Every woman is full of joy before marriage, feeling that she wants to marry the person who loves the most in this life, and he is happy to be old in this life, his heart is you, and your heart is only him.
But as time goes on, over time, you find that he starts to care less about your feelings, doesn't want to talk to you too much, and always perfunctory.
In the end, I didn't even want to see each other, I didn't want to have physical contact, and I wanted to be alone.
What to do at this time, the person you love deeply suddenly does not love you.
Many people's first reaction is to cry, pester, ask why they don't love me, why they do this to me, and what is wrong.
But love doesn't make sense all the time, and when I love you, it's real love, holding you in the palm of your hand.
When you don't love, your good becomes bad, I just don't want to see you.
When he doesn't love you, the thought becomes a pestering, and the tears turn into hate.
At this time, instead of living in the situation of past love, you can only make two preparations.
First, convince yourself to accept
Many times we can't face bad facts, can't accept that people who love us so much suddenly don't love, so we don't want to, and anger surges into our hearts.
I want to ask for an understanding, torture myself, why he is like this.
But since he no longer loves you, then your tears are no longer valuable, and your words are harsh to hear.
The difference between Shen Meizhuang and Zhen Huan's cruelty to the emperor in "The Biography of Zhen Huan" is here.
When Shen Meizhuang saw that the emperor was so desperate for herself that she didn't even give the opportunity to explain, she pulled Zhen Huan, who was preparing to intercede with the emperor, and shook her head.
Because she knows that this person can do this to you, still does not love, or has never loved, more talk will only increase trouble, it is better to accept it calmly.
But when Zhen Huan knew that she was a stand-in, she couldn't accept it, so she left, and since then she has been disheartened, and there is a King of Guojun on TV to warm her, but what about life?
If you can't face it, I'm afraid that life will only be very hard.
So if your significant other doesn't love you anymore, will he let him go?
Yes, because not all things that efforts have results, especially feelings.
Second, start over and make your life better
Now that the fact of not loving is over, it is necessary to start again.
Living well is the best response to this relationship, and it is also the best explanation for yourself.
Because the past has become a fact, then your life has to look forward.
In "The Biography of Zhen Huan", Shen Meizhuang forgot his love for the emperor, took care of the empress, and had a love affair with Wen Shichu, although others could not understand it.
But for him, it was the time when he could be his best.
Even if she dies for this in the future, she still does not regret it, because it is better to immerse herself in it for a lifetime and ruin her years.
Feelings are not the whole of life, and he is not the only one for you.
When he no longer loves you, he may hurt you, trample on your dignity, and you continue to keep this love, but only hurt yourself.
Losing feelings, we can be miserable, we can be sad, we can't figure it out, but we must stand up after that, leave bravely, and love ourselves well.
If you don't love, don't argue or make trouble is to win, because it's not worth it.
He does not cherish you, you love yourself well, naturally someone loves you again, even if not, it is the most reliable to have your own love.
Throw away the past and try to stand up on your own, because no matter how you regret, time will not stop.
Don't wait until the time has passed, and suddenly realize that the years cannot be turned back.