I once watched an interview with Liu Yifei, and I was impressed by what she said.
"A woman's self-confidence does not depend on anything external, but more from qualities beyond the outside. I think that a rich heart and fearless composure are the highest qualities that a woman can call beautiful and elegant. ”
As you get older, you'll find that beauty is something that only fades away.
What really brings you satisfaction is self-confidence and determination from the heart.
Most people who dare to be honest with themselves are very comfortable.
Liu Yifei is like this.
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In an interview, Liu Yifei was asked by reporters what books he was reading recently?
Unexpectedly, Liu Yifei replied: "None of them have been read recently, so I am embarrassed to share." ”
The reporter did not give up asking again, did he consider publishing a book or writing a script? ”
Liu Yifei shook her head when she heard this: "No, no, I don't have that talent." ”
I was a little stunned when I first heard this honest conversation. Who has exposed himself so unabashedly, so bluntly.
Even if you don't read books on weekdays, on this occasion, you will choose to pack it up and take a few books out to prevaricate.
But Liu Yifei is just so straight, you can see from her interview that she is the kind of person who is not pretentious.
Previously, in "Very Quiet Distance", the host Li Jing mentioned that boys generally like children to like the pure, especially empty feeling of girls.
As a result, Liu Yifei "disdainfully" came to a sentence, I don't care what he likes!
It can be said that this is quite confident, and it will not be shaken by the values of others at all.
If girls can have the confidence of Liu Yifei, there will not be so many scumbags PUA, and they will not lower themselves for others.
This reminds me of An Lingrong in "The Biography of Zhen Huan", with An Lingrong's low self-esteem, he will only doubt and deny himself when things happen.
She may not have imagined that blindly pandering and pleasing others will only make others look down on herself more.
The environment in which An Lingrong grew up taught her patience and obedience, but did not let her learn how to appreciate herself.
People who don't love themselves and feel that they are full of shortcomings will live a miserable life in this world. Focusing on external things and getting consumption, not growth.
Like Liu Yifei, dare to face their shortcomings honestly and not be measured by the eyes of others, in order to live out their true selves.
Your self-confidence is the best business card.
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Because of her role in Wang Yuyan in "Tianlong Babu", Liu Yifei was called "Immortal Sister" for many years.
However, Liu Yifei once said in an interview that she felt that she was a dick.
Why? That's because once Liu Yifei changed into his own private clothes, the aesthetic really made people want to complain.
Many people think that Liu Yifei is really an expert in ugly clothes and ugly shoes collection, and every time you can see a bunch of strange clothes.
Liu Yifei never takes her beauty seriously, because she knows that more important than appearance is her own efforts.
As she once said: "I am not afraid of suffering, but I feel that there is less and less bitterness to eat." ”
During the filming of "Eagle Hero", Liu Yifei soaked in the water of only a few degrees in winter, and was almost washed away by the waterfall.
The high-intensity play and circus made this teenage girl fall into cervical spondylosis and a body of scars.
Liu Yifei rarely complains about this, because she wants to shoot costumes and prove herself.
Others say that she is like a vase, and she shows her own strength and proves herself with beautiful play and flowing posture.
Don't ignore her efforts because of her looks, no one's success is casual.
"Because the reality is that no one can get something without strength and rely only on unilateral things."
In the years of Liu Yifei's fire, she was also stormed by the Internet, and in the interview she mentioned that in order to establish psychological endurance, even mobile phones were not used much.
As long as you can't see it, you probably don't have so many troubles.
To be liked by so many people, Liu Yifei believes that this is because her personal charm is recognized.
Everyone not only appreciates her appearance, but also recognizes her personality, and the harmony of external and internal consistency is the root of her powder absorption.
Beauty is only part of her, and her down-to-earth side is even more attractive.
Confident and hard-working people, who doesn't like it?
The most attractive thing about a woman is not looks, there are many beautiful people, but very few have outstanding temperaments.
Only by accepting yourself from the bottom of your heart and not being afraid of various difficulties and challenges can you usher in the final shining moment.
Be confident, work harder, be brave, and you'll always live your colors!
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