Almost every year, there will be an inexplicable disgust to set off a "retro tide", but this year's retro tide is not a specific TV series, but a special character representative - love brain.
From Wang Baochuan digging bamboo shoots to He Yichen, who is willing to "do three for love", it seems that only love brains can't think of it, and there is nothing they can't do.
We are angry, but we are also grateful that these "anti-love brain heroes" have given us a wrong demonstration, whenever there is a thought of love, as long as they think of them, they can dissuade the onset of their love brain symptoms.
After all, no one is willing to become Wang Baojun's cold kiln and wait for 18 years and dig all the wild vegetables in the mountains, but it is best to stay away from a love brain like He Yichen.
For a long time, He Yichen was the standard of a 100% boyfriend in the hearts of girls.
Not humble and unassuming, self-made, handsome, affectionate and single-minded, in the absence of results, silently waited for the heroine for 7 years.
It is precisely with the existence of a "benchmark boyfriend" like He Yichen that in real life, girls have a "He Yichen" filter for boys engaged in the lawyer industry.
But as you grow older and your emotional experience increases, you will slowly find that the seemingly perfect He Yichen actually has many fatal shortcomings, which must be avoided when looking for a boyfriend in real life!
The first is that he is withdrawn, indifferent, and does not like to explain when things happen.
During college, He Yichen had few friends and was always alone.
In the 7 years of working after graduating from university, except for Xiang Heng and Lao Yuan of the law firm, there were no friends who could talk about at all.
When he was in a bad mood, he called Lao Yuan out to drink, but he didn't drink a few sips, he left alone first, and didn't explain much, leaving Lao Yuan with question marks on his face.
If you meet such a friend in real life, I am afraid that after being released a few times, you will not have much contact!
This attitude of reluctance to explain is also emotional.
7 years ago, after Zhao Mosheng's father talked to He Yichen, he did not mention the content of the conversation or the reason why he disliked Zhao's father, because Zhao's father indirectly killed his parents, so he directly said to Zhao Mosheng coldly,
"I wish I had never known you. Do you want to come to me again! ”
This sentence is a complete breakup declaration in any situation, and Zhao Mosheng is the one who was broken up and notified from the beginning to the end.
But in the past 7 years, he has never mentioned his hurtful statement to anyone, allowing all his friends around him to misunderstand Zhao Mosheng.
Let everyone think that Zhao Mosheng abandoned himself and played with his feelings, watching everyone "embarrassed" Mosheng, and did not explain a word for Mosheng.
Obviously, he asked Mo Sheng not to come to him again, but after 7 years he said why don't you come back???
Even when Mo Sheng asked him why he didn't explain, his first reaction was not to apologize, but to say to Mo Sheng,
"Lovers don't often say such things between each other, and these words just give you a reason to fly away."
In other words, I didn't mean that at the time, and I can't help if you have to think so?
Isn't this the proper scumbag PUA speech?
This is also the second fatal flaw of He Yichen, that is, he feels that he has never done anything wrong and has never apologized.
And it's the kind of righteousness that makes people doubt life, and can't help but wonder if they have done something wrong to lead to the current situation.
But in fact, in the 7 years since Mo Sheng left, the two people have no contact, so why Yichen has to bear a lot of responsibility.
He Yichen's third shortcoming is that he is very, very vindictive.
Mo Sheng went to the law firm to find He Yichen because of the dispute with Shaomei, and as a result, He Yichen let his family wait in the café for a whole day on a rainy day, and also asked his assistant to ask Mo Sheng,
"How does it feel to wait for someone?"
Although this sentence was not said to Mo Sheng in the end, it was enough to prove his character.
In addition, when the two people communicated because of Shaomei's case, his attitude towards Mo Sheng was also consistent cynicism, and he didn't care about Mo Sheng's feelings at all.
It's totally a feeling that you've done something wrong and I'm punishing you.
Of course, it is undeniable why Yichen has many advantages as a boyfriend and husband, he is single-minded, family-oriented, and does not mess with flowers, but his shortcomings are also obvious, conceit, revenge, no love of explanation, machismo, never admit that he is wrong, cold violence...
And just being cold and violent is enough to dissuade many girls!
I believe that many people are like me, when I used to watch TV series, I was envious of Zhao Mosheng who could have He Yichen, and now I feel that Zhao Mosheng, who is brave for love, is the most precious.
She was born in a relatively wealthy family, and although her mother was very distant from her, her father gave her a lot of love.
