I, a post-70s northwest rural baby, was confessed by a beautiful woman when I went to work in Pakistan Railway, and now I am a foreign son-in-law
Narrator: Zhang Youqing
Finishing: Mr. Xiao Han
My name is Zhang Youqing, born in 1978 in Tianshui City, Gansu Province, and I am 44 years old. I had two marriages, the first was in China, and I had three children, but since my wife came to the city, she felt that I was incompetent, couldn't make a lot of money, and left three children to run away with the rich; the second marriage happened abroad, because I followed my boss to Pakistan to work, and was confessed by a girl who could say Chinese, and then we got married.
When I was a child, my family was poor, and I had many brothers and sisters, and I was happy to be able to eat enough, and I grew up stumbling, and the happiest thing was to study, because at that time I didn't have to do farm work, and I could play with a group of classmates, but such a good life did not last long.
My father was a very domineering and very traditional person, thinking that farmers should cultivate the land, reading could not be eaten as food, when I was in the fifth grade, I was stopped by my father, at that time I was very afraid of my father, so I had to obediently follow my father home. But doing farm work is very hard, every day deliberately lazy, by my father with a whip, never crying, not crying pain, and finally under the persuasion of my mother, I entered the school again.
But I was not a good seedling to study, I barely finished junior high school, and finally I dealt with the land, planted crops for a year, and then went out to work with the villagers. I am young, and can speak the Tao, so in the run or take advantage, after all, the work can not bear the hardships, said good luck, has been following a small boss in Hebei, step by step to make a fortune.
In my early twenties, I started a family, my wife has been living in my hometown, living with my parents, so that it is easy to take care of children, I work outside, basically once a month to go back.
After five years of marriage and having three children, my wife often complained that she had been left in the country, and I thought it was not good. But when I got to the city, I needed to rent a house, I needed to study for my children, and my little salary was not enough, but fortunately, my wife was diligent and found a job outside, but it also caused dissatisfaction with marriage.
See more, the comparison is more, to put it bluntly, or I have no ability, at that time I and the boss are in the career upswing period, so there is no money in hand, usually will not ask the boss to increase the salary, and finally the wife cheated, intolerable, choose divorce, and the child, she in order to save trouble, one did not want, and then my parents brought back to the countryside to raise, I continued to work outside.
My boss and I came to Pakistan from 2012, when I was doing some mining, of course, my boss also followed others to do, to say that the small boss followed the big boss, and I was just a part-time worker, after all, I worked with the small boss for many years, I was deeply trusted, and many things were handed over to me to take care of, and he was a hand-off treasurer.
Because I can't speak foreign languages, the first three years of going to Pakistan, basically relying on translation, and then at the request of the boss, I learned Urdu, to put it bluntly, it is Hindi, it is not easy to learn, compared to English, Urdu is more difficult to learn.
Time, always let those who work hard to get the due reward, a few years later, my English and Urdu can communicate normally, in 2016, I am 38 years old, by a Beautiful Woman in Pakistan, she is an employee of our local company, contact for almost two years, feel is a gentle and kind girl.
Although I have known each other for a long time, I have never thought of meeting a foreign object, but even my former translators have supported me, and we have been together since.
Her name is Humeima, not very tall, but very tall, at her request, Humeima's two brothers also came to work in our company, more or less able to let their family eat and drink, in 2017, Humeima and I held a wedding in Pakistan, forming a happy family.
Working in Pakistan, in fact, is relatively easy, but the cultural level of people here is not high, management still needs patience, sometimes if you are not careful, you will lose things, I think people who have worked in Pakistan must have encountered such a situation.
It is in a foreign country, three children have become my inseparable heart meat, about once a year back, originally wanted to return to china to live, but because of customs and habits, it is difficult for Pakistani girls to go abroad, and I have become a "foreign son-in-law", but it is very popular in the local area.
To tell the truth, sometimes I really appreciate my boss, following him to do things for decades, not only has not been treated badly, but also achieved me, learned work skills, but also married a daughter-in-law, the most important thing is that the daughter-in-law almost did not spend any money, before and after adding up to more than ten thousand yuan.
People live a lifetime, being able to control their own lives is a very happy thing, and I have been slowly living my life as I want in the past few decades, perhaps, the environment and ability are the main thing, plus hard work, everything is naturally successful.