Psychologists have said that a person's love of color is the expression of his inner character. Different colors correspond to different personalities and psychology.
Both adults and children will have one or more colors that they subconsciously like, and of course this color will change with age and environment.
For children, the inner color at this age should be color, and their preference for color is distinguished according to gender, such as girls generally like pink, red and other bright colors, boys prefer blue or gray and other colors.
This is an unconscious choice, but if parents suddenly find that their children's preferences for color have undergone a very large change, it means that the psychological characteristics of this unconscious have also changed.
When you see a child suddenly change to like such a color, it is necessary to pay attention to it, and it is likely that there will be a certain problem in psychology.
Li Li's daughter is five years old, usually likes to draw, her brush has always been a variety of bright colors, the content of the picture is also flowers and trees and other representatives of positive things.
But recently Li Li found that the child's painting style has changed, the original bright red and yellow are gone, all replaced by black and dark blue, and the content in the painting is no longer a happy child, but a crying child.
Li Li remembered that psychologists once said that children's pictures are the manifestation of their psychological activities, and couldn't help but get nervous, children must have encountered some problems in kindergarten, and psychologically sad things were not told to parents.
Li Li quickly called the child over, and after careful communication, she learned that her daughter had fought with the children in kindergarten because of small things, and the child who was already very aggrieved was punished by the teacher for no reason, and Li Li's daughter was very sensitive in her heart.
Thinking that such a practice makes herself very humiliated among children, since being punished, her daughter is reluctant to play with kindergarten children, and always hides in the corner by herself.
Children suddenly like black, mostly because of the lack of security, the heart is full of darkness and panic, parents should pay attention, if not in time to care about them, it is likely to make their psychological problems.
In addition to the sudden change of favorite color, the following phenomena should not be taken seriously
1. Be afraid to get along with others and close yourself off
Children who are insecure in their hearts will subconsciously withdraw in the face of the group, are unwilling to integrate into the group, and are always afraid of the surrounding environment.
I don't dare to communicate with others, I can't complete the normal look and get along, I always like to hide in the corner, and I don't want to play with any children.
2. Sensitive and vulnerable, especially concerned about what others think of themselves
Some children have a strong insight from an early age, they will observe the people and things around them, but they are also very sensitive, others an unintentional word, an unintentional behavior, are easy for children to see in the eyes, remember in the heart.
Especially when others evaluate them, children are always easy to go to the heart, this sensitivity and vulnerability, it will be easy to hurt their hearts.
3. Always sleep with a doll or pillow in place to fall asleep
This is also a manifestation of the child's insecurity, the body curls up, holding the doll to fall asleep, in fact, this is because the children are always resistant to the outside world, they need to resist this uneasiness through a certain amount of comfort and protection.
Color does have a certain relationship with personality, parents can usually judge the child's inner world according to the child's favorite color, and prevent the child's possible psychological problems as soon as possible.
Parents can judge the child's inner world according to the child's favorite color
1. Happy red
Children like red are generally more enthusiastic, enthusiastic like fire, red is the best symbol, this type of children are generally lively and cheerful, outgoing and unrestrained, can be well integrated into the collective, because of their enthusiastic personality, in the group life will become relatively easy.
2, like pink
Pink represents romance, represents innocence, which is the truest inner world of children. They should have been innocent at this age, without any disturbances, without any distractions, and this is also the innocence that we are most worth protecting.
Color is more important in the child's world, parents should observe their perception of color, especially pay attention to the psychological changes when the color changes, we must accompany as much as possible to help them successfully through the growth period.