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Many people say that He Han does not love Tang Jing, so he will fall in love for ten years without getting married.
In my opinion, He Han loves Tang Jing very much.
Tang Jing is his beloved disciple, he teaches Tang Jing a lot of things, Tang Jing can do this step of the company's partner, inseparable from He Han's teaching and help.
To put it simply, Tang Jing is He Han's work, how can he not love the works he created with his own hands?
On the other hand, He Han and Tang Jing were in love for a long time.
In the work of frequent contact, He Han like educating children, let Tang Jing from naivety to maturity, he helped Tang Jing grow up.
He witnessed Tang Jing's hard work along the way, and he loved Tang Jing more than anyone.
He cares about Tang Jing's life, cares about her body, cares about her work, he has paid a lot to Tang Jing, and his friend Lao Zhuo has witnessed all this.
Therefore, He Han loved Tang Jing very much.
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If you love it, why didn't you get into marriage?
This has a lot to do with Tang Jing.
He Han said many times that he wanted to marry Tang Jing, but Tang Jing was afraid and afraid, and every time he refused.
Tang Jing is a person who has no sense of security about marriage.
She has seen many people around her unhappy marriages, especially the marriage of her girlfriend Luo Zijun, which has hit her confidence in marriage.
Tang Jing has been working in the workplace for more than ten years, from a poor student to a strong woman in the workplace, which is a difficult process.
Tang Jing knows the path she is taking, her life plan is very rational and sober, she will never be able to be a full-time wife.
But if you enter the marriage, Tang Jing will definitely sacrifice a part of her career to the family, which is painful for tang Jing, a strong woman.
She was too enterprising to start a family.
In addition, Tang Jing also has emotional cleanliness in her feelings.
Vivian is a stumbling block between Tang Jing and He Han, although He Han once explained this matter to Tang Jing, but Tang Jing is still insecure about He Han's feelings.
She could not accept the scandal between He Han and Vivian, and she could not rub sand in her eyes, which was why she refused to marry He Han.
In the relationship between He Han and Tang Jing, the main reason why they could not enter the marriage was tang Jing.
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Of course, there are other reasons.
He Han cultivated Tang Jing into a successful workplace person, Tang Jing, who was successfully discharged, became difficult to control, Tang Jing had a stubborn personality, had an opinion, and often had conflicts with He Han in his work.
He Han, who considers the overall situation, always tolerates Tang Jing in his work.
He tried to find a reason to live with Tang Jing from his life.
Tang Jing's life is tedious and busy, she can't resonate with He Han at this point, and her life is still in the stage of controlling the work.
Especially for the sake of work, Tang Jing even betrayed He Han and preemptively found Adam to prevent him from signing a contract with He Han.
In the face of work, He Han can grievance himself to give up his work to Tang Jing, and Tang Jing can desperately snatch He Han's contract, without taking into account He Han's feelings.
Compared with Tang Jing's stronger and unkind, Adam as a friend can think of He Han everywhere and bear the responsibility for breach of contract alone.
He Han won a friend for this signing test, but lost his lover.
From this moment on, He Han's feelings for Tang Jing changed.
Tang Jing has completely turned into a working machine, losing her cuteness and charm as a lover.
However, He Han could not complain about Tang Jing, after all, she had a lot to do with him today.
He had an unhappy childhood, inferiority and conceit, and could only rely on work to enhance his self-confidence and change his life.
If he and Tang Jing are married, then their lives will not be interesting, more of an argument, because the two of them are too similar.
In addition, he did not want to destroy Tang Jing's hard-won career, he was too aware of Tang Jing's pursuit of career.
This is also the reason why Tang Jing tried He Han many times before going to Hong Kong, and He Han did not respond or confess.
Because he knew very well that his fate with Tang Jing would be difficult to continue.
The relationship should end in this unresponsive way.
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He Han appeared in Luo Zijun's life, most of the time because of Tang Jing, Tang Jing always pushed He Han to contact Luo Zijun.
Especially after Luo Zijun's divorce, He Han used his experience to build Luo Zijun into a workplace elite.
This process was the process by which He Han created Tang Jing.
From this process, He Han recalled his love process with Tang Jing again, and of course Tang Jing also recalled it again.
In He Han's heart, his and Tang Jing's time had passed.
In Tang Jing's heart, she regretted everything she had done to He Han.
He Han learned to grow from his feelings, and Tang Jing also grew from it.
They were a very suitable couple in the eyes of others, and they just walked apart.
He Han falls in love with luo Zijun, who has a human touch and is cute, and Tang Jing finally gains regrets.
Some things don't look back and find them all.
Emotional things, the most powerless.
Therefore, cherishing when you have it and letting go when you lose it is the best ending.
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