Both Zhen Huan and the empress supported An Lingrong, but the results were very different. For Zhen Huan's support, An Lingrong was grateful at first, but it was only grateful. In addition to sending some things that the emperor rewarded, she never wanted to really contribute to Zhen Huan. She is jealous of Zhen Huan and Chun Changzai's feelings, and is angry that Zhen Huan gave the Floating Light Brocade to Huanbi, and Zhen Huan gave her a head, which she felt was looking down on her... Before she died, she told Zhen Huan that you weren't really good to me, just rewarded me with a little leftover. Zhen Huan helped her, not only did not pull her into his camp, but also helped her into an enemy. An Lingrong's attitude towards the empress was completely different. Ever since she defected to the empress, she has constantly taken risks to do things for the empress, first killing the children of the Fucha nobles with cats, and then using Shu trace glue to harm Zhen Huan's miscarriage. And during the period of surrendering to the queen, she had to honestly drink the pill, could not have her own children, and often worried about it, afraid that if one thing was not done well, it would be discarded by the queen. The same is support, Zhen Huan is better for her, but she is not grateful at all, and even does not want to be in the same camp with Zhen Huan, and does not want to do anything risky for Zhen Huan. And the queen used her so obviously, but she was willing to use it for her, doing things for the other party conscientiously, even if these things had no bottom line. Why is this happening? It is not that An Lingrong is stupid and will not distinguish, but that Zhen Huan and the empress are essentially different.
1 First of all, Zhen Huan and An Lingrong are friends, although they are not as deeply affectionate as Meizhuang, but in the end there is still an emotional component. Why did The first thing that came to mind after Meizhuang was grounded was to support An Lingrong? Because she and Zhen Huan are very clear that An Lingrong is a friend and should be born in a camp with them, so to support her is to support herself. From An Lingrong's point of view, she and Zhen Huan are friends, so it is a natural thing for Zhen Huan to support her, and friends do not want to help each other. When Zhen Huan had just accepted the favor, the palace maid Baojuan beside An Lingrong said: Wangui is so favored, and she does not support the little lord. Bao Juan's words are not an anling's voice, but also the voice of most viewers. As a friend, since you are favored, don't you have to take care of your friends? At first, Zhen Huan did not expect this out, although An Lingrong did not say anything on his lips, it was difficult to ensure that he was not lost in his heart, but it was not easy to say anything. Later, Zhen Huan finally supported her, naturally there will not be many surprises and surprises, everyone feels that this is a reasonable thing. However, Zhen Huan has not supported her, and it is easy to fall into the reputation of being indifferent and selfish and disregarding her friends. Many things, once mixed with feelings, it is difficult to talk about interests. In particular, if this relationship does not have mixed interests at the beginning, and then talks about interests later, it is more difficult.
When Zhen Huan and An Lingrong became friends, basically there were not too many interests involved, Zhen Huan helped her, but also held that it was better to become friends, multiple friends and multiple roads, it didn't matter if they couldn't become friends, and they didn't lose anything. Since it was pure at first, everything you do for your friends should be pure. Once it's not pure, friends blame it. This is also why Zhen Huan helped An Lingrong, but she was not grateful, and complained that Zhen Huan only gave her leftovers. Why does everyone say, don't do business with friends? Because there will be such a problem. People who take advantage of it will not feel that they have taken advantage, but feel that we are friends, you help me what is wrong, will not think about saying, I took advantage of it, I need to use other things to make up. The people who are taken advantage of are also not happy, but it is not easy to say clearly, can only behave less happy, I hope that you can take the initiative to make up for it. After An Lingrong was favored, Zhen Huan basically had this mentality. She helped An Lingrong in the hope that the sisters would join forces to save Meizhuang and let others dare not provoke them. After An Lingrong ascended to the throne, he was busy seducing the empress, not mentioning the matter of saving Meizhuang, nor did he do anything for Zhen Huan.
2 An Lingrong really didn't know, did Zhen Huan actually have a purpose in helping her? She knew, but precisely because she knew there was a purpose, she was even more unhappy. If Zhen Huan purely helps her, she will still read a little affection, thinking that this friend is good and can be treated. But Zhen Huan helped her because Meizhuang was grounded, and Zhen Huan was weak, so she supported her to stabilize her own interests. If it is an ordinary person, it will feel that this is nothing, you helped me, I can also help you, both sides can not be separated from whom, such a relationship is solid. But they are friends, and once they are mixed with feelings, they will increase their requirements for people. An Lingrong will feel that you have my own purpose for helping me, so you are not really good to me.
Since you are not good to me, why should I thank you. I'm disappointed in you as a friend, that's why I don't want to do anything for you. In addition, although An Lingrong was not favored, the status between her and Zhen Huan was actually not much different, one noble person agreed to one, and the difference was only two ranks. Moreover, the nobles in the harem are not worth mentioning, not even the main seat of the first palace. People of similar status, even if she is better than you, you will not feel how strong she is, you will not look up to her, and you will betray her at any time. The reason is simple, since the status is similar, why do you have to succumb to her? Isn't it better to set up another portal yourself than to follow her? This is also the reason why An Lingrong was not only not grateful to Zhen Huan, but also so righteous and courageous when he later betrayed. And she would feel in her psychology that Zhen Huan did not help her anything, but only introduced her to the emperor, and everything depended on her own efforts.
3 The empress also has a purpose to support An Lingrong, that is, she wants her to help beat the fetus, which An Lingrong knew very early. But because she and the queen are not friends, there will be no mixed feelings, so she naturally accepts that if she wants to join the queen, she needs to always do things for the queen. And what the empress provided was to use the back seat to keep her honored and favored. It is a naked exchange of values, because it does not mix feelings, and both parties know it. One desperately tries to prove himself, and the other keeps reminding and suppressing, firmly controlling the other. An Lingrong was also not grateful to the empress, but it didn't matter, they were originally a cooperative relationship, as long as both sides got what they wanted. Moreover, the status of the empress was much higher than that of An Lingrong, and under the crushing power of absolute power, An Lingrong was more willing to pay and more willing to obey. And because the level difference is too large, she does not know where the queen's ability boundaries are, and will blindly magnify the value of the other party.
For example, when her father was rescued, she felt that it was the empress's credit, and she felt that the harem was still the queen's decision. Every time she is favored, although she also has her own efforts, she will also feel that the queen is still powerful, and there is always a way to make her show her face. This is also the reason why she does not dare to betray the queen, one is that she really feels that the other party can help her, and the other is afraid that she will not be able to bear such a bad result after the betrayal. But betraying Zhen Huan is nothing, anyway, Zhen Huan is similar to her status, even if she is favored, she can't do anything with her. This is also human nature, almost everyone. Just think about how your family treats your relatives. Is there a difference between a relative with similar conditions and a noble relative in hospitality? Including talking will be different. Between almost all relatives, any topic can be talked about, but your relatives may be worried about saying the wrong thing when they talk.
An Lingrong has been educated and most people since she was a child, so her performance is the same as most people, not like a palace fighter. For ordinary people, the consciousness of the palace fighting master may be difficult to have, then follow the following principles: First, do not talk about interests with friends, it will hurt feelings, everyone should help each other, which is why people want to make friends, friends mean that everyone defaults to paying each other without asking for returns. Second, don't support someone of your own rank, because the cost of his betrayal is low and it is difficult to respect you. If you must support, then hold the psychology of helping, do not ask for returns. Third, let others get benefits, whether others help you or not, let people know that you are not a white-eyed wolf. Otherwise, there will be no one to help you next time.