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The same girlfriend, Meizhuang and Zhen Huan's relationship has always been very good, in the palace has been supporting each other, not provoked by others, Meizhuang has become the "best mei sister". Watching the scene where Meizhuang died the day before yesterday, I cried with Zhen Huan and cried sadly, such a friendship is really too rare.
An Lingrong and Zhen Huan's feelings, but to the other extreme, others provoked, coupled with several misunderstandings, An Lingrong regarded Zhen Huan as an enemy, stabbed a knife in the back, and also killed Sister Mei, and the reason why she killed Sister Mei was only that she was happy to see Zhen Huan sad.
Why is there such a big difference between An Lingrong and Shen Meizhuang?
The superficial reason, of course, is that Meizhuang is better than An Lingrong, or grew up with Zhen Huan, with a similar family background, and the feelings are better.
But these, in fact, are like the flowers in the moon mirror in the water, Huanbi is still Zhen Huan's sister, at the beginning did not listen to others provoked and betrayed Zhen Huan, it is reasonable to say that Huanbi can be compared to Mei Zhuang pro.
Speaking of character, the character of the concubine is good enough, for the sake of Yue Yue, she will also be tempted to fall to the empress and harm Zhen Huan once.
The most fundamental reason is that the three views of Meizhuang and An Lingrong are different.
All of An Lingrong's sensitivity and awkwardness are because of her three views.
Before dying, she met with Zhen Huan and said that she did not appreciate Zhen Huan, and even hated Zhen Huan. Because she felt that Zhen Huan had helped her to be favored, she just wanted to use her to consolidate her position, just using her as a stepping stone.
In addition to hating Zhen Huan, she also hated the emperor and hated the empress, thinking that they did not really treat her, the queen had been using her, and the emperor had always treated her as a gadget.
What An Lingrong asks for is always the sincerity of others, and it is the true heart of no blemish. If you help me, you must have no purpose, it must be sincere for my good, and if you make me a concubine, you must really love me, not because I am obedient and obedient to make you happy.
From Zhen Huan's point of view, I feel that she is incomprehensible, but from her point of view, we will find that this is actually the demand of many people for feelings.
If you love me, you must love me 100% as a person, accept all my shortcomings, you can't love my money, love my family.
If you help me, you really want to help me, don't ask for anything in return. If you ask for something in return, or if you help me for another purpose, I feel that you are a person with evil intentions and are not worth associating with at all.
In life, those who complain everywhere and see no one is pleasing to the eye, basically this psychology.
And Zhen Huan's help to An Lingrong is indeed selfish, and it is indeed in order to consolidate her position, so It is really normal for An Lingrong to hate her.
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On the other hand, Mei Zhuang's three views were completely different from An Lingrong's.
What she believes is that people should be useful to each other, so that the relationship can last. So from the moment she entered the palace, she took the initiative to hug Zhen Huan, when she was being pampered, and what Zhen Huan lacked, she sent it to her.
In addition to feelings, but also because she understands that it is not enough to be weak in the harem, she needs Zhen Huan's helper, even if this helper is not strong enough for the time being, but there is definitely a chance to become strong.
Every time the three sisters met, she always stressed that we should help each other and hug each other to keep warm.
After the fake pregnancy storm was grounded, she also wrote a letter to Zhen Huan, asking Zhen Huan to support An Lingrong. What Mei Zhuang thought at this time was that the three people would hug the group, so that Zhen Huan would not fall, and she still had the opportunity to turn over.
Strictly speaking, there is indeed a suspicion of using An Lingrong.
But this matter is not harmful to An LingRong, the three of them were originally hugging the group, now supporting her, she is favored, the ability is stronger, the small team of three people is stronger, they all rely on each other, she does not have the slightest loss.
On the contrary, because she is supported, it is no longer the two sisters who blindly help her, she can also help them, and this relationship will be more secure.
Anyone who has been enjoying the help of others and has no use for themselves is certainly not long-lasting.
But An Lingrong didn't think so, as long as she was sincere, she felt that Zhen Huan helped her to consolidate her position, but she wouldn't think that Zhen Huan's position would be more stable when her position was consolidated.
Anyway, she just felt that she was being used, even if she got benefits, it was eleven million unhappy, and she put a question mark on this friendship in her heart, so as soon as others provoked, she immediately had all kinds of doubts.
Meizhuang accepted that everyone relied on each other and used each other, and many people in the Forbidden City accepted it. Later, Mei Zhuang went to rely on the empress, why did the empress dowager let her rely on it? Didn't the Empress know that she was so attentive in order to find a reliance?
It doesn't matter, she is willing to serve the empress, willing to coax the empress dowager to be happy, and the empress dowager will return her dependence. To put it bluntly, it is still mutual use.
Mei Zhuang and Zhen Huan's three views are close, so no matter how others provoke, they are very clear that in the harem, they are allies, and they must stand firmly together in order not to be harmed by others. They will not be angry at each other because they have used themselves, but they will be happy to be able to help each other.
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There is a cruel fact that Most of An Lingrong's three views are because of her origin.
The more people who are not born well and have a bad life, the more they care about their sincerity, and they can't see that there is a little flaw in the sincerity of others.
Think about the relatives around you who are not happy, is this the case?
You helped him, and he was also picky, thinking that you weren't really helping him, you were for your own reputation.
If you do one thing, let him help you in a certain link, you give him benefits, he feels that the benefits given to him are too little, you earn ten thousand, actually only give him three thousand benefits, if he does not help you, you will not earn a cent.
Obviously they win each other, he also obviously got the benefits, but he hated you to the bone, thinking that you were not sincere with him, just using.
That's why they're not having a good time, because less and less people are willing to help them.
An Lingrong was such a person, so later, she actually didn't have a friend around her. Originally, I grabbed Zhen Huan's good card, and finally played it badly, and I was also aggrieved and bitter, and hated everyone.
Seeing that others can't get benefits from themselves on the basis of not hurting themselves is An Lingrong's biggest shortcoming. She can use others, others can use her, no, she has to be sad and sad.
Zhen Huan knew how to use each other very well, and she later entered the palace as a concubine and won over half of the people in the harem. Most of them are to rely on her and use her to preserve their glory and wealth.
She is willing to be used and takes the initiative to help others achieve their goals, so others are more willing to stand with her and are willing to help her everywhere.
If these people hadn't helped her, she wouldn't have been able to defeat the queen.
An Lingrong didn't understand this until she died, or she understood, but she couldn't do it, and she didn't agree with it, because it was completely different from the values she had received since childhood.
The education that Shen Meizhuang and Zhen Huan received from childhood was like this, so in the mutual hugging group, a deep sisterhood was developed.
No wonder people often say that people with different views should not be together, otherwise they will be wronged by each other.
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