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A few days ago, Xi'an resumed work and production.
My friend is engaged in language quality education, a few teachers on her side are more unlucky, still isolated, in the resumption of work and production at the moment is not allowed to go out to work, so I was in danger of being ordered to catch the ducks on the shelves, help her with a few lessons.
In their project, quality education, there are many opportunities for group discussions, and every child has the opportunity to discuss and speak on behalf of the group in this class.
So for some introverted parents to spend money to buy exercise, after all, their children are usually in the education of public schools, may not even raise their hands as fast as those smart children, and teachers will not invest too much time in them.
That day I came back with a whole thought like this.
They have different campuses for this project, and I drove ducks to the shelves before was the campus of a prestigious school. The lessons over there are still very good, and it is very fun to interact with the children.
So this class I really careless, the same class method, the same process, I didn't know that it took nearly half the time to manage discipline.
Because these ordinary school children are usually too cruel, the whole person is as happy as a wild horse that has lost its reins. There are opportunities for group discussions, just don't be too hilarious.
Today we went to an ordinary campus that was very deadly, and we also went to a famous school that was not so dead and was usually discussed in small groups in class.
The discipline over there is much better, and the children's language skills are much better.
I think the class barriers are really obvious now.
The gap between ordinary schools and elite schools really starts with dolls.
Originally, when I entered the school, I also picked the source of students.
The amount of information that children usually receive is also completely different. This is the children of the general school, and the third grade may not have the clear and eloquent thinking of the first grade of the famous school.
Then when the teachers discussed the matter, it was in line with my thinking.
It takes a lot of time to teach these children about discipline, and the quality of these children's discussion and thinking is not comparable to that of the children of elite schools, they unanimously said:
Mountain pigs can't eat chaff.
Children in ordinary schools deserve the same as in their own schools, drinking and managing like beasts, and they do not deserve to have a better education like children in famous schools.
It is easy and informative to teach children from elite schools, and children have more opportunities to exercise, because they do not need to spend so much time managing discipline.
The big guy said that it was because smart children are very good at reincarnation, and they took care of themselves and reincarnated in the homes of rich, powerful, and educated people?
Like I said some time ago that I work in a confinement clubhouse, I have basically never heard of the children of women who can afford to live in a confinement clubhouse.
Even the term high-demand baby is something I only heard about after I went to school.
I recalled very seriously the familiar question of which child was difficult to carry.
Their wording was: This baby is a sticky little and pitiful, needing attention, temperature and a little wrapping. We give them a little more time and attention, but we can't get used to it.
I also helped them hug the clingy little ones when they were busy.
They taught me in great detail what kinds of techniques to use to hold and pat and soothe this child if he cries.
Because the amount of breastfeeding that each child is regularly and quantitatively recorded in detail, it will not be stuffed by the child as soon as he cries.
Even, they don't shake the child too much.
They said that the children's brains did not grow strong, and some children were shaken as if they could sleep successfully, but in fact they were shaken.
Sooner or later, children should get used to the feeling of landing on the ground, and find balance and security in a stable feeling.
These seriously fed and fed children soon had a good schedule, so they ate and slept soundly.
Their first priority is to let their children form a virtuous circle of regular eating and sleeping during the month.
And try to persuade even breastfeeding mothers:
He is indeed insecure now, but he may now be itchy, where it hurts, where it is uncomfortable and where it is anxious, we can check one by one to meet the needs of the child, but these problems may not all need to be soothed with nipples.
The nipple has only one function: it is to allow him to concentrate on getting nutrients and energy from here.
Even intimacy can be met in other ways.
My mother has always been very incomprehensible about my fear of having a child, in her opinion, the child is eating, sleeping, eating, eating, hiccups, changing diapers, interacting with adults, doing stretching exercises, exhaust exercises, very cute.
What's so unreasonable?
When teething to grind teeth, when the bones are more touched and more soothing, calcium supplementation, fish oil supplement fish oil, sunbathing, where so many farts?
My mother-in-law agreed with both hands and feet.
After I finished offline, I asked a circle of customers who recovered after childbirth, and they also generally said that their children were particularly good, all angel babies.
I wondered if these angel babies knew when they reincarnated that they were reincarnated in these people's homes that would make them live well.
