Why are American kids so confident? Parents just need to pay attention to this, pure dry goods training methods

Today, I will talk to you about how to cultivate children's self-confidence, and whether a child has self-confidence is very important on the road of his life in the future. Because if he has established good self-confidence, no matter what difficulties and setbacks he faces in the future, we as parents are very relieved. Be able to trust that he can solve all the problems, get back up, and not be afraid of any blows. So when he was young, it was very important to build this self-confidence.

Some of the feelings of living in the United States and then being a teacher, the american children, he is really very confident, I have come into contact with a lot of children, each of them is full of bright smiles. Then a strong physique, a very talkative personality, and a very able to fit into this social situation. Everywhere I went, I was smiling and giggling, greeting everyone, and I had never felt this fear of life, which I really wanted to know what kind of methods they used to make children so cheerful and confident.

When we first came to the child, for example, like my own child, he would have a twisting and pinching process, that is, if he greeted a stranger, he could not smile very much and introduce himself generously and naturally. Mingling with everyone, immediately becoming a child with a heart to talk, in the minds of many parents is very much like the existence of the little sun, we all long for our children, if he is really born with this kind of personality, can release his nature, mingle with everyone, make more and better friends.

So, what are the very small tricks that American parents have done that are very practical and can help children ignite his passion and enthusiasm. I'll share with you here that, in fact, from the beginning, when he was pregnant to give birth, I felt that american parents, most of them were very independent, they completed this whole process alone. If the parent's mentality is relatively mature, he will be particularly tolerant of this young life, in the face of such a helpless little baby, there will be a lot of irritable emotions, my own summary, it is likely to be because we did not do a proper mental construction and preparation before pregnancy.

We have not received an education in this area, in our school education or our work education, workplace education, many of our girls are very rich in experience, but only in the matter of taking children as mothers, in fact, our whole society lacks this kind of information for our next generation. Give us a concept of vaccination, our mother will always tell us that this is how the child grows up, in fact, the process is very natural, but no one tells you how much pain he really is.

What kind of challenges will you face at the beginning, and in the end you may have put in energy and physical strength and time, and then you still can't get the results you want, the little friend is still rolling on the ground, crying or crying, whether to make trouble or make such a psychological construction, we are very lacking from the beginning, our education system does not provide such an experience in it, so compared to these young people in Europe and the United States, they may be in their teens, when they are in their early 20s, They've actually been exposed to this information, and the whole experience given to him is that if there are brothers and sisters in the family, his feelings will be more profound than our only child generation.

He knows what it's like for a child to make trouble when he's a child, he has the concept of this impression, he has also helped the neighbors with the child, he has also earned this hard money, so he knows what kind of a mentality he has when he is faced with a small baby. A very stable emotion to take care of this child, no matter how he makes trouble, he is just a child, he does these things not against you, but just because he is a little baby, because he is a thief, he has such a normal reaction.

So when you understand all this, you will become more calm, more mature and stable with emotions, and after having such emotions to tolerate this child, you will find that the child is particularly cute. When he does something very baby,you think this young human life is so cute. You will look at him with another way of appreciating him, and then with a relaxed, mature, ready mindset to meet this burden of parenting, or where he works hard.

So, in this regard, after your emotions are stabilized, you will not only not make the child irritable, but also make the child's emotions calm down. Then if a child goes to calm down, he is more likely to inspire his real personality, not that a cheerful child must be a quieter child, which is OK for each personality. But it is better if the child is in a calm but contented state, and we do not want him to become a lonely or lonely state.

Because your mother has a mature and stable mentality, and this parent has a ready psychology to receive this child, then every day's daily behavior he does, you will continue to praise him from the heart. Because you know how hard it is for a child, such as the first time a child does it. The first time I started climbing, the first time I called Mom, the first time I called Dad, the first time I spoke. His milestone development, you all have a heartfelt sigh, this human being in the early stage of development to be able to walk upright is not easy, so every time you sincerely admire the child is able to feel, he also gradually built up a self-confidence, that is, I can attract the eyes of my parents, I can become the focus of their conversation.

