The sociality of children is realized in social interaction, and the opening of kindergarten life makes the social types of little ones richer. After temporarily detaching from the care of parents, the child's ability to take care of himself, independent ability and many other aspects of the ability level has been directly revealed.
And of course, this is also a big test for parents' family education, whether children can adapt to kindergarten life as soon as possible, which has a lot to do with parents' daily education guidance and ability training, and children living in "greenhouses" are naturally easy to be compared with babies of the same age.
During the weekend dinner, colleague Sister Wang complained to everyone, "The current kindergarten teacher is too irresponsible, and the child is a little disobedient and makes a fuss to let the kindergarten go!" It turned out that when the kindergarten first opened some time ago, Sister Wang's 4-year-old daughter was asked by the kindergarten to leave the kindergarten.
In fact, as early as when the child was 3 years old, Sister Wang sent her child to kindergarten, but at that time, the child was particularly uncomfortable, so she had to postpone it for a year. Now that the child is 4 years old, the kindergarten is still "unwilling" to receive, which inevitably makes people feel a little uncomfortable.
"Didn't my child just pull on his pants a few times?" Besides, I didn't ask too much, shouldn't the teacher help the child wash and dry his pants? A colleague asked curiously, "Shouldn't a 4-year-old child be able to urinate or defecate on his own?" ”
Without thinking, Sister Wang was a little unhappy, "My daughter is taken care of by the nanny at home, the kindergarten teacher is not careful, and she can't remember to remind the children in time!" I see that my daughter's peeing pants is mostly caused by the teacher, which is not responsible for the garden! After hearing Sister Wang say this, the other colleagues exchanged glances with each other and did not say anything more.
When Sister Wang went to the bathroom, her colleague Sister Zhang secretly complained, "Her daughter was originally in a class with my daughter, and the child went to kindergarten for a total of 3 days, and the result was really pulled in the pants for 3 days, and the child's temper was still very large, and he shouted at the teacher and classmate at every turn, and he especially liked to beat people!." ”
"When Sister Wang was asked to leave the kindergarten, she also made a big fuss about the kindergarten parent group, and the teacher was very speechless about it! Even the teacher in the next class said that there is really no way to take care of the kindergarten, this kind of child who is spoiled in the greenhouse! ”
What kind of child goes to kindergarten and is difficult to be "liked" by the teacher?
Whether it is a private kindergarten or a public kindergarten, each teacher has to take care of multiple children at the same time, which means that after entering the kindergarten, the little ones do not have the opportunity to enjoy the same "one-on-one" care as at home.
At this time, the children who can make the teacher more "worry-free" will naturally be more likable. In contrast, children with poor self-care ability are naturally difficult to be praised in kindergartens.
At the same time, emotionally unstable children are also very troublesome for kindergarten teachers. I like to rely on crying to express my emotions, which will undoubtedly increase the pressure and burden of reassurance on the teacher.
Moreover, emotionally unstable children can easily affect other people around them, and even affect the living atmosphere of the entire class.
Children who are arrogant and overbearing and make trouble everywhere are also not liked by their teachers. And usually, such children have a "calf" parent standing behind them. Obviously, such a combination will make the teacher have a lot more task burden to deal with the contradictions of children.
What educational preparations should parents make before entering kindergarten?
Children with an independent consciousness understand the true meaning of "doing their own thing" earlier, and they will know more about relying on their own strength to solve problems when they encounter them.
It is also this kind of relying on their own cognition that gives children more enthusiasm for accumulating life experience. This makes them more learnable and more likely to have a growth mindset when facing difficulties.
First: pay attention to the cultivation of children's self-care ability
Although the trivialities of life such as eating by themselves and going to the toilet by themselves may seem insignificant, it will give children a great sense of accomplishment from it. Especially after receiving positive feedback, children build more self-confidence.
Self-care helps children adapt to life in their new environment faster, giving them more initiative in kindergarten life.
Second: pay attention to the cultivation of children's emotional control
Controlling emotions and expressing your thoughts clearly is not easy for young children. But if children can master this ability, they can not only reduce the possibility of their own misunderstanding, but also be able to better protect themselves in the event of contradictions and disagreements, and explain the situation to the teacher in time.
Tips: Emotional control can also help children establish friendships with their peers faster, and it is difficult for children who like to cry to get good feelings from their peers.
Kindergarten is an opportunity for the rapid development of society in young children, and cultivating children's sense of independence and self-care ability as soon as possible can not only reduce the burden of care for adults, but also have obvious benefits for the healthy personality development of young children.
High-quality home education is to help children get more protective skills armor, rather than covering children in a glass cover in a greenhouse.
In the early hours of the morning, mom came to nag:
In the kindergarten stage, the children's various skills can be rapidly developed and learned, if they can better integrate into the collective life, then I believe that their learning life after the real enrollment in the future will also be more smooth because of a good enlightenment.
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