It's the same when they start school, and the children who are smart or not are just reincarnated into families that can get them into key schools.
I really think that these things are not accidental, there may be some inevitable connection within, but many people do not admit it. Because if you admit it, this fact is too cruel.
Shrinking into its own world seems to be able to make your life look less miserable.
The difference between people is really bigger than that of people and dogs, and my husband's former classmates recently took an order, and the third grade children had to challenge the level of IELTS Speaking 7.
Parents hope that their children will reach the level of four sevens as soon as possible and start a second foreign language.
Third-grade children, I brought third-grade children yesterday, and many people even speak their mother tongue and ask them to repeat a thing.
Change the region, change the family's peers, the spoken English has to challenge IELTS seven.
In this short life of less than ten years, the investment of each other's parents in education must be completely different.
There are gaps from the gene side, and then the supervision of the care education that comes into contact is also of a completely different quality.
The fates of people are themselves different.
But yesterday, when I was in class, there was a class of 25 people, and there was a boy I thought was particularly smart.
Not too much to say, not too disciplined, but when he got up to answer the questions, he was not left behind at all, and his thinking was very clear, and his language organization ability was very good, and for such a smart child, I allowed him to sit and listen to the lessons without being so serious.
This child saw that I was different from other teachers, and did not take care of his discipline problems, so when he got out of class, he dared to come to me and ask questions that were not related to the course.
As soon as I listened, isn't this the question in the encyclopedia's 100,000 whys?
I'll just talk to him.
After talking, the child was like treating me like his own, he said that I had asked many teachers about this problem, but they didn't know much about me, so I didn't want to listen to their lectures, and I wasn't convinced.
I said these questions, you are very interested? You can do it intellectually.
He said yes, my dad and I both love to read, and my dad said that people who read a lot of books have knowledge, and then wisdom can be born from knowledge.
But if these teachers can be asked by me, it means that they do not have my knowledge, and they do not have wisdom.
Obviously, they have lived so many years longer than me, and they have so many years to read books, but they have not read books, which shows that they do not like to learn.
I thought to myself: You boy really knows the goods, and the nature and income of my work with your teachers are indeed not the same.
Therefore, among the ordinary children in this group of ordinary schools, the only smart child is a father who loves to read books and worship knowledge and worship thinking.
He was much more honest in the second half of the lesson.
I also made a temporary squad leader for him while it was hot and beat him to the masses.
So, why do you wonder why teachers like children who are either smart or obedient?
Smart children may create value for him, and obedient children may add less to him.
I think that if some full-time mothers can put their children's chickens to primary school and be able to speak IELTS 7, people's mothers have indeed paid a lot of effort. Dad also paid a lot of resources.
And the family with this ability to smash resources and smash time has already won at the starting line.
Genes really win at the starting line.
And mediocre parents want to turn the tables against the wind, may wish to think about the reason for planting melons to get melons, planting beans to get beans.
In today's society, good resources are to be bought with money, even if it is a disciplinary problem alone, children who have seen the world and often engage in group discussions must be more sensitive to the teacher's saying "Well, group discussion stops" than those prisoners who have been locked in cages for a long time, and it is difficult to come out and let the wind blow once, how can they not be reluctant to return to the cage.
Do you think that these social elites have sharpened their heads and sent their children to elite schools to eat enough to support themselves?
Of course, as an emotional blogger, I have to force a few more words.
Some people also think when they get married: What will the future educational resources of their children look like?
Humans and animals are actually the same, and it is in line with the laws of nature to choose the opposite sex that can make the offspring better quality.
I think if some girls obviously feel that their children's quality of life, whether genetically or educationally, is not as good as when they were young, they have to admit that this is going downhill.
And there is a very interesting point:
Most men's passion in the chicken baby piece seems to be always a little smaller than that of women.
So as a woman who chooses such a future at the moment, have you ever thought about having children, when you grit your teeth and find that the chicken baby is very difficult, will you regret it?
I think if a woman is the same as a man, the Buddhist system is very good, the children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, it doesn't matter if the child is not developing well, it doesn't matter if there is no money to go to a famous school, the general school is also very good, the middle school entrance examination is diverted, the flow to the back is OK, no anxiety at all, then find any object, how to raise a baby can be.