Author | Jiang Xiaohe
Source | Notes on the Life of the Twelve Queens
ID | egoshe
The Irish poet Roy Clift wrote a poem called "I Love You":
"I love you, not only for the way you look, but also because of the way I look when I'm with you."
I love you, not only because of what you did for me, but also because, for you, I can do it.
I love you because you can call out that part of me most truly. ”
Privately, love is a remarkable ability that not everyone has.
Therefore, for many people, only when they meet a good lover, they will be stimulated to be particularly good self and learn to love this thing.
The Royal Garden fell in love at first sight, and Zhen Huan was such a good lover to the emperor.
And the emperor's love for Zhen Huan is not only because of Zhen Huan's appearance, but also because of the way he looked when he was with Zhen Huan.
He pretended to be Guo Junwang and Zhen Huan to touch each other, the two of you and I interacted back and forth, the two of them went on the second date in the Royal Garden, the emperor took the initiative to issue an invitation for the third date, Zhen Huan agreed and left with Liu zhu.
The emperor sat alone on the swing, sideways watching the back of Zhen Huan leaving, and then swung happily on the swing himself.
Before I always felt that the emperor was an old house on fire, now that I have an emotional experience and look at it again, I feel more and more that this is an incomparably beautiful and peaceful scene: an old man in his forties, unguarded and happy like a child swinging happily.
Good emotional interaction and healthy love flow will make people become gentle and lovely, rather than wronged or compromised, to put it bluntly, love is the magic that makes people return to children at any time.
The so-called "I love you, because you can summon the truest part of me", Zhen Huan summoned the truest part of the emperor's heart.
He carried Zhen Huan back to the palace, and the director gave a long shot. Chen Jianbin acted extremely well, the momentum of the spirit, the vitality that was burned by passion... It's all on display.
As the emperor himself said: "I feel sorry for the woman I like, and others can talk about it as much as they like!" ”
Wang Xiaobo said:
"I was twenty-one years old that day, and in the golden age of my life, I had many extravagant hopes. I want to love, I want to eat, and I want to turn into a half-light and half-dark cloud in the sky in an instant.
Later, I learned that life is a slow process of being hammered, people grow old day by day, and their extravagance disappears day by day, and finally they become like a cow that has been hammered. I felt like I was going to be fierce forever and couldn't hammer me with anything. ”
At this moment, the emperor who picked up Zhen Huan gained emotional freedom, he was no longer a silent king, he was back to his golden age, he was a man, he wanted to love, wanted to obey the most sincere wishes of his heart, nothing could stop him.
Good love is to make people get energy.
In addition, compared with the kind of love that the King of Guojun gave to Zhen Huan regardless of the romantic color, the emperor gave Zhen Huan the kind of love that was "Qinser and Ming, and the flounder was deeply affectionate", mature, restrained and gentle.
King Guojun's love for Zhen Huan was with a kind of tossing, a kind of consumption that passed today and did not have tomorrow; the emperor gave Zhen Huan a heart to live a life, stable, gentle and with a little caution.
The emperor has been wearing the Guojun King vest and Interacting with Zhen Huan, which is not a long-term solution, although it is the love of love, it always has to return to the truth.
Just when Zhen Huan and the emperor both needed a return to the real zone, Yu Ying'er appeared, and she followed the emperor to the imperial garden, gave Zhen Huan a sneer, and bullied Zhen Huan: "Why do you dare to direct me?!" ”
This just gave the emperor the opportunity to take off his vest, stage a hero to save the United States, and reveal his true identity, so he drank: "If it is the command of Yuan, do you want you to pay homage to Wanchang?" ”
He reprimanded Yu Ying'er twice, and then said to Zhen Huan, "Yuan, that day was not late to the covenant, although you were sick these days, your heart was worried about you here, do you have to wait for yuan again?" ”
The emperor deliberately emphasized the title of "朕", which was his initiative to take off his vest, formally introduce himself to Zhen Huan, and anxiously explain to Zhen Huan that the reason why he broke his contract last time was because he was sick and could not come.
