In the past, watching "The Biography of Zhen Huan" was just a sloppy look at the flowers, and I never carefully touched the plot inside. Recently re-brushed, found a lot of thought-provoking scenes. For example, Huanbi betrayed Zhen Huan for her own future, but was discovered by Zhen Huan, and finally the sisters recognized that scene. At that time, I felt that Zhen Huan was also too kind, and a few words of ease made Huanbi turn back, there was no harsh rebuke and no lesson for Huanbi, and even staged a touching scene of sister recognition. This revisit suddenly gave rise to an idea: why didn't Zhen Huan recognize Huanbi early, instead of waiting until she betrayed herself before telling Huanbi the truth? After thinking about it clearly, I knew the cleverness of Zhen Huan's doing so. It turns out that she is not just kind, her most powerful point is not only deep understanding of human nature, but also know how to think far, and she can laugh to the end and fully benefit from this.
1 The timing is not right, and rushing to recognize each other will only harm Huanbi Zhen Huan on the eve of entering the palace, and learn that Huanbi is born of the daughter of her father and a criminal courtier. After learning of Huanbi's death, Zhen Huan did not recognize Huanbi and decided to take Huanbi into the palace. So the question is, Zhen Father and Zhen Huan both know that the palace is dangerous, why should they let Huanbi enter the palace? If we recognize each other as soon as possible, is it not good to adopt Huanbi as a righteous daughter outside the palace? Everything is only because Zhen Father and Zhen Huan are too aware of the stakes. Although Zhen's father feels guilty about Huanbi, as a father, he still hopes that Huanbi has a better future, and although entering the palace is risky, it also means that there is a better way out. And if you rush to recognize each other, there are hundreds of harms and no benefits for Huanbi. First of all, the emperor's concubine suddenly had a younger sister, the imperial court official suddenly had a daughter, is bound to attract the attention of the outside world, if there are good people to investigate this matter, Huanbi's life secret is very likely to be exposed, then not only Zhen Huan's entry into the palace will be affected, Huanbi's life is also difficult to protect, and then zhen mansion will be implicated.
Secondly, rushing to recognize each other will make Huanbi have a lot of unrealistic ideas. As mentioned in later episodes, although Huanbi was a maid at home, her eating and wearing were better than others, and sometimes even Zhen Huan let her spoil her like Miss Second. In addition, Zhen Father and Zhen Huan are very aware of Huanbi's disposition, Huanbi's heart is higher than the sky, as a maid is already so special, if she becomes a lady, she will definitely be more ostentatious. But Huanbi herself did not realize this, and she even harbored a little delusion: if Zhen Huan entered the palace, she might be able to become the second miss. Before entering the palace, when Huanbi asked Liu Zhu if he wanted to enter the palace, he revealed his thoughts that he did not want to enter the palace, and his name was that he wanted to stay and take care of the old man and his wife, in fact, he hoped that he could be recognized by the Zhen family and be the real second miss.
But at that time, Huanbi, as a maid, had neither seen the world nor read many books, and with her shallow insight and impetuous heart, it would be good not to be stunned in the face of sudden food. At that time, Huanbi did not have the psychological literacy of the big miss, nor did she have the ability and talent of the big miss, and she could not bear the identity of the second miss at all. There is a saying that goes: If virtue is not worthy, there will be disasters. When people are not so capable, they are too ambitious, which will only increase their troubles. And when the virtue is not so high, with the sudden glory and wealth, it will only fall very badly. Therefore, rushing to recognize each other will only harm Huanbi. 2 Send charcoal in the snow in adversity, better than when the good times are icing on the cake after entering the palace, when Zhen Huan is not favored, Huanbi is still safe. After gaining favor, Huanbi gradually had two hearts, even Aunt Huan Xi could see it, not to mention Zhen Huan, who had spent time with Huanbi day and night. Huanbi's alien heart is mainly reflected in two things. The first is that she believes that she is the daughter of the young secretary of the Dali Temple, and her status is more honorable than that of An Ling rong, and her family lineage is more prominent than that of An Ling. Therefore, he was indignant and indignant about An Lingrong, and repeatedly made offensive remarks. Zhen Huan repeatedly mentioned that she should be careful in her words and deeds, but she only replied that she should not be willing. The second is to express herself in front of the emperor many times: when Zhen Huan and the emperor are alone, they break in, use