Surrounded by love, she grew up gentle, sunny, strong, kind, brave, and warmed the people around her like a little sun.
After falling in love with He Yichen at first sight under the big tree, a fierce attack on him began.
Even if He Yichen was indifferent and mean to her, she could smile and run towards him again without care.
In the face of someone you like, how many girls can have the same courage as Zhao Mosheng?
She is a little princess who was found in the palm of her father's hand, but she does not have a little temper. He understood Shaomei's difficulty, understood He Yichen's conceit, and never showed any superiority in front of them.
Even after the family suffered major changes, he still maintained a pure conscience.
After learning of her father's death, Zhao Mosheng clearly chose to take her father's inheritance and live well, but she chose to donate all her property and study, work and live in a foreign country.
Even if his life was very tight, when he saw someone asking for help in the newspaper, he still gave the other party the only money he had to help Ying Hui get through the difficulty.
When she saw that Sister Juan, a neighbor who had been taking care of herself, was in prison for hurting her abusive husband, she did not hesitate to fake marriage with Ying Hui in order to keep Xiaojia from suffering in the orphanage, such pure kindness, not everyone can do.
After returning to China, in the face of the difficulties of her colleagues, the sneers of Yichen's friends, Yichen's cold violence, and Yimei's past injuries, she did not care, but chose to forgive, understand, and accept, even if she was the victim in these relationships.
She is generous, understanding, soft on the outside and rigid on the inside, a girl with such a personality, even if there is no He Yichen, she can live a very happy life, because she is the kind of person who has the ability to make herself happy.
And He Yichen, if there is no Zhao Mosheng, I'm afraid that no one can really endure his various strange tempers!
In fact, He Yichen's personality is very much in line with his personality.
His parents died at a very young age, and life under the fence led him to be a man with great self-esteem.
And people with strong self-esteem are actually very easy to be conceited.
Although you are very capable and can become a leader in a certain field and are good partners, it is not a good choice as a boyfriend and husband.
If it weren't for Mo Sheng's gentle, strong, and tolerant character, but a very stubborn and straightforward person like Shaomei, or a proud person like Yimei, I'm afraid it would be difficult to really go on.
I don't know if you have found that in recent years, young people's emotional outlook has changed very much.
Take "Three Lives and Three Lives and Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms", which opened up a new era of fairy tale dramas.
When this drama was a hit, Zhao Youting conquered the hearts of many audiences with his plastic surgery-like acting skills, and the Yehua he played also became the "dream lover" of girls.
And now, such a lover is also very low-headed.
When Susu first entered the Heavenly Palace, his attitude towards Susu was very cold. Although in his understanding, this is protecting Susu, but from Susu's perspective, it is a negative man who changes his heart when he is pregnant.
When Su Jin wronged Susu, he knew Susu's innocence, but he still ripped off Susu's eyes. If you change to Donghua or Mo Yuan, you will never let your lover suffer like this.
From a modern point of view, isn't Yehua the kind of weak man who dare not go against the wishes of the family and let his lover suffer?
The same is true of the ancient idol drama "Prank Kiss".
If you want to rank a ranking version of the cold violent ability value of the male protagonist of a film and television drama, He Yichen and Jiang Naoki are definitely comparable. are not fond of explanation, watching the other party pay, they look very difficult and great.
Make your lover very insecure, and there is no way to determine the other person's feelings for you. Only self-doubt and self-denial.
Love stories always like happy ending, so no matter how many shortcomings the other party has, how discordant the plot is, it will eventually usher in a good direction.
But real life is different, and if the problems in personality and the contradictions in the relationship between two people cannot be solved in time, it is difficult to go to the end.
Detached from the love story in real life, we have made up an unrealistic dream, but after waking up, we must not be so-so about our own life, our own love, and our own marriage.
No matter how good the other party's conditions and abilities are, as long as there is an irreconcilable contradiction in your relationship, you must stop the loss in time!
Fortunately, now young people are sober enough to distinguish "scumbags" and "pseudo-good men" (yes!). It is said that the ability of He Yichen, Yehua, and Jiang Naoki is also rising, and they will not sink into it as before.
Just like Zhao Liying's version of Qing'er, known as the originator of anti-love brains, the premise of loving someone is always to love yourself.
Don't become a love brain like Wang Baochuan because of temporary reluctance and unwillingness, and eventually harm your life.
Of course, if you are not Zhao Mosheng, then it is not a big deal to meet a love brain like He Yichen and leave early.