Zhen Huan could only be silent when she heard this, because the emperor's words were inappropriate.
The emperor saw that Zhen Huan did not react, and felt more and more pity for her, so he smiled and said to Liu Zhu: "Get up, help your little lord, she is weak." ”
The emperor's slight expression of small stealing joy is very proud and happy that the little plan has succeeded.
Then the emperor sent Down Yu Ying'er, and he could not see that Zhen Huan was wronged, and finally did not forget to find Zhen Huan to make up for her face, and said to Yu Ying'er:
"Didn't you just say that Wan's position is only a little higher than yours?" Jin Guan is often a nobleman. ”
Next, in order to better let the feelings enter the next stage, the emperor also specially explained to Zhen Huan the reason why he pretended to be the king of Guo county, saying that he did not want to be a lonely person who did not even speak of his heart.
Because the emperor himself is a complex man, he expects more than just an obedient, obedient woman, he needs a three-dimensional, multi-faceted and deep woman like him, who can interact with him on the spiritual level and dissolve the loneliness in his heart.
Moreover, the emperor was very careful with Zhen Huan, and he secretly thought that he had brought insecurity to Zhen Huan before he had made a promise, which made Zhen Huan resentful, so he specially explained:
"On that day of heavy rain, Shuo did not deliberately break the contract, and Shuo was still a few steps away from entering the Imperial Garden, and as a result, the Empress Dowager wanted to go to Shoukang Palace..."
After explaining, he also carefully probed Zhen Huan's intentions for him: "I thought later, that the rain was so heavy that day, you have been recuperating, you must not be able to come." ”
Hearing Zhen Huan say that she did not break the contract that day, the emperor immediately cared: "Is it true?" So you're drenched in rain, and have you hurt your body? ”
What earth-shattering romance, this overflowing concern and care, is not love.
There is also a detail, the emperor touched Zhen Huan's hand, found that the hand was very cold, and said: "Is it because of the wind?" ”
So he proposed to accompany Zhen Huan back.
To love someone is to care for her and to pay attention to every detail related to her.
The emperor who carried Zhen Huan all the way back to Shattered Yuxuan sighed at Zhen Huan, "Yuan's hands are sour! Zhen Huan said: The emperor is heavy on me.
The emperor replied: "You are not heavy, it is because you are afraid of your pain, and if you are loose, you are afraid that you will fall, and your hands are in a dilemma, so you are sour." ”
Love is a hand that wants to touch and withdraw, love is a heart that is untouched but trembling, love is a minute that does not know how to be good!
The emperor can talk about love!
In fact, the emperor not only has a sweet mouth, but also a thin heart.
After Jin sealed Zhen Huan, he first let Xiao Xiazi send all kinds of good things, and finally instructed Xiao Xiazi:
"The emperor knows that the little lord's body has not yet healed, and the people coming and going hinder the little lord's recuperation, except for the doctor and the emperor, they must close the door to thank guests, and also ask Aunt Cui to do it for them."
I couldn't understand why the emperor had asked for this, but then I found a small detail.
When the emperor hugged Zhen Huan back to Shattered Yuxuan, he found that there were very few people in the broken Yuxuan's palace, and he felt that it was inappropriate, Zhen Huan explained: "Concubines need to be recuperated, and they really don't need so many slaves to serve. ”
It turned out that the emperor had taken Zhen Huan's words to heart, and Zhen Huan said that she needed to recuperate, so she specially gave her a quiet environment.
If Zhen Huan gave the emperor ironing stickers, the emperor gave Zhen Huan care: the two fulfilled each other's emotional needs.
When I was young, I was full of expectations for the romantic love of The King of Guojun to death, but after a certain age and life experience, I would find that love eventually had to settle into life, that is, trivialities and details, so I would feel that the emperor's love was more real and tangible.
However, in the final analysis, no matter how many winds and snows you experience, how many love entanglements, in the end you will always understand:
Compared with the desire for love itself, for us, the most precious thing is the self that is affectionately regardless of gains and losses.
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