1. Meng Tong and Na Ying's amazing encounter and deep love
In the mid-90s of the last century, in a small bar with a lot of characteristics in the Gongzhong in the prosperous area of Beijing, a young and promising talent in Germany Meng Tong and the popular singer Na Ying became acquainted. At that time, Na Ying had already made a name for herself in the music world with her beautiful and moving singing voice, and devoted herself to the development of her music career. However, they have always maintained a close and not overflowing friendship. Meng Tong has special feelings for this hearty and bold woman in his heart, but unfortunately Na Ying had a stable lover at that time, Meng Tong can only hide that deep affection in his heart, lest once he crosses the line, he may destroy this precious friendship.
In October 2004, Na Ying broke up with her boyfriend abruptly and took on the responsibility of raising her young son Xing Xing alone. As a single mother, she is burdened with the double pressure of family and life, and her originally bright smile is also shrouded in gloom. Meng Tong was keenly aware of Na Ying's mood changes, and he seized this rare opportunity to take care of her and be happy in the name of a friend. Whether it is creating a warm music atmosphere for her in the bar, or cooking delicious dishes by herself, Meng Tong has gone all out, hoping to bring warmth to Naying's life.
With the passage of time, under Meng Tong's meticulous care, Na Ying's wounded heart gradually healed, and the once sunny and cheerful was rejuvenated.
Second, Meng Tong's oath moved Na Ying
October 15, 2006 coincided with the first birthday of Naying's baby son. Meng Tong carefully selected toys and birthday cakes, and made a special trip to Na Ying's house to celebrate the birthday of this lovely child. The happy father failed to attend this important moment, watching his son grow up in a broken family environment, Na Ying was full of guilt, and tears kept rolling in her eyes. When the guests dispersed, there were only three of them left in the room.
Meng Tong took advantage of this opportunity to affectionately propose to Na Ying on one knee: "I am eager to spend my life guarding you and your happiness, I wonder if you are willing to give me this opportunity? I have not yet entered the marriage hall, precisely because I am waiting for your appearance."
At that time, Na Ying's heart was full of many doubts. As a single mother with her own children, she was deeply afraid that her son would be wronged by the addition of a new family member, and at the same time, she was also sweating about whether Meng Tong could wholeheartedly accept this child who had no selfish feelings with him.
However, Meng Tong made an irrefutable guarantee in sincere and resolute words: "My heart for you is like my feelings for happiness, I will regard them as my closest flesh and blood, and I swear to you with my dignity! I understand your personality, and I will do my best to tolerate and accommodate you." ”
Hearing this, Na Ying seemed to see the dawn of a happy life in the future. She understands that it is rare for a man as good and affectionate as Meng Tong to be, and it will be a big regret in her life to miss this opportunity again. After careful consideration, Na Ying finally mustered up the courage to accept Meng Tong's deep friendship.
Third, Meng Tong's love for his stepson is very good
In August of the following year, Na Ying successfully gave birth to the crystallization of her love with Meng Tong - her daughter Apple. After marriage, Meng Tong always kept his promise, fulfilled the promise he once made to Na Ying, and warmed his stepson with a mountain of fatherly love.
Whenever Meng Tong came home from work, he always hugged him tightly before he went to greet his biological daughter Apple. Sometimes, Meng Tong would not hesitate to take and taste the leftover food from the apples, and he also ate the leftover noodles and rice with relish, without any dislike.
Na Ying's ex-boyfriend is rarely involved in the growth of the child, whenever he wants to visit Happy Happy, Meng Tong will always personally drive Happy to his father, wait for the father and son to meet, and then personally drive Happy Home to take Happy Home.
As time passed, under Meng Tong's careful care, Happy gradually regarded this stepfather as his other father, and became more and more mentally and emotionally dependent on Meng Tong, seeing him as an indispensable spiritual pillar in his life.
When Meng Tong bought sneakers, he was never biased towards his two children. Although the price of happy shoes is slightly higher than Apple's, this is mainly due to the fact that happy is older and needs more comfortable shoes.
Watching Meng Tong treat himself and his sister equally, Na Ying and her family all sighed: It is really a once-in-a-lifetime blessing to have such an outstanding stepfather.
