When the girl was not married, she lived in her mother's house, thinking that the place where she was born and raised was her own home, and when she grew up, her parents were anxious to marry off their daughter.
I went to another home: my in-laws' house. Girls went from girls to women. Thinking that this is the home of a lifetime, when I was young, I felt very happy with my husband, and I put all my hopes on my husband and all my energy on my home and children. In order to protect the integrity of the family, endless efforts are made to take care of the elderly.
When one day, the child rebels, the husband has his own stable income, and the woman becomes a useless person in the family.
At this time, the woman accompanied her husband to middle age, the house was there, and the family was OK.
The husband began to be dissatisfied with the woman, always able to lose his temper for a small matter, insult the woman, and even scold the woman with how vicious the words were, and he wished that the woman died clean. Men always laugh at the women outside, always praise the women outside for their ability, etc.
Men even file for divorce directly.
When the woman and the mother-in-law said that they wanted to divorce, they were ready to move things back to the mother's house, and the mother's family directly scolded and said that divorce was not allowed.
At this time, women became homeless.
At this time, the woman realized that her former self was too stupid. At this time, women regret it: why did they desperately build a home before, they had paid for more than twenty years before, all in vain, all in vain.
The roof leaks during the overnight rain, at this time, women looking for jobs, but also encounter walls everywhere, employers are disgusted with the age, and men at this time are like day in the day.
Women do not have their own home in their lives, no matter when they are, they must love themselves well, do not regard their husbands as heaven, and in the end they will not be hurt too much