Understand and support the teacher's work.
We all know that as a parent, it is a very hard thing to take care of children all day, so as a teacher, you have to face more than a dozen or twenty children every day, the child's eating, drinking, and sleeping, the teacher has to take care of it face to face, and its workload is self-evident. Therefore, sometimes, some work teachers will need parental cooperation, then at this time, parents must give teachers corresponding understanding and support. Even if you have questions, you can discuss and communicate with the teacher privately to avoid questioning the teacher in front of other parents or in the class group, causing work troubles to the teacher.
Teach children to be polite to teachers, and parents should start with themselves.
When a child is in kindergarten, the teacher will teach the corresponding etiquette. However, when children are with their parents, some children will be more inclined to learn what parents do. In other words, if the parent behaves politely, the child will do better. And if parents do not pay attention to etiquette, then the etiquette taught to the child by the teacher or parent, the child will automatically abandon.
Parents' courtesy to teachers is not manifested in deliberately lowering their posture, but in responding to the teacher's work.
In the past, when I took the class, I met such parents, who rarely took the initiative to communicate with the teacher about the situation of their children, and when the teacher gave feedback to the parents on the child's performance in the kindergarten, the parents also loved to ignore it. What's more, there are individual parents, when the child behaves very abnormally in the kindergarten, the teacher communicates with the parents, and the parents also lightly say that the children are like this at home, which is a normal situation, so that the teacher's follow-up work is difficult to carry out.
Again, know how to be grateful.
What I mean by gratitude is not to let parents deliberately please the teacher, buy things for the teacher and send gifts, but to be grateful for the teacher's efforts and hard work. In fact, we have to express our gratitude, as long as it is from the heart of the teacher can feel, such as when the teacher reflects the child's situation to the parents, the parents politely say thank you, the teacher gives the child help, teach the child to say thank you in time. On Teacher's Day, it is actually very good to accompany your child to make a greeting card for the teacher, write a few words of thanks, or send a carnation.
Some parents think that to have a good relationship with the teacher, it is to give gifts to the teacher, which is not correct, on the contrary, this kind of thinking can easily breed bad social phenomena. I don't deny that there are some gift-giving phenomena in the education world, but this is definitely only a small part, and it is not worth advocating. Of course, it is not excluded that some parents have a good personal relationship with the teacher in private, and the phenomenon of etiquette and exchange also exists.
In my experience of teaching, I have also met some parents who, in order to show their gratitude, send something to the teacher. For example, a box of masks, some specialties brought back from home or travel, and grandparents bring some fruits and vegetables grown in their own fields. Things are not valuable, but they are very touching, at least it shows that parents recognize the teacher's efforts.
Respect yourself, but also respect the teacher.
When dealing with people, the most important thing is sincerity and respect, respect for oneself and respect for others. Parents and teachers are a cooperative identity relationship, and both sides share common goals. The focus of a teacher's work is to educate children, and the purpose of parents is to educate children well. Both sides should maintain closeness in communication and be clear in principle.
Respect the teacher also needs to trust the teacher, since the child is handed over to the teacher, we must believe that the teacher will do his best to teach the child. Every kindergarten teacher treats the children of the class as if they were his own. Parents do their duty, give the teacher understanding, respect and support, and the teacher has more time and energy to pour into the child.
Story Analysis:
I have a friend who brings their own children. Eight to five in the morning of the working class, so when her children went to kindergarten, every day was the first to send, the last to pick up, and the teacher with the class even had little opportunity to meet, let alone other additional communication. Once my friend went to participate in a kindergarten parent-child activity, and at the end of the activity, several kindergarten teachers actually took the initiative to surround her and asked, "Are you so-and-so's mother?" So-and-so is so powerful! Not only is he particularly independent and competent, but he is also very smart, truly unforgettable, and the amount of reading is simply greater than ours! How do you teach it? ”
Oh, the child is outstanding, it is really difficult not to be valued, there is a saying on the vibrato, called - I also want to be low-key, but the strength does not allow! There is also a friend, her child is also very smart and clever, that is, too Tao - Tao no edge. Friends and couples are very busy, and the children are in full-day kindergartens. Once a friend went to pick up his child from school, and when he passed the head of the kindergarten, he was stopped by the head of the kindergarten! The head of the kindergarten said, "You are the parent of so-and-so, right?" Your so-and-so is so naughty, two teachers with classes, often have to have a teacher to deal with him! ”
Sigh, the teacher attaches this importance - there is really no one! However, the naughtiness is so noisy - to attract so much attention from the teacher, this should not be what parents want to see, right? I also asked teachers another question: What kind of parent do you like the most? The teachers' answers are still the same: they attach importance to parent-child education and can cooperate with our work; they are reasonable and understand our work - such parents we like the most.
Education is about all children.
If each teacher only pays special attention to individual children and ignores other children, is this fair to other children? How does this reflect the educational philosophy for all children? When I used to lead the class, some parents would bring small gifts to the teachers in order to let me take care of his children. I say to parents: If you don't give gifts, I will also pay attention to your children. Parents say that we are people who are not familiar with each other. Let's talk about gift-giving! We all know that teachers are not allowed to receive gifts from parents, which is a matter of professional ethics.
Except for the flowers sent by children on Teacher's Day, we will definitely not receive other things and shopping cards. We also don't want to get into trouble. Moreover, parents have given gifts and asked teachers to pay special attention to children, children do not need special care when they behave well, if children have a lot of bad behavior, should the teacher not care? Education can be biased. Take people's hands short! In fact, in our work, we pay more attention to those children whose parents do not care and who have many problems. These children lack the companionship and care of their parents at home, and in kindergarten they will use some behaviors to seek excessive attention.
For example: swearing, fighting, etc. Teachers spend a lot of energy every day to educate them and solve many problems. These children receive special attention from their teachers. Another situation is that of a particularly capable child. These children are polite to the teacher and can get along with the children. Take classes seriously, actively participate in various activities, be able to take the initiative to raise your hand to speak, think actively, and have a particularly strong ability to take care of yourself in life. It's only natural for the teacher to focus on these children. There is no need for parents to do anything specifically for the teacher.
Parents should not be utilitarian. If you can understand the hard work of the teacher and respect the teacher, the teacher will be very moved. Some children fell in kindergarten, and parents said: It doesn't matter, children will wrestle at home. There are so many children in kindergarten, it is impossible for a teacher to stare at each child. This understanding of the parents made me can't help but take more care of his children. Parents want to get along well with the teacher, and usually can cooperate with the teacher more.
For example, willing to spend a little time to participate in some parent-child activities, can meet the needs of teaching, and bring some items to the kindergarten. Don't spoil your child, cultivate your child's ability to take care of yourself. Respect the teacher, and communicate with the teacher more about things to avoid misunderstandings. Trust the teacher. But it must be noted that these things should not be taken as a quid pro quo for paying special attention to your child.