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01. Preface
Love is like two people playing hide-and-seek, and what men are most afraid of is that the game is over, but they have not yet found their beloved.
Bai Yang said: "Love does not develop according to logic, so we must always pay attention to its changes. Love is not eternal, so it must be constantly pursued. ”
Love will make a person become "timid".
Men who really love a person will be "afraid", and the most feared thing is that the woman leaves. Therefore, in the process of getting along, he will be very concerned about whether the woman's face is lost, sad, lonely and pitiful.
True love for a person, will be afraid of their own actions too reckless, will scare the other party. Even if you have a lot of love for her, you don't dare to show it very directly.
Even, dare not make the woman angry, do not dare to lose her temper, do not dare to let her face loneliness alone. He will spend a lot of effort to maintain the feelings between two people.
Men who love a person to the heart will often become "dare not", become timid, become cautious.
02, do not dare to speed up the rhythm of love, be careful
Men love to the depths, do not dare to speed up the rhythm, but will carefully test women.
Gu Wei in "Please Teach More for the Rest of Your Life" likes Lin Zhi school. But there was a big gap between the two people, and he didn't dare to rush after her, so he could only slowly use words to test.
He first used "your boyfriend will definitely be happy" to test whether Lin Zhixue was in a single state. Even though she knew that she was alone and very excited in her heart, she still did not dare to confess generously.
After that, he took the initiative to explain that the relationship between himself and his female colleagues was very "innocent", hoping that Lin Zhixue would notice that he was also single and give her hints.
Later, he said "I want to have someone to take care of me like that", frantically suggesting that she wanted to have a deeper emotional cultivation with her, but the other party's incomprehensible style extinguished his enthusiasm.
After that, he had been carefully accompanying her around, not daring to speed up the rhythm of love, until Lin Zhixue's friends broke Gu Wei's intentions, and the love between them really sprouted.
After a man is moved by a woman, he will be afraid of the too fast rhythm of love, which will scare her away. So, he will try to restrain his emotions.
Men even feel that if a relationship goes too fast, it will make women feel afraid and insecure.
So men would rather have two people starting as friends and then slowly developing deeper feelings; preferring to suffer some lovesickness themselves rather than give women room for wild thoughts.
03, do not dare to approach her at will, respect her with your heart
Men love someone deeply from the bottom of their hearts, do not make intimate gestures too early, and hope to be able to get closer to the woman when she is ready.
Men who love a person deeply will think that she is beautiful and will love very purely.
When a man treats women as the most important person and their feelings for each other as faith, then he will feel that any intimate act should have a sense of ceremony.
Men love a woman and pay attention to each other's feelings all the time. He prefers to let women slowly let go of all their defenses, let everything go naturally, and be able to come naturally.
Men's "dare not" get too close to women is actually love to the bone.
So, when in love, he would rather give all the initiative to the woman, and he just trusts her, pampers her, pampers her, and gives everything he has unconditionally.
When a man loves a woman deeply, he will be careful to probe when he is in physical contact, and will not approach her too quickly, giving her a feeling of frivolity.
Instead, he will treat the woman with great care and take care of her feelings until she is willing to give the palm of her hand into the palm of his hand.
04, do not dare to snub her, worried that she is angry
Men really love someone to the heart, do not dare to easily snub her, because they are afraid that she will be angry, because they are afraid that she will be angry.
In "Why Sheng Zhen Mo", after He Yichen and Zhao Mosheng got married, Zhao Mosheng casually mentioned that "none of you have seen your friends", He Yichen brought all the partners in the studio home and solemnly told everyone the news of his marriage.
Zhao Mosheng was a little disappointed that He Yichen had eaten with his adoptive father and adoptive mother, and did not take her with him. He Yichen then took her back to her adoptive mother's house and persuaded her adoptive mother to accept her and give her enough respect.
Every time he goes out to socialize, He Yichen will say "the family is tightly managed, you know", and then find an opportunity to slip away at the first time. Then quickly return home and see your wife to be at ease.
A man has a woman in his heart and wants to be with her all the time. Wanting her to feel secure enough to give her full privilege.
Everywhere cares about her feelings, afraid that she will get angry. Don't want her to feel like men don't care about her because of any one thing.
Men love a person to the bone, will be everything with her as the center point, meet all her requirements, and dispel all her concerns.
05. Summary
From the bottom of his heart, men who truly love a person to the heart will become worried and "dare not" act arbitrarily.
Shakespeare said, "Love is a puff of smoke blown by a sigh; a lover's eyes have its purified Spark; a lover's tears are the waves it stirs up." It is again the most intelligent madness, the bitter taste of the infarction, the honey that cannot be eaten by the mouth. ”
Love will present a variety of states.
When a man truly loves a person in his heart, he will become "timid". Don't dare to try bold moves, don't dare to venture in, don't dare to snub the woman you love, afraid that she will be sad and angry.
Loving a person affectionately, a man will not be willing to let a woman suffer a little, unwilling to let her suffer a little for love. Therefore, she will take care of her feelings everywhere and become cautious.
Woman, if there is a man who hurts you so much, please cherish it with your heart. Because, true love, can not be sought.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.