In the big family of kindergartens, we can always find that there are individual children who are welcomed and loved by kindergarten teachers, and even some children are called "fragrant food" and "treasures of the town garden" in kindergartens.
In fact, every parent hopes that their children can get more attention and care, so some parents think that as long as the children are cleaned up beautifully and wear neat clothes, they can leave a deep impression on the kindergarten teachers, so as to conquer the teachers with their appearance.
But can a child capture a kindergarten teacher just by having a beautiful and handsome appearance?
For example, one of my girlfriends, she has a 3-year-old son, mother and son are often quipped by some friends that they are fashionistas, whether they are adults or children, dressing up, appearance, are first-class exquisite.
However, after the child was sent to the kindergarten, there were many problems, and even the kindergarten teacher talked to the girlfriend at both ends of the three days, saying that the child had problems in school, and the girlfriend also had a head and two big.
In this way, the child's popularity with kindergarten teachers is not just because of appearance, but in addition to appearance, as long as the child has these 3 points, he can become a "fragrant food", let's take a look at it.
1. Ability to be independent and autonomous
Some children, because of their relatively young age, have not yet developed the ability to be independent at home, and they are rushed to kindergarten by their parents.
In fact, in the eyes of parents, going to kindergarten can promote children's independent ability with the help of teachers, but in the eyes of kindergarten teachers, children in this situation are tantamount to a "hot potato".
Because there are many children in kindergartens, teachers can't take care of everyone, and when they come and go, there will be problems, and teachers also feel that their heads are big, and children will be very aggrieved.
Speaking of independent ability, here we should also remind parents that when children cannot eat, go to the toilet, dress, etc., they should not be too anxious to send their children to kindergarten, because it is likely to not play a good role, and will make children inferior and lack self-confidence.
2. Good living habits
Once you enter the kindergarten, you must adapt to the rules and living habits of the kindergarten, such as what time to eat, what time to study, when to play, etc., and if your child lacks good living habits, you can't quickly adapt to the new environment and life.
Then it is best not to send children to kindergarten, because it will inevitably bring some trouble to kindergarten teachers, the most important thing is that children will also be very painful, one is bound by many rules, and the other is that there is no parental company around, children will inevitably lack of security, thus becoming only promises, for physical and mental growth, there is no help.
3. Certain expression ability
There used to be such a thing, widely spread in the kindergarten parent group, a child because of slurred speech, can not express their ideas correctly.
So even if you pee your pants, the kindergarten teacher doesn't know, and then this child, even if he pees his pants, can only endure it himself, don't cry or make trouble, there is really no way, the kindergarten teacher can only dissuade.
Therefore, it is very important to have a certain ability to express, without the ability to express, the kindergarten teacher can not quickly understand your needs.
In the long run, children will have a lot of problems, so that there will be a lot of friction between parents and teachers, and children will be "implicated" because of this, so that kindergarten teachers are quite big.
Therefore, if you want your child to be welcomed by kindergarten teachers, it is not just because of the relationship between appearance, behind the appearance, you may also need the above 3 conditions, only when you achieve it, the child can quickly adapt to kindergarten life, the teacher is also happy and relaxed, and will like this "fragrant food" more and more!
Finally, I would like to say that before sending a child to kindergarten, it is best to have a basic life ability consideration for the child, otherwise sending it to kindergarten is also like "suffering", which is very important.