wide-mouth pots to raise lotus flowers to show their ingenuity, and when Zhen Huan accompanies the emperor to dine, the flower branches dressed up want to win the attention of the emperor. At this time, Huanbi completely forgot that she had a mother after having a sinner, and only remembered that she had the father of The Shaoqing of Dali Temple, plus Zhen Huan's holy family was in full swing, and the whole people of Broken Jade Xuan followed the scenery. So for Huanbi, this is exactly the best situation in her life. At this time, if Zhen Huan and Huanbi recognize each other, persuade her to be kind, and ask her not to approach the emperor, not only will she not be able to stop her from doing stupid things, but it may also make Huanbi resent Zhen Huan, making her think that Zhen Huan can't see her well. Even if Huanbi can understand Zhen Huan's good intentions at this time, it is not necessarily a good thing for the sisters to recognize each other. Because this is equivalent to indirectly acknowledging Huanbi's identity for the Zhen family, she will be more proud of it. As soon as people are proud, they are easily blinded by the prosperity in front of them and turn a blind eye to potential crises. And when Huanbi's betrayal of Zhen Huan was discovered, her crisis surfaced one by one, and Zhen Huan's analysis made her understand: her behavior would not only harm Zhen Huan, but also make her life difficult to protect, and even affect Zhen's father's exile of Ningguta.
At this time, Huanbi had to pay attention to it, she never realized that her actions would cause such serious consequences. No matter how much she wanted to fly before, after figuring out the pros and cons, she was really afraid. At this time, Zhen Huan's approach was really clever. First of all, she did not blame Huanbi, not even a small punishment, but admitted her sister. This not only lifted Huanbi's crisis, but also gave Huanbi, who has always had a "second miss complex", a great comfort. In addition, Zhen Huan said that she and Zhen's father were thinking of Huanbi in their hearts, saying that taking her into the palace was convenient to help her find a good family in the future. If she is left in Zhen Province, she will marry a small town at most in the future. This made Huanbi feel greatly valued. The most important point is that Zhen Huan helped Huanbi but had the biggest heart disease: she promised to put Huanbi's name on the family tree and let her mother's tablet enter the Zhen ancestral hall. Zhen Huan's series of operations not only saved Huanbi's life, but also collected Huanbi's heart. All of this is due to her control of human nature: when people are in a good situation, it is difficult to listen to the advice of the ear, and may even take revenge on the person who gives the advice. And for those who help themselves to add icing on the cake, at best, they are only touched at the time, but this touch will soon be diluted by time. But for those who give themselves charcoal in the snow in times of adversity, people will remember it for a lifetime, and even turn this kindness into a long-term return.
3 Looking at the long-term, in order to go far, there is also a point that is easy to be overlooked: Zhen Huan is a far-sighted person, and recognizing huanbi after the betrayal of himself is a step with long-term thinking. Zhen Huan said a seemingly inconspicuous but profound sentence to Huanbi: "Yu Luo is young, and there is no son in the family, and the only one who can rely on her is our sisters." This sentence has three meanings: First, Yu Jiao's wings are not yet abundant, and she is not yet able to revitalize the Zhen clan. Second, there is no boy in the family who can get a meritorious name, and it is not feasible to prosper the family by taking the official road. Third, Zhen Huan has expectations for Huanbi, she not only hopes that Huanbi can support each other with herself, but also hopes that Huanbi can marry a good family, and the help brought by a good marriage to the family is no worse than the fenghou worship. Therefore, Zhen Huanxuan's recognition of Huanbi at this time is a very superb move. It not only disintegrated Huanbi's alien heart, gained a loyal sister, but also won a strength for the Guangyao matriarchal Zhen clan. Although Zhen Huan is bent on being good to Huanbi, she does not only focus on the current interests, but chooses the right time to meet again. This long-term vision allowed her to win Huanbi's loyalty and preserve Zhen's glory.
4 This incident also gives us great inspiration: in ourselves, if we want to bear the weight of the crown, we must first practice our own abilities and repair our own morality. For others, if you want to really help each other, you must choose a good time, otherwise it is easy to cause the end of "Sheng Mi En Dou Mi Hate". In life, if you want to live a good life, long-term thinking is indispensable. Author's profile: Wei Mang, Tang Xiaoxiao 16 film critics class students, there is light in the eyes, love in the heart, write warm words, live a warm day. Graph source network