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Not all the pursuit of all efforts can get the result of mutual satisfaction.
The love that can be received is often preconditioned.
It is said that women chase men across the yarn, and men chase women across mountains, but this is not the case.
If the door of the person you ask for is closed and will not be open to you at all, even if you give everything you may not be able to get half of his sincerity.
The sunlight filtered through the gaps in the leaves, and it just sprinkled on The Spring's eyes, causing her to squint her eyes and block the uninvited guest with her hands.
She stared at the sturdy figure on the court, her mouth flicking, her left hand already clenched and fisted.
A sentence on the court: "Score", Tuchun's eyebrows stretched at once, her body had the urge to jump upwards, and the action she was about to shout was stopped by herself the next second.
Lin Muxiao, a boy who walked into the heart of Painting Spring. That year, the spring breeze was gentle, and Lin Muxiao walked into her heart like this.
Painting Chun said: "At that time, it was obviously early spring, but when I saw him, I only felt that the flowers were blooming." ”
For three years, all Shu Chun had asked for was Lin Muxiao's shallow smile and tender eyes for her.
Loving someone, there will be an obsession with being together, so Hua Chun can endure the coldness in Lin Muxiao's eyes, and appear in front of him again and again, just for him to be able to look at her, just a glance...
Hua Chun knew better than anyone what kind of ending she and Lin Muxiao would have, only because when she looked at him, she often saw Lin Muxiao's eyes staring at another person.
Near graduation, each running to things, painting spring to prepare for the end of this period of bitterness. She trembled slightly, and said to Lin Muxiao with a vibrato: "I will not like you anymore, Lin Muxiao, goodbye!" ”
As soon as she finished speaking, she turned around and ran, she had long forgotten how long she had been running, and in the end she only felt that her heart was hot and she couldn't even breathe smoothly.
It turns out that suddenly stopping running will make people unable to breathe alone.
In fact, the attitude of the boy you like hides your final ending.
If the boy you pursue is always cold and distant from you, then your persistence is mostly meaningless.
If the man you're after is willing to do this to you, it means you have a chance to be together, please stick with it.
First, he has no heart and is willing to get along with you
The reason why most unrequited love does not have a good ending is often because the person who loves it already has a heart.
Just as when you have one person in your heart, you can no longer see the light of others.
If the guy you're pursuing is in an emotional blank space, your chances of successfully pursuing him will be greatly enhanced.
The reason why Shu Chun can't be with Lin Muxiao is because Lin Muxiao has a person living in his heart.
In "Why Sheng Zhen Mo", why Zhao Mosheng was able to catch up with He Yichen, a big reason is that He Yichen's focus at that time was on academics, and his emotions were in a blank period.
Of course, why Chen Chen will fall in love with Zhao Mosheng is inseparable from Zhao Mosheng's own "excellence".
The boy you like has no heart to belong to, and he will most likely be willing to get along with you.
When the boy you like meets this condition, then the possibility of you being able to be together will be greatly improved.
Second, he will feedback that you are good to him
For some boys, he will fall in love with someone often not because of a momentary heartbeat, but because he is conquered a little in the process of getting along with that person.
If the boy you are pursuing will feedback that you are good to him, will take the initiative to be good to you, and will take the initiative to help when you need him, then it means that you have begun to walk into his heart, and it is only a matter of time before he accepts you.
Why did he see that Chen Chen and Zhao Mosheng were together? That is when He Yichen no longer "resented" Zhao Mosheng's appearance and was willing to solve the difficulties of the department student sister for Zhao Mosheng.
If the man you're after has a change of attitude toward you and is no longer intentionally alienated, but will start thinking for you, then please stick with it.
Some guys really need to give him some time to see how good you are to him.
However, if your dedication to your dedication has exhausted you physically and mentally, and you can't see that the other party has changed or shaken, then it means that you have no possibility of being together, then it is better to give up as soon as possible.
Perhaps, your sudden turnback can still win the other party's attention, and the willow dark flower is another village.
He's willing to spend time for you
In "Foreign Daughter-in-law Local Lang", Yumi pursues Henry for a long time, but never gets Henry's favor.
In order to be Able to become Henry's girlfriend, Yumi even pretended to be a "savage girlfriend", intending to do what he liked to make Henry change his heart for her.
Despite Yumi's willingness to change in this way, Henry avoids her and adopts a policy of avoidance towards Yumi.
Yumi's defeat had long seen the "answer" in Henry's deliberate estrangement.
If a guy isn't willing to spend time for you and isn't willing to be alone with you, then there's no possibility between you.
Conversely, if the guy you're after is willing to spend time with you, it means that the two of you "have a play."
The vast majority of boys, for the suitors who do not have a good feeling, will actually avoid it, especially the other party is still pressing step by step.
If the boy has no evasive attitude and is willing to spend time for you, it means that his subconscious accepts your existence, and he begins to accept your goodness and sees your goodness.
In love, not all changes are bad. At least in the matter of chasing love, a boy will have these three "changes", willing to get along with you, willing to spend time for you, willing to be good to you, not in the initial attitude. That would mean that the two of you will have a good ending, and your persistence is really meaningful.
Chasing love is not the patent of boys, and girls can be brave when they meet love. However, not every boy you love will fall in love with you because of your persistence. If the man you love has these three changes, then please insist, the rainbow will come, you will be happy.
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