After the child goes to kindergarten, parents do not seem to be as relaxed as imagined, but will involuntarily worry about their hearts. After all, kindergarten is not like being in your own home, when the children are no longer favored by the family, they are most worried about the children being bullied, and they are more afraid of being treated differently by the teacher.
Parents found that the kindergarten teacher looked at the child's clothes label and suspected that the teacher's purpose was not pure
A friend recently posted a video in the circle of friends, and said: The current kindergarten is also so impure.
Originally, the video content is a kindergarten surveillance video, in the video, you can see a teacher helping the children get dressed, it should be that the children have just taken a nap, but a closer look found that the teacher will deliberately look at the label on the child's collar when dressing the children.
Such a move makes the friend very angry, she thinks that the teacher looks at the children's collar ideas are not simple, the teacher through the baby's clothes label, in order to understand the family's economic situation, so as to treat children differently.
So the friend felt very angry, so he saved the video and posted it to the circle of friends, thinking about "exposing" the teacher's "unseen" approach. Below the video, many parents also complained: I can't imagine that the kindergarten, which has always been pure, will also have such a "god operation".
What is the purpose of kindergarten teachers looking at children's clothes labels?
In fact, in life, there are indeed kindergarten teachers who will go to see the baby's clothes, but the real purpose is not to understand the child's family situation through the label of the clothes as everyone understands.
In fact, for kindergarten teachers, if you want to understand the child's family economic situation, in fact, it is really not so troublesome, compared to this, it is more convenient to ask children directly.
The reason why kindergarten teachers look at children's collars is often because of the needs of work, and parents should not misunderstand.
Help your baby identify clothes
For kindergarten teachers, taking care of children is actually a very hard thing, especially the need to take care of N children at the same time, which is hard to imagine.
For kindergarten children, their cognitive ability is limited, and they can't even distinguish their own things, and even confuse with other children's things. Especially after two children wear similar styles of clothes, in order to facilitate the distinction, the teacher will look at the children's clothes labels.
The label has the name and size of the clothes, and then according to the child's information, which can better help the child identify the clothes.
Keep your child safe
For kindergarten children, learning may still be secondary, and the most important thing is for teachers to ensure the safety and health of children. Especially when going out for activities, teachers ensure the safety of children, and when children participate in activities, they will check children's clothes in advance to see if there are unsafe items.
There are also whether there are dangerous pendants on the clothes, etc., which need to be checked by the teacher in advance to ensure the safety of the child and avoid the child being harmed during the activity.
Make it more comfortable for your child to dress
Children's skin is delicate, for a variety of stimuli are also more sensitive, this time if the child wears a new dress, then the label on the new clothes will be tied to the baby's skin, so that the child feels very uncomfortable.
Children will cry because they are uncomfortable, if the teacher finds the reason for the child's crying, he will check the child's clothes label, in order to make the child more comfortable to wear clothes, he will also help the child cut off the label.
In order to avoid children being treated differently, is it advisable for parents to cut off the clothing label?
We all know that each piece of clothing has its own label, which is standard with the size, material and washing method of the clothes, and even some large brands of clothes, and the label will also have the brand name on the label.
And many mothers are worried that their children's clothes are not brand-name, worried that the teacher may treat their babies differently after seeing it, so they preemptively cut off the label of the clothes first, so that the teacher even if he wants to judge the family situation, he has no way to start.
When parents cut off their children's clothes labels and still feel secretly happy about their "little cleverness", they do not know that such careful thinking can be seen at a glance by experienced teachers.
But in fact, the teachers in the general kindergarten will not deliberately look at the children's clothes label, now the children's clothes are similar in price, and parents will not give the children a particularly bad clothes, unless it is those international brands, so it is difficult to see the family situation from the label.
Kojima would like to say:
In fact, for the child after kindergarten, the relationship between the teacher and the parents is to be based on trust, if the parents are skeptical of the teacher, then the teacher will definitely be very sad, and will not pay the child sincerely.
Therefore, parents should fully trust the teacher, and the teacher should also be worthy of the trust of the parents, and communicate more on weekdays, so that the two people can become "good partners" in parenting.