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01. Preface
A man falls in love with a woman, lovesick to the bone, like a candy placed out of his reach, eager to taste the sweetness.
Lolita writes: "There are three things that cannot be hidden, cough, poverty and love, and the more you want to hide it, the more you want to cover it up." ”
Truly love someone, there are traces to follow.
True love for a person, will unconsciously care about her, care about her. I hope to have her news from time to time, even if I have no name, I want to send my care and greetings.
I hope to see her every day and let the fates of the two people be closely linked in the years to come.
Men love a woman to the heart, and the look of obsession will actually be anxious.
02, anxious about what she is anxious about
Love is a care, a care.
When a man loves deeply, he will care about what she cares about, and he will worry about what she is anxious about.
In the TV series "The First Half of My Life", after Luo Zijun lost the protection of marriage, she needed to cheer herself up and learn to face the test of life alone.
However, she is a woman who is out of touch with society. Finding a job and staying independent is as difficult for her as the sky.
He Han made a good job of planning for her work, and also came to her again and again to help her solve various crises.
She met a man she didn't want to see on a blind date, and her heart was very anxious, and He Han gave her advice to help her draw a line with the other party. She had a problem at work, and seeing that she was in a hurry, He Han appeared at the first time to help her with advice.
When she was unable to accompany her son to celebrate her birthday because she was in a hurry, He Han personally drove the child to her side in order to make her happy, preferring to delay meeting with customers and missing a big business.
Men put women in a very important position in their hearts and will be anxious about what she is anxious about.
True love for a person, will take the initiative to care for her, take the initiative to love her. Even if she hadn't asked for help, he would have taken the initiative to show up to help her and care for her.
Love someone, men will know that women are anxious about something, and will soothe women's hearts with practical actions.
Because of the obsession, you will know the needs of a woman and know what the things she cares about most. With her own efforts, she will be given more pampering and care, so that women feel more love and security.
03, I can't see her will be in a hurry
When I think of someone from the bottom of my heart, I can't help but miss her. Like a fire, people want to see her more and more.
There is a line in the movie "He Actually Doesn't Like You That Much": "In this world, passive men do not exist at all, and men who are wooden will take the initiative in the face of the women they like." ”
True love for a woman will sometimes have the urge to be with each other all the time.
Two people, no matter what the reason for separation, will feel like a year. Love to the depths, hate can not follow the other side.
When separated, men are obsessed with a woman, and his messages and phone calls will flock to him.
Perhaps, after the phone is dialed, there is only a simple greeting, there is no substantive content, in fact, it is saying "I love you, miss you, and hope to see you every day."
Missing will make men become active, if you really love someone, you will be very anxious when you can't see her. Thoughts are like fire, and the more anxious you are, the more intensely the fire will burn.
Men are obsessed with a woman, will take the initiative to contact her, keep asking about your return date, and keep asking her if she is doing well. Love to the depths, will put women in a very important position.
04, when she said never to see again, anxious
Men love a woman to the depths of their love, fear of losing contact from now on and never seeing each other again.
Gu Wei in "The Rest of Your Life Please Teach More" likes Lin Zhi school, and he is afraid that after Lin Zhi School's father is discharged from the hospital, she will forget him, so he secretly gives his personal contact information to Lin Zhi School's mother.
He went to see Lin Zhixue perform, and when he came back, it was a little cold, and he gave his coat to Lin Zhixue and deliberately forgot to take it back. He stood in front of Lin Zhi's school window and refused to leave, hoping to see the girl again.
The coat left behind became the reason for the two people to see each other again.
Gu Wei carefully created the opportunity for the two people to be together, in fact, she was afraid of losing the opportunity to communicate, afraid that she would completely forget him as soon as she turned around.
When a man falls in love with a woman from the bottom of his heart, he will be anxious when he is separated, and as soon as the woman turns around, there will be no chance to see each other again.
True love for a woman, fear of losing touch with the other person.
Love to the depths, always hope that there is an opportunity between two people, you can meet, date, chat, the feelings gradually deepen, there is a chance to become a lover.
When the heart is obsessed with a person, men will become very anxious when they are separated from each other.
Because, I don't want her to be a passer-by in my life. Instead, he wanted to invite her into his life, and spend his life holding hands together.
05. Summary
The way a man "obsesses" about a woman will actually become very "anxious".
In the "Song of the Yue People", it is written: "The mountain has wood and trees and branches, and the heart is happy and the king does not know." ”
Men will never forget, and there will be worries and bonds.
When men are obsessed with a woman, they will find all kinds of reasons and excuses to establish inextricable ties with women. It seems that only the love of a woman can relieve the pain of lovesickness.
When a man is obsessed with a woman, when she has a bad time, he will become anxious, will take more and more initiative to care for her, give women more companionship and care, and be willing to stand with her and face all problems.
For women to "never forget", men's hearts will have the feeling of "not seeing for a day, such as every three autumns". In my heart, there was only her. Love to the depths, will not forget, she put in the most important position in the heart.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.