4. Friction and mutual tolerance between husband and wife
Na Ying, this woman, is known for her straightforward and bright words and deeds, and her love and hate personality, which makes her words sometimes inevitably biased, easy to offend others, and often hurt her husband Meng Tong's heart at home because of her lack of attention to her words.
However, Meng Tong did not bother with this matter, he was well aware of his wife's character and understood that everything she said was unintentional, just a matter of personality. He has an incomparably broad mind, which is enough to accommodate these small flaws of Na Ying.
Once, Na Ying made the decision to invest 600,000 yuan without consulting Meng Tong. However, a few months later, my friend's company encountered business difficulties, and the funds invested by Na Ying did not return at all, like a stone sinking into the sea.
Faced with such a huge loss, instead of blaming his wife's rash behavior, Meng Tong chose to leave in silence.
A few hours later, Na Ying found Meng Tong sitting alone on a park bench in the community, and she apologized to her husband about her hasty decision-making mistake and felt guilty for putting financial pressure on the family.
Looking at his wife's expression of self-blame, Meng Tong sympathized with her situation, but took the initiative to soothe her emotions and reduce her psychological burden.
Na Ying's straightforward and fierce personality makes her often quarrel and conflict with people outside. Once, she was criticized in public by her friends for her inappropriate speech in public, and the atmosphere instantly became tense.
After learning of this, Meng Tong did not scold his wife like other husbands, on the contrary, he took the initiative to communicate with that friend, and finally succeeded in resolving the conflict.
Fifth, the road of tenacious love
They met in the 90s at the beginning of the 21st century, and have known each other for several years. After years of tempering, the relationship between Na Ying and Meng Tong has become deeper and deeper, and they have poured this emotion with tolerance, understanding and wisdom, and gradually repaired and mended the cracks in their feelings in the details of daily life.
The journey of marriage is not always smooth sailing, and it is bound to encounter various difficulties and challenges. However, Na Ying and Meng Tong supported each other with patience and tolerance, warmed each other's hearts with sincere emotions, and let the flower of love bloom with a charming fragrance in a warm family environment.
As a first-line music superstar, Na Ying is under the tremendous pressure of countless honors and material temptations. However, whenever she returned to her warm family, Meng Tong became her strong and powerful support. During Na Ying's tenure as the talent show instructor, Meng Tong always silently carefully planned and arranged all affairs, trying her best to create the most superior environment for her lover and her students, showing the quality of a good husband who cares for his family from the smallest details.
Looking back on 2021, Na Ying and Meng Tong have spent 15 years of marriage together. On the road of marriage in the entertainment industry, which is full of uncertainties, they support each other with their broad minds and profound life wisdom, face challenges and difficulties again and again, and finally create an enviable long-term happiness.
Although 15 years is not a short time, Na Ying and Meng Tong still adhere to their tolerance and respect for each other and maintain this deep emotional bond. Some people may wonder why a bright star in the entertainment industry would choose the ordinary and simple Meng Tong to spend the rest of his life with? However, they know that Meng Tong is the most precious haven in the depths of Naying's soul and her most reliable spiritual sustenance in the prosperous world.
6. The warmth and happiness of life
In Na Ying and Meng Tong's family, the family of four lives a harmonious and happy life. Under Meng Tong's careful education, Happy gradually grew into a brave, tenacious, and optimistic little man, which made Na Ying feel very gratified.
As he entered junior high school, his height grew rapidly and his personality became more and more sunny and cheerful. Meng Tong wanted to portray him as a real man, so he often emphasized noble qualities such as "courage", "perseverance" and "patience" in front of happiness, and personally accompanied him in swimming training, learning taekwondo and other sports activities.
In terms of educational methods, Meng Tong is quite strict with happiness, and sometimes even makes this child cry. As a mother, Na Ying always argues with her husband emotionally whenever she sees her children crying sadly, but in the end, they can always understand each other, tolerate each other, and play their respective roles with sincere love.
In this way, under the care of strong family affection, a family of four lived in harmony and shared the joy of family in this ordinary but warm family. Na Ying's parents are often full of emotion, Meng Tong is undoubtedly a once-in-a-lifetime good stepfather, he regards happiness as his own and loves him.