It seems that our lives have always been spent in regrets, and it is difficult to achieve perfection in all aspects of life.
That unfinished trip, the lover who didn't make it to the end, the exam that wasn't done with heart... Looking back on the past, there will always be sadness and sadness in my heart.
Some regrets have the opportunity to be achieved again, but some regrets, once the time is gone, it will never be the same again, and there will be no chance to achieve it again.
When it comes to love, few people can meet one person and go to the end, most people are slowly walking through failures and regrets again and again, and there are countless touching stories hidden in those regrets.
For the past experience, you must still remember it, after all, there is no way to completely forget the people who have loved with your heart.
What was your most regrettable moment in love?
Chen Chen said that his regret in love is that he did not work hard enough to make himself more excellent when he was with her. He only talked about a real love in college, her family is extremely superior, his family is ordinary, when he is with her, they will always have conflicts because of money problems, most of the time, the cost of dating is paid by girls, which makes him feel very inferior.
The lifestyles of the two people are very different, he always thinks that as long as he eats enough and dresses warmly, while the girl has to pursue the quality of life. In the past three years, Chenchen has changed a lot, he has his own economic ability, he also pursues a quality life, and he has the ability to implement it. He seemed to say, I have the ability now, you come back, but she won't come back.
Xiao Yuan said that in the time with him, he had many regrets, several times he was embarrassed to hold those hands, missed a good time when his feelings warmed up, and did not give him a strong sense of faith - we can go to the end together. Every time when folding clothes or cutting fruit, I regret not showing him such a virtuous side of myself, rushing to make quick gains, demanding too much from him, comparing him with the other half of my expectations, not feeling down-to-earth, trying, getting along, not getting along like friends at the beginning, too superior, consuming his likes, and not doing myself normally in the process of getting along. These are all regrets in getting along, even if they don't think clearly later, they break up, entangle and reconcile, and then finally die of not interacting with each other. After the breakup, he fell into the liking for him, repeatedly promoted his advantages, degraded himself, lost the focus of life, and did not realize until he came out completely that love and breakup were just a very common thing.
Sometimes, fate is so fragile, too full and too little is better than just right. The empty window period will consume pride and deepen regret, but it will also restrain itself and value its true feelings.
Lin Xia said that his regret was that he was too timid, afraid to keep him, would be looked down upon by him, afraid that it would make him feel bored, afraid that he would wear away a little good impression in his heart, and even more afraid that he had summoned up all his courage and finally was rejected by him. After all, he was obviously so determined to break up with her, and he seemed to have taken care of his own face, but in the end he had been immersed in the dilemma that if I tried to keep it, would the ending be different.
Maybe she'll have to hide in a thick shell for the rest of her life, waiting for the next brave man to knock on her shell and say, Hey, I'm coming to play with you.
Everyone's regrets in love are different, whether in love, or after the breakup, regrets do not cherish each other well, regrets do not have enough courage to keep. No one can do it all without regrets, but even if we do it again, at that point in time, we will still make the same choice. The wrong people, even if they come back together, will eventually be separated for the same reason the first time.
Therefore, blindly immersing yourself in nostalgia for the past will not help at all, it will only make you live a depressed life, and it is difficult to come out and meet a new life. It is better to free your mind, do not dwell on the regrets of the past, put more time on the creation of the future, take care of yourself, and meet people who are truly worthy of love.