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There is a sentence in the "Green Snake": "Sister, is it worth it for you to cultivate for a thousand years for a Xu Immortal?" ”
Many women in life, will also continue to ask themselves, married to him, for him to give everything for him, is it worth it?
In fact, as long as it is a man who is really good to himself, it is worth it, and a man who does not take himself seriously is not worth it.
But in today's society, people's hearts are impetuous, true and false are difficult to distinguish, and feelings are difficult to identify. However, love and non-love are impossible to hide, between the opposite sex, can do the following points, is true love.
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Know each other's preferences
Relying on sweet words to maintain feelings will not last long, many times to support a relationship for a long time is not only companionship, but also to understand each other's preferences, because "understanding" is always more important than "love".
It's like a sentence in "The Dream of the Covered Bridge": "People will spend a minute to know a person, an hour to like a person, and a day to fall in love with a person." ”
Everything comes from knowing, knowing everything about the other person, especially the other person's preferences.
In "Meteor Garden", Daomingji likes sugi, that is, from the beginning of the rejection, fight, teasing each other, step by step gradually understand, only later confessed to shancai, and hope that the two people can work together for a lifetime.
However, The mother of the Domingji temple did not agree. But The Daoming Temple knew that Sugi liked to play the piano, and on a special occasion, with many guests present, he let Sugi play a piano song.
Sugi's skillful piano skills, the piano along her delicate fingers to make a euphemistic and beautiful sound, her pure and elegant temperament impressed the mother of the Daoming Temple, let her recognize the Sugi, and finally the Daoming temple and The Sugi successfully held hands.
Only two people who truly love each other can find out each other's preferences, involuntarily remember each other's bits and pieces, and show their skills when needed to express their love.
Preference is not only the best performance of a person's quality and cultivation, but also one of the reasons why the fate of two people can intersect perfectly, and it can perfectly display a person's personality and talent.
It can make your love sweet, life happy, and fate smooth.
02
The money he earns is for you to spend
Bacon said: "Money is something that has wings, sometimes it will fly on its own, sometimes it must be released to bring more back." ”
If a man spends his hard-earned money on you, he must be truly in love with you. Because in his eyes, you are much more important than money, he feels that it is worth it to "exchange" money for your love.
Someone on the Internet asked: "What is the ultimate meaning of our money making?" A highly praised answer: "Give flowers to your beloved." ”
Money, many times, is the best way to test people's hearts.
In the TV series "Why Sheng ZhenMo", He Yichen deeply liked Zhao Mosheng from the first moment he saw her. After a few times of getting along, he gave his card to Zhao Mosheng.
Zhao Mosheng met He Yisheng is the best choice, because He Yichen loves her enough, even if he knows that she has the problem of spending money indiscriminately, he is willing to give his card to Zhao Mosheng and let her spend it at will.
In fact, Zhao Mosheng does not have to spend He Yichen's money, but she also likes He Yichen, she thinks that spending He Yichen's money is happiness and safety, and He Yichen is also willing to let Zhao Mosheng spend his own money, he also thinks that it is happiness.
Zhang Ailing said in "Zhang Ailing Su Qing Dialogue": "With her husband's money, if you love her, it is a kind of happiness." ”
Money is something outside the body, but feelings are the true feelings of two people. If you really love someone, you will treat her as the right person, want to have a good future with her, and will not care about breaking silver.
The man who loves you will be willing to give his wallet to you for safekeeping, and will let you spend his money anytime and anywhere. Because he loves you, your hearts are in love.
03
The phone lets you look at it casually
Regarding mobile phones, it has been controversial in the relationship.
Some people feel that when men and women get along, one party should not check the other party's mobile phone, which will affect the feelings of two people.
But some people feel that if they are in love, they should be transparent with each other, and mobile phones should be the common things of two people, because this is the most real love.
Chen Xiaoming said: "Mobile phones cannot repair the inner emotions of traditional life, but they can alienate contemporary life. Mobile phones seem so at ease when it comes to playing a role that subverts contemporary life. ”
If you really love each other, you will give the phone to the other party to use at any time, and there is no secret, you are also willing to let the other party enter your privacy, because this is the best love.
Friend Xiaojing often quarrels with her boyfriend because of her mobile phone, and at the end of the quarrel, the boyfriend throws out a sentence, I am like this, you love it. Xiao Jing cried bitterly.
Three years of feelings, Xiaojing paid a lot, but her boyfriend often chatted with the opposite sex On WeChat so she couldn't stand it. Sometimes he didn't carry Xiao Jing on his back, and Xiao Jing was very angry, saying that he didn't respect her and didn't have her in his heart.
Later, the two people broke up because of mobile phones. But in three years of love, Xiaojing has never touched her boyfriend's mobile phone.
The reason is that the boyfriend's mobile phone has always been where the person is, the mobile phone is where it is, and Xiaojing only has sadness and tears.
Dickens said, "No one deserves your tears, and the people who deserve to make you do this will not make you cry." "The man who makes you cry must not love you, must not care about you."
People who really love each other can always use each other's mobile phones without scruples. Because he has already unloaded all his defenses in front of you, you will always be more important than his privacy.
Such a man is sincere to you, he will give you enough security, and when you meet it, cherish it.
04
As mentioned above, whether it is a husband and wife or a lover, there has been "intersection" to be considered to be truly in love.
We will meet many people in our lifetime, but there are not many people who can understand your preferences, spend money for you, and give you their mobile phones.
If a person can remain transparent in front of you without reservation, it is really accepting you and really loving you.
For the rest of your life, may you meet people who know you well, be with your own unreserved companions, and live happily together, a happy life, a happy life.
As Zhou Libo said: "The most beautiful love in the world is the bravery when paying for a person, even if it is hurt to the skin, there is no complaint or regret." ”
The person who bravely gives everything for love is the one who really loves you. True love has nothing to do with anything else, what matters most is sincerity.