but share, he will long for you to accompany him to talk nonsense, eat idle meals, chat about gossip, and do things together that seem to have no meaning... He identified you, that is, to take the triviality of the day with you.
Therefore, when a man is willing to share "these three things" with you, don't doubt it, he must have identified you in his heart, and what he wants to give you is his "no abandonment" in this life.
His time, shared with you
In fact, if a man really loves you, you will find that he is also very clingy.
It's like when you're not home, he'll do the housework himself and take a picture and ask you for compliments.
Love, it is so simple, when you see the moonlight at night is beautiful, when you want to tell all this to a person, your heart, has been occupied by that person.
Men who are in love, in fact, will also have some sad spring and autumn, eager to be able to take all the things that happen around you, let you know, cloudy, rainy, sunny, no matter when, as long as he can talk to you two words, he is very happy.
I remember once, I was on a business trip with my colleagues, because on the train, the signal was not good, so as long as it was time to stop, he would hurry to the platform and seize the time to reply to his daughter-in-law.
Someone advised him: Wait until you stand, and report that you are safe.
He replied with a disdainful face: That woman is a quick temper, and if she is slightly slower, she will lose her temper.
Behind the seemingly complaining, it is not "pet".
It can be seen that in the eyes of the man who loves you, you are like a cat, he will be afraid of you getting angry, afraid that you will ignore him, so he will take care of your emotions all the time, even if he is busy, he will share the time with you.
His secret, let you know
Life is short, and it must be a cool thing to have someone who shares secrets.
Only because we live in this world, there are some things that need to be hidden in the bottom of our hearts, that are to be pressed in our hearts. And if you meet someone who can say the wrong thing anytime, anywhere, regardless of whether you say the wrong thing, you must be the person you trust.
You are not two little guesses, nor are you pleasing each other, but just comfortable together, not tired of each other.
He will not hide from you, nor will he misunderstand you, he will just get along with you lightly, silently know each other, in front of you, he does not have to report to you, but every word is sincere to you.
His past will let you know; his uneasiness, he will let you know; his joy will be the first to tell you; his loneliness will long for your comfort...
In "The Biography of Zhen Huan", the emperor wants to completely get rid of Nian Qianyao and take prince Dun to open the knife first, but he is worried that Zhen Huan will be implicated, so he plays a play with Zhen Huan in advance, and the guilt is reduced to let her go to the island, and all his plans, all the "thoughts" in it, only tell Zhen Huan.
Even the empress sighed: the emperor doesn't tell me anything now.
It can be seen that at that time, they were in love with each other.
With you in his heart, a man will be eager to protect you, even the emperor is no exception, he will want you to be safe, let you know his secrets, let you not think too much.
In love, between men and women, often the more secrets are shared, the greater the space for companionship, the more profoundly they understand each other, and the longer they can accompany each other.
His future, with you involved
Someone once asked, what is love?
Someone replied: Maybe love is time, place, nothing matters, what matters is the person you meet, it's you.
Sounds really romantic.
However, it is not easy for everyone to live. You will encounter difficulties of one kind or another, and among them, the most eager is that when you are struggling to catch up, there is a person around you who has always supported you, given you hope, and relied on you.
Many of them can become a legend, never love at first sight, but a long-term love.
Only because in love, although it cannot be exchanged equally, if there is no joint participation of two people, it is just a mirror flower and water moon.
There are always people who say that the kind of love that looks at each other is very beautiful.
However, if there are no two people planning to buy a house, have children, and calculate household money, it is mostly difficult to land.
For example, before Su Wu went to the Xiongnu, he wrote for his newlywed wife: "Marry as a husband and wife, and love is not in doubt."
However, when he returned after decades of separation, he was already two sideburns, and his beloved wife had already remarried someone else, and he also married and had children in the Xiongnu.
Without common companionship, without mutual participation, no matter how many vows are made, it is just an empty talk.
Therefore, the person who truly loves you must take out his own future, must have you by his side, it is perfect, and it must be accompanied by you all the time, so that it is complete.
-03-
The best woman in this world is the woman who accompanies him, whether he is poor or rich.
The best man in this world, whether he has money or not, he will always be around the original woman.
Therefore, what women want is only four words: do not leave and do not give up.
And the affection that men can give to women is nothing more than: do not abandon.
The so-called affection is not as long as a long-term companion, love is not as deep as affection, people in this life, no matter how you live, there will be regrets, and love a person, the best, is that the person has always been with you, whether it is the beginning, or the end.
Love is a lifetime of giving.
Happiness is an experience.
When two people change from lovers to relatives, in fact, they have found the so-called quiet years in the chaotic world, and the world is stable.
Therefore, the rest of your life is a long road, may the person you meet is your good person, may there be lovers in the world, can accompany you to old age, stay together for a lifetime.
Author, Frank Fox
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May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!