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Sanmao once said: "Love, if it is not implemented in the real life of dressing, eating, counting money, and sleeping, it is not easy to last forever." ”
Love, since ancient times, has made young men and women addicted and yearned for.
Women, in particular, often regard love as the only one, and suffer from gains and losses in the world of feelings.
Moreover, women love to listen to sweet words, and are often confused by superficial phenomena and cannot accurately identify the truth and falsity of love.
Although some people love you to the bone, they are more wooden in personality and are not good at expressing themselves. And some people are masters of the love field, and they can coax you to be very happy with a few sweet words.
In fact, men and women interact, and people who believe that you will be willing to give you some "things" in the second half of your life.
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Willing to give you all the time
Some people say that companionship is the longest confession of affection. If a person says they love you, but they can't always find time to accompany you, then this relationship is also questionable.
People who love you are always taking time out to accompany you no matter how busy they are.
Just like in "The First Half of My Life", He Han was to Luo Zijun.
Once, Luo Zijun was going on a business trip because of work, and the weather forecast said that there was a heavy rain. He Han told Luo Zijun not to go, but she went anyway.
On the way back to Shanghai, it suddenly rained heavily, the car broke down halfway, and Luo Zijun's mobile phone happened to run out of power. He Han, who was in Shanghai, learned that Zijun had not yet returned, and despite the fact that the night was late and the rain was pouring, he quickly drove to pick her up.
Another time, He Han was receiving a particularly important big customer, received a phone call from Luo Zijun, and immediately ran to Hangzhou to celebrate Luo Zijun's child's birthday.
Obviously, he was too busy to get out of his body, and he also concealed the facts, saying to Luo Zijun that it was okay, just when he was free.
The person who loves you will always do everything he can to be there when you need companionship; he will be there when you want to rely on him.
Always give you a full sense of security and make you feel that he is a person worthy of trust and dependence.
He will never find him when you need comfort; he will be indifferent to you when you are lonely and helpless and need help.
The guy who says he's too busy to have time is just an excuse to cover up that you're not that important in his mind.
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Offer to show you his phone
A reader once shared her story with me.
Ting's first love was talked about in college, the former tall and handsome, or the president of the student council, she liked him very much.
Just one thing, the ex's phone never let her touch. Once, the ex was looking intently at his phone, and Ting casually walked over, curious about what he was looking at.
Who knows, when he found out, he was furious at the time, saying that Ting was invading his privacy.
At that time, Ting was confused, she did not understand why her ex had such a big fire? Later, they broke up when they graduated from college.
Today, she meets her current boyfriend. Once, on her birthday, her boyfriend bought two new mobile phones.
The first thing to get the phone, the boyfriend set the boot password of his mobile phone to Ting's birthday, and also entered Ting's fingerprint unlock in his mobile phone.
In the days together, my boyfriend's mobile phone was casually put away, and he often shared with her interesting things he saw on his mobile phone.
This made Ting feel very down-to-earth, she felt that her boyfriend was honest with her, no concealment, no secret, and truly loved her.
As the saying goes: "Only love can be hidden, and love must be generous." ”
If the man does not love you enough, he will definitely have reservations about you, have a wary heart, it is impossible to easily let you touch his mobile phone, and it is impossible to let you look at his mobile phone, perhaps there are many secrets in the mobile phone that you do not want you to know.
And the man who truly loves you in his heart will not hide and deceive you, nor will he leave secrets, he will trust and be sincere with you, and present his truest side to you.
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Take the initiative to hand over the "wealth" to you
Girlfriend Lili and her husband have been married for seven years, not only does not have the itch of seven years, but as always, they are loving, and their little days are very happy, which is a model couple in our eyes.
Li Li said that her husband would not say sweet words, and when he was in love before, he still felt that he was wooden and not romantic enough.
The day after the marriage, her husband took the initiative to give his salary card to Li Li, and said that she would be in charge of the house in the future.
Li Li thought that she was just newly married yan'er, and it must have been just to coax her to be happy for a while.
Later, Li Li learned that this card was really her husband's salary card, and he didn't move his monthly salary at all, it was in the card.
She understood that her husband really handed over the home to her from the heart, making her the real hostess of the family.
For so many years, my husband never asked about economic matters, and was completely relieved to hand it over to her.
Li Li said that her husband trusted himself so much, then I would not fail him, and I would take on the responsibility of a housekeeper, not to spend indiscriminately, and let every penny be spent in a worthy place.
Therefore, Li Li also loves her husband more, loves each other more, and gives each other her all for this family.
Xu Zhimo said: "As long as you want, as long as I have, give me what I can, do my best." ”
Generally speaking, men don't hand over their money easily. Whether it is love or marriage, men can only take the initiative to turn in their pay cards if they truly love a woman and want to live with her for a lifetime.
Getting along with a man, if he is willing to take the initiative to hand in the salary card and let you manage the money, it shows that he has a special trust in you and really loves you. He loves you unreservedly and will be responsible for you for the rest of his life.
After all, men are all sane, and if it weren't for the woman he loved, it wouldn't have been possible to put in huge financial costs.
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Shakespeare said, "True love cannot be expressed in words, and deeds are the best illustration of faithfulness." ”
A man who truly loves you is willing to hurt you to the bone, and the person who identifies you in this life may not say more of the love words you love to hear, and even be a little clumsy, but he will express his heart with actions.
Get along with people, he takes the initiative to give you these three things, most of them are true love.
Take the initiative to give you time to accompany you, so that you have a full sense of security; take the initiative to let you look at his mobile phone, there is no secret to you; take the initiative to give you a pay card, enough trust in you.
May all you meet be a good person, and the white head will not be separated.
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