I am valuable, then his sense of value slowly established, as he gradually grew older, I found that european and American parents like to do one of the things they like to do very much, that is, to take their children out to exercise when they are young. They were so young that they were just shaky, and when they walked, they could take a soccer ball on the stage and play with him, or take a little baseball, and I saw a little boy who was probably two or three years old with a baseball and wielding a stick there, and his dad was very serious about teaching him how to hit that ball.

In fact, he didn't even stand steadily, and he was still wearing diapers, such a shaky, cute child, they all began a sports training. Physical training is very common here, and more popular is a variety of sports, and most of them are taught by dad himself. He is a very good bond between father and son, and a very crucial step in strengthening the physical fitness of this little friend.

If it is a child with particularly strong athletic ability and a particularly strong body, I think it is very helpful for him to build self-confidence, because once he has strength, after having a certain amount of strength, he can do more things, for example, he can run very fast with one leg, and then the strength of the arm is very strong, he can hold a lot, he is more unmatched than his body, after it exceeds the physical advantage of its age, It will build a very strong self-confidence.

The establishment of physical self-confidence is something we generally lack, and we may pay more attention to intelligence or emotion, or the accumulation of educational knowledge. In this regard, we feel that if it is well trained, the child is very knowledgeable, has the culture to get a high score in school, and can go out to compete and behave very smart and smart. In this regard, our children will have more self-confidence, but I just want to emphasize that in the early days of infancy, his physical advantages are more obvious.

Because if you think about a baby who is a few months older, he is actually a big circle compared to himself a few months ago. If he can develop better in his infants and toddlers of the same age, he will be stronger, more physically fit, and less sick. Then, it actually has a sense of physical superiority, and this sense of superiority will invisibly increase the cultivation of its self-confidence. Self-confidence is like this 1, 1 drop, from physical strength to energy to intelligence cultivated.

Then the cultivation of intelligence is not going to say more, because our parents are very able to spend time and energy to understand how to develop children's intelligence better. How to cultivate a rich expression of language skills, parents at home to do their best to take care of a child's self-confidence. In fact, every little bit of progress they make, parents will very much encourage him, with a very exaggerated tone. You know that this exaggerated language of foreigners is very contagious, and he will make children feel that they are really powerful. In fact, in our opinion, it may be a little progress, but in the eyes of parents, he is shining.

So the child is also very confident from the parents to get very much love to nourish and encourage after the school, in fact, the teacher's teaching words in the short time of the kindergarten are mainly encouraged, will not judge the score of him, you directly tell him where you are wrong, you will tell him where you are doing better, with a positive guidance to guide this child, let him do better, rather than to tell him that you are not right to do this or that you are not doing it well. Use a better language to guide him in school to give every child a fair chance to show, even if he is not too good at this aspect.

Not too strong, but it will not deprive him of the opportunity to show himself, sincerely encourage them to compare with themselves, or do not compare with others, maybe in the same class, if many children are put together, then the height is bound to be there. But the teacher focuses on comparing with yourself, his comments are your first semester, with your own second semester, and your own third semester, so to compare, it does not mean that your scores and other students go to the care of the whole social environment, I think your country's children are confident, there is his self-confidence soil.

Why many children are so confident, that is, a little more than we expect, but I think it is better to be confident when you are young than a child who is not confident. First of all, we must help him build self-confidence, and then help him objectively evaluate a lot of his strength and ability, but it is very important to establish self-confidence in advance, and capable children will build self-confidence.

No matter where the point of his ability is, the task of the parent, the task of the teacher is to help him find out where he really is the child's ability point, where is your talent, that is, the task of the teacher and the parent is to find the child's shining point and encourage him, to care for him to cultivate his flash point, not to say that you have to compare with others, this is how I found how to cultivate the child's self-confidence Some of the very practical ways are to spend time with your child, seriously, Sincerely encourage his every small progress and help him to develop his strengths.

His self-confidence will be born, so that you will raise a very cheerful and confident child. For his life will be a very great asset, thanks for reading and sharing we